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Alyssa
Dedicated June 2018

Curvy girl in a mermaid dress ?

Alyssa, on October 23, 2017 at 7:10 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 151

I had one of my bridesmaids tell me I shouldn't get the dress I ordered. That it wasn't flattering. My mom and 3 of my bridesmaid loved the dress on me. Feeling a little confused on if I should order a different dress . But I felt so beautiful in the dress when I tried it on. Thoughts on curvy...

I had one of my bridesmaids tell me I shouldn't get the dress I ordered. That it wasn't flattering. My mom and 3 of my bridesmaid loved the dress on me. Feeling a little confused on if I should order a different dress . But I felt so beautiful in the dress when I tried it on. Thoughts on curvy ladies in mermaid dresses?


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  • Margarita
    Dedicated December 2017
    Margarita ·
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    Everyone has their own vision for how they want to look as a bride. For me, it was the princess ball gown, and some of my family had negative opinions about that. I'm slender, with a "nice" figure, and everyone was pressuring me to get a mermaid dress. My aunt was extremely vocal against my beautiful ballgown and made me feel exactly how your bridesmaid made you feel. I stuck to my gut though! My dress is my dream dress and it's my wedding! Do you, and shut out the haters!

    Furthermore, there is not one dress on earth that EVERYONE will love. I've seen this personally. So you just have to trust yourself

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  • Brittany
    Just Said Yes April 2020
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    Rock it girl!

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  • Valerieee
    Dedicated September 2018
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    I love it! And remember, your FH probably will love to see your curves!

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  • Spaghetti
    VIP November 2018
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    You look great in that dress. I'm sorry but that was real bitchy of your friend to say.

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  • KATA
    Devoted April 2018
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    I think a mermaid dress needs a curvy girl to make it look good and you did just that!! Go with your heart!!

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  • Christina
    Beginner October 2018
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    You look amazing, and look like you're beaming. It matters more how you feel in it. Sometimes you need to think what made the person say that to you. Maybe there was a bit of misplaced jealousy or something behind it. #sadforher

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  • Laura
    Dedicated November 2017
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    Echoing other posters... you look fantastic! It's true that the mermaid style doesn't work for everyone, but this dress is seriously made for you! Your friend sounds mean; ignore her and wear that gorgeous dress!

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  • Kiss*Kiss
    Devoted October 2018
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    It just needs to be altered and then it will be very flattering

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  • Dena
    Master April 2017
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    This looks great on you. Maybe your friend is still into the 90s heroine chic look. I think it's extremely flattering.

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  • Kaye
    VIP October 2018
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    I'm not fond of mermaid dresses in general, but this looks great on you!

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  • Vanessa
    Dedicated April 2018
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    You look beautiful on that dress !!

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  • Tiffany
    Savvy May 2018
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    This dress is so beautiful on you! Not everyone can pull off that style dress. But you my lady are!

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  • Leila
    Super October 2017
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    Love the dress not crazy about the straps

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  • Kiss*Kiss
    Devoted October 2018
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    I think it is also important to know not everyone has the same taste. She was most likely not trying to be mean just giving her honest opinion when it wasn't needed. She also my lack the vision, like many people do, to be able to visualize the complete look when the dress is finished and made for you. I'm my opinion you look amazing. But the only thing that matters is of you love it. Love the way you feel in it. Love the way you look in it.

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  • michelle d
    VIP January 2018
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    You look amazing. Tell your bridesmaid to suck it....jealous crow!

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  • Jessa
    Just Said Yes April 2028
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    You look beautiful in that dress! Be confident!

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  • valgal
    Savvy October 2019
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    I think you look wonderful! It depends on how you feel. If you love it go for it!

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  • Trevor
    Savvy January 2019
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    You are beautiful

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  • Alexa
    Dedicated August 2019
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    I think it flatters you very nicely. And it's such a pretty dress

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  • M
    Savvy May 2018
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    Its pretty much amazing on you

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