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Soon2Bbride
Dedicated September 2009

Crazy wedding anxiety dreams anyone?

Soon2Bbride, on September 6, 2009 at 7:37 AM Posted in Planning 0 37

I've had wedding anxiety dreams for a few months now and again.But by now it's almost every night!

The most recent was that my dad walked out on me just before the wedding and I had no one to walk me down the isle. And almost always, I dream that my FH sees me in my dress before he is meant to- and I'm always so angry at him for seeing me!

I was actually thinking of wedding before going to sleep last night and I could feel my heart rate quickening so I had to do a few relaxation techniques and think of something completely different. But of course I had a wedding dream last night!!

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Latest activity by Sally, on May 27, 2010 at 7:31 AM
  • Vanity
    Dedicated February 2010
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    My wedding is not untile feb 13 but i too have been having wedding anxiety dreams.Yes they have been some crazy dreams to. Like one of them i had for got my shoes so i had to walk downwithout them., So i know how you feel.I am starting to get to the point too waer i can not sleep some night. I don't know why i am so worried becaues i have a wedding planner.

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  • bay
    Expert November 2009
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    My first one was last week. I dreamed that we arrived and had such a great time exploring the island, going out to dinner and having a few drinks. Come Sunday night we were packing to leave the next morning. When I opened the closet our wedding attire was hanging there untouched and here we forgot to get married. It was too late to do anything about it.

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  • naynay79
    Super January 2010
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    I think we all have some crazy dreams about our weddings. It is very normal. I dreamed that we got married at my old high school in drama class. LOL . I see you are very close to your wedding day since your thinking a lot and doing a lot for your wedding; you will have more crazy wedding dreams.

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  • AHairston
    Dedicated September 2009
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    OMG!!! You asked the same thing I have been wondering I ask my FH if he's been having crazy dreams about the wedding and he said No, me on the other hand have been having them off and on for the last two weeks or so. I keep having one where I'm walking down the isle everything is so beautiful and my FH is standing there waiting for me and I fall, I mean like trip head over feet, dress over my head slide on my face type of fall...LOL...and I keep having one where the DJ lost all our music so instead of walking down to music everyone is humming for us, but looking nervous wondering why the hell they have to hum as I walk out...hahaha..horrible!!

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  • VegasBride
    Super September 2009
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    I have had wedding dreams just not anxiety dreams. My dreams have basically been me running over every last detail and timeline repeatedly.

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  • cnmnfe44
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    Vegas bride my dreams are also mostly just going over things reasurring my self actually my mind is racing so much its hard to fall alseep but last week i had a dream my dress caught on fire and the morning of the wedding i had to go to a bridal store down the street from the hotel (way overpriced there) and use my credit card to get a dress

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  • W
    Master June 2010
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    I keep having dreams where the wedding doesn't work out the way it's supposed to (a bunch of different variations on this one. Once I didn' have shoes, another time it was in my parents living room) and I'm dissapointed, but I'm still so freakin happy! I think it's a good sign.

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  • Brunette Bride
    Just Said Yes June 2010
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    My wedding isn't for another 9 months and i had my first wedding anxiety dream 2 nights ago.

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  • Bonnie
    Dedicated September 2009
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    My FH had a dream last night that I had a pink and orange wedding dress, lol. He asked me like 3 times if my dress is orange and pink just to make sure. The first time he asked I just looked at him and said the dress is supposed to be a surprise, lol. He calmed down a few minutes later. I'm glad I'm not the only one with wedding dreams, hehe.

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  • grlbtful
    Dedicated October 2009
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    That was a funnt dream bay. i have neen having them for months. i am used to them now

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  • DawnDawn
    VIP March 2010
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    My latest one was that it was the day and I still hadn't made my dress so I figured another costume would work (renaissance wedding), searching the closet and can't find one. Then at the pre ceremony cocktail hour mingling and I realize that I should be getting ready. Guess what... no shoes, garters, or bouquet. But I have my chainmaile headdress! Guess I'm getting married in jeans, t-shirt, Chuck's and chainmaile! LOL Funny thing is I started having these dreams before I was even engaged and I still have 6 months to go :^D I spoze it all just keeps me on track. Good luck and no worries about the dreams. Just focus on how wonderful your day is going to be.

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  • fireflyjunkies517
    Savvy May 2010
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    Glad to hear I'm not the only one having these. I've had 3 so far and my wedding is still 9 months away. It's always the day of the wedding, and we forgot something. Several somethings. But its always things that there's no way we could possibly forget in reality. Like, oops! We forgot to invite anyone! Or, Wait, wasn't our wedding supposed to be a month from now? No wonder no one is here! Or, I completely forgot I needed to buy a dress!

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  • Country Bride
    Devoted July 2010
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    OMG!!! I thought that I was crazy! I have been having wedding nightmares for about two months now and my wedding is not until July! I have roughly two or three dreams a week! They are always horrible. One dream I got stood up at the alter and another, it pored rain the day of my wedding (my reception is outside). It sucks!

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  • AidaLily
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    I have crazy wedding dreams all the time. Like the salon I am getting my dress from order the wrong gown. That it starts storming on my wedding day (my ceremony is outside) and things like that. I think it is just normal to have crazy wedding dreams no matter when your wedding is.

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  • Jessy
    Master May 2010
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    I've only had one... I dreamed that I was waiting in this room for the wedding to start. Someone was suppose to come get me. But they didn't. They just casually strolled in, fixed themselves a cup of tea, and then mentioned that some of the guests were leaving because they had been kept waiting too long. Instant panic!

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  • bay
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    Oh my, some of these sound aweful, I think I'm having an anxiety attack... LOL Vegas bride your re-occurring dream sounds like the movie Groundhog's Day!

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  • Mrs shdvl
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    I not having wedding dreams. Tomorrow night is the first time I have to step into the role of committee chairperson with my son's cub scout pack. We are recruiting at one of the local elemetary schools. I had dream last night I was running my toddler all over the school looking for a bathroom in uniform. The layout of the fream school was the same as schools I have went to personally as a kid not the nreer one we are at tomorrow night. I am suppose to be finishing up some signs instead of on the compter.

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  • Mrs shdvl
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    BTW I am currently potty training my toddler.

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  • Whitney
    Just Said Yes May 2010
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    I started planing my wedding a year and half before the date but now 9 months till I have had the same wedding dream three times and I wake up very stressed from it and can't go back to sleep after because I am thinking about the wedding. In my dream I show up and nothing is there or ready, and everyone who is suppose to help and be supportive. like the moms and my planner, is just sitting around with excuses. I'll ask whats going on and they'll say something like well the table cloths never showed up so we couldn't do the center pieces or anything! And then I have to run out in my wedding dress and go get the table cloths myself and freaking out about getting everything together before the guest all arrive!

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  • Sabrina
    Beginner April 2010
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    Ok so I just had my first wedding nightmare as you would say. It all started everything was going so perfect and then all of a sudden my wedding day changed to 1 day later and I had NOTHING ready or anything except for a dress. My guys had no tuxes, had no venue, or anything. I mean it really freaked me out. I hope nothing bad happens like that when the wedding actually gets here. AHHH~

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