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Shoe
Dedicated September 2010

Day 1 of Marriage and I hate it. Advise please.

Shoe , on September 29, 2010 at 11:24 AM

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Married life is not what i expected. My husband always been kind and considerate and loving as a fiancee. and in our long distance relationship but after the wedding, I moved to his city to finally be together. He always said he cant wait till we start living together but now that we do, he doesnt...

Married life is not what i expected. My husband always been kind and considerate and loving as a fiancee. and in our long distance relationship but after the wedding, I moved to his city to finally be together. He always said he cant wait till we start living together but now that we do, he doesnt even seem to change ANY of his single ways. It is like I am not here. On top of that, I dont have a job yet and I need to wait about a month before I start working. He is at the gym all the time, he works so late and then takes business trips. When he is away, he is always sayng he misses me but when he is home, he is either trying to finish up some more work or at the gym or watching sports. I have never been an attention seeker but now it is annoying me and I am acting all sulky when he talks to me. Another thing, when we go to his family's, he is etremely nice to THEM and apologizes for things I have been telling him not to do, things he just shrugged off. My big problem now, I want to

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  • MRS.THOMAS2B
    Beginner July 2011
    MRS.THOMAS2B ·
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    Remember...marriage is not going to be easy, and NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT! I don't care who you are, how long you've been married, or how in love you may be....NO ONE IS PERFECT, SO NO MARRAIGE CAN BE PERFECT. Marriage is going to bring more problems for you to solve, but it's HOW you chose to solve these problems together as a couple that determines the longevity of your marriage. And the way to do this....is KEEP TALKING!:o)

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  • rabecca
    Just Said Yes November 2019
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    Go to the gym with him. And find something for you to do. Too. Relax a bit. It’s just the beginning of you lives. He is adjusting too just in his own way.
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  • OldSchoolKindaLove
    Devoted September 2018
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    Did this work out? I share the same views on a lot of things that you and your husband went through....I would appreciate you letting me know.

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