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Dedicated September 2009

Crazy wedding anxiety dreams anyone?

Soon2Bbride, on September 6, 2009 at 7:37 AM

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I've had wedding anxiety dreams for a few months now and again.But by now it's almost every night! The most recent was that my dad walked out on me just before the wedding and I had no one to walk me down the isle. And almost always, I dream that my FH sees me in my dress before he is meant to- and...

I've had wedding anxiety dreams for a few months now and again.But by now it's almost every night!

The most recent was that my dad walked out on me just before the wedding and I had no one to walk me down the isle. And almost always, I dream that my FH sees me in my dress before he is meant to- and I'm always so angry at him for seeing me!

I was actually thinking of wedding before going to sleep last night and I could feel my heart rate quickening so I had to do a few relaxation techniques and think of something completely different. But of course I had a wedding dream last night!!

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  • Tabi
    Just Said Yes October 2010
    Tabi ·
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    I've had at least 5 awful dreams now (including one last night!) and I still have over a year to go!! Last night's was about being in a totally different location, but all my vendors are at the right one, and I don't have a dress or music or anything...then I realize that my wedding is still a year away, and I feel embarrassed. Hahaha. They crack me up! I've had dreams that vendors don't show up, or I don't have a dress, or I didn't mail the invites...all kinds of stuff!!

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  • F
    Dedicated November 2009
    Future Mrs. Leone ·
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    Yes, I have had many dreams about my fall wedding. Nothing bad, just a lot on my mind. Mainly just visualizing the day/night.

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  • Leti
    Expert October 2009
    Leti ·
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    Last night was my second wedding dream. I dreamt that we were at the wedding and everything went good, but the next day, we didn't remember any of it. It wasn't a horrible dream but I take it as "make sure you take in every moment and enjoy every bit of it because it will go and come". The dream a couple of weeks ago was about my hair getting done the day of the wedding and it was not done how I liked it and feel apart before the wedding. THAT WOULD BE HORRIBLE!

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  • Gershelda
    VIP October 2009
    Gershelda ·
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    Oh been having dreams like this for about 4 months now...rather getting used to it. BUT, the other night, I did have a dream where I was walking down the aisle, and everything was perfect...the decor was perfect, the music was perfect, everyone was dressed and everything was perfect...except I was in my undies! NO DRESS...walking down the aisle that was perfect, on my dad's arm with my bouquet, and there was fh standing there looking at me like I had went insane!! No one else seemed to notice that I was in my bra, panties and shoes, with my veil flying in the wind. I couldn't understand why fh was looking at me like that. So I got married, in my undies and nothing was said....except afterwards, fh asked me "where the hell is your dress"..that's when I woke up. LOL...too funny.

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  • C
    Master October 2009
    CelticChick831 ·
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    I have had several and most of them involve my FH distroying my dress somehow (I love the one where he decided to wear my dress playing paint ball the best) or I have a lot were the weather is very very very bad, like huricane bad but we are bound and determined to still have the wedding outside. The most recent ones have been that either the vendors dont show, or they drop the cake or I over sleep. The over sleep one makes me wake up every time too.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes October 2009
    Lisa ·
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    I have been haveing the coo-coo dreams for about six months now. Pretty much ever since we started getting serious with the planning. I just enjoyed being engaged for while first. So first dream I was walikng down the isle in a brown burlap bag? then another one I was at my fitting and the shop had me in the wrong dress, similar but not the right one. and the latest I was arriving at the salon for hair and make up about 5 hours late. the receptionist was trying to tell me that i would have to come back tomorrow??? by the time I turned up at the salon, which in my dream happend to be across the street from the catholic chuch where the ceremony was supposed to be, all of my guest were already seated in the church waiting for me. And I am across the street argueing with the receptionist that tomorrow will be too late?? In reality we are getting married at a hotel in a garden? My FH has had one where at some point in the evening we lose his mother?? Crazy. but funny too

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  • O
    Devoted October 2010
    OctoberBride ·
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    We're starting to narrow down/updated our guest lists and budgets (we've been engaged for about a year, so some things have changed), and some nights I feel like I dont sleep - I wake up in the morning feel like I speny the whole night running through the lists in my mind. Numbers, names, numbers, names. It's tiring!

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  • Skoogirl
    Dedicated October 2009
    Skoogirl ·
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    I have them all the time. The two worst ones were when I couldn't find anyone to do my hair except the amish and they didn't have hair dryers. The other one no one noticed until after the wedding that the photographer never showed and no one took a single picture.

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  • Konichiwa
    Master January 2010
    Konichiwa ·
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    I had one last night (only my second so far). I've been kinda stressed about hair and stuff so in my dream they did my hair and make up and it was completely teased out and crimped and held up by what I can only describe as a banana clip. And I know I'm on this site to much because Celtic Chick was organizing a group wedding and I was running late to catch the plane to where she was and was totally freaked out that my hair was so awful! LOL!

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  • Chris n Muffen
    Just Said Yes April 2010
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    At last...........Im not alone..Im brand new to this site and still playing with it, but I had my first dream lastnight. Thought I was crazy at work today....YAY..i'm not! It was not rerally a bad dream, just a worry dream. Now that I know that is only natural.......I feel so much better.

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  • Jessy
    Master May 2010
    Jessy ·
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    I had a crazy dream that for some reason my wedding was taken over by a Madonna concert and fashion show!! How random is that? Smiley laugh

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  • Kari95630
    Expert October 2009
    Kari95630 ·
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    LOL Konichiwa! Your dream is so funny! I, too am having insane dreams that's seemed to spread to my entire family since both my mom and aunt are having them also.

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    Master October 2009
    CelticChick831 ·
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    LOL, and my FH told me I was on here too much.

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  • MrsDevine
    Master August 2010
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    My weddings 10months away. and ive had 2 already. all the big stuff for the big day is ready, and i wake up late. i have to rush to get ready by myself, and i ran out to make it on time. my hair is a mess, i have smeared makeup on from the night before, and my dress is huge, poofy, and ugly. i arrive and my fh is standing there waiting for me patiently, looking amazing, and suddenly everythings ok. lol. same dream ive had twice

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  • T
    Just Said Yes October 2010
    the undecided ·
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    I havent even booked anything and already they have started!!! To make it worse it's the same one! I have got a really large room in anticipation of having 250 guests plus and I am standing there by the DJ with only about ten people including staff!!!! Its made me panic so much I am thinking of booking a really small room n packing everyone like sardines so at least doesnt look empty!!!

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  • kmm3y
    Just Said Yes October 2010
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    My wedding is 8 months away and I have at least one wedding dream a night. In it I am either getting married tomorrow and nothing is done or it is the actual day of the wedding and still nothing is done. No dress, no bridesmaid dresses, no hair and make-up people. It is awful! I wake up in a panic every time.

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  • Sally
    Just Said Yes August 2010
    Sally ·
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    This is a great thread... More please!! I've got 2 months to go now, but started having anxiety dreams about a year ago. Most of them are about no one really thinking that the wedding is a big deal, they all sit around in really scruffy clothes drinking pints of lager! One I really hate is where I don't know ANY of my guests and I end up sitting alone on a table is my wedding dress. Last night I was in the wrong venue, the aisle was sloping downhill, My sister wouldn't put on her bridesmaids dress, I forgot an essential part of my attire, I was wearing grey socks with my shoes and there was an intermission half way through in which I had to have a costume change! My FH also had one last night when the wedding went ahead as planned, but I married somebody else!! I wonder what adventures tonight will bring!!

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