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Eamsee
Super June 2019

Chocolate Wedding Cake

Eamsee, on March 10, 2019 at 1:23 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 131

This seems so silly to me, but I am catching a lot of flak from friends and family for wanting to have a chocolate frosted cake. Our reception package comes with the option of a few different bakeries and choices of cake, filling, and frosting. The bakery that we liked best makes cupcakes with the...

This seems so silly to me, but I am catching a lot of flak from friends and family for wanting to have a chocolate frosted cake. Our reception package comes with the option of a few different bakeries and choices of cake, filling, and frosting. The bakery that we liked best makes cupcakes with the filling of the would be cake used as the frosting for the tasting. I am not adventurous with cake flavors and it just so happened that both of our favorite was the classic yellow cake with dark chocolate fudge "filling". Great! Well, I absolutely hate vanilla icing. If I am served a slice of cake with vanilla frosting, I eat around the frosting like a 6 year old and not eat the part of the cake that touches it. I know, it's ridiculous. I asked my fiancé if he would be ok with having them frost the cake with the same fudge that they are using as the filling since I hate vanilla, and he was on board with it. Well, ever since it came up in conversation at a family function, everyone is insisting that we must have a white frosted cake. Why? because it's traditional and taboo to have a dark wedding cake. Umm... come again? I flat out said "Well, sorry, but I want to be able to eat and enjoy my own wedding cake" and yet, everyone still is giving so much unwanted solicitation on "cake etiquette". They keep saying that the guests won't be happy with it.

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Anyone else hear of this or have an opinion on the matter? I mean, it's yellow cake with chocolate frosting, not pistachio cake with cherry filling and maple butternut frosting. (photos of random chocolate wedding cakes off Google images for reference).

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  • Eamsee
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    Hahahaha!!! I don't blame them!

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you. I found it strange too. Like, I've never walked into a wedding reception, seen that the cake wasn't white, and then got so upset and thought "how dare they!!??". I just don't get it.

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you!

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you! Citrus sounds delicious! My fiancé's mother makes a killer lemon can from scratch and it's a nice change from the more common cake flavors.

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  • Eamsee
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    Thanks for the advice! We originally were going to do a dessert table like how you are describing, but due to life events we had to cut back quite a bit. That was the first to go since the cake is already included in our package. I don't bring up details of the wedding for that very reason of not wanting to hear 1,000,000 different opinions. But we were at a family dinner and when I was asked if I wanted a slice of cake (chocolate cake with vanilla icing) and declined, that's when I was asked if we had picked the wedding cake flavor and design, and so the cake interrogation began.

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  • Eamsee
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    Oooooohhhhh I love chocolate and mint! That sounds delicious!

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    Thank you! We are definitely sticking to our decision. The only fruit filling in cake that I liked was when I had a chocolate cake with one layer of filling of chocolate ganache and the other a very thin layer of raspberry and the whole thing coated in chocolate ganache. I personally am not a fruit filling person. That grooms cake sounds wonderful!

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you!

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    Thank you for the advice! Originally we were also going to have a dessert table with cupcakes, cookies, and pastries in addition to the wedding cake, but do to life events we had to cut back. Since the wedding cake is included in our package, the dessert table was the first to go.

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you! What did you decide to do instead of the half and half cake?

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    Thank you!

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    It’s your wedding! Do whatever you want! The suggestion for the naked cake is a good one if you’re wanting to lean towards kind of being traditional. But if you’re not, full frosting it and make it chocolate! It’s the best flavor anyways!
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    Thank you! It's strange what is considered taboo or a untraditional when it comes to weddings. Another odd thing that I got a lot of grief over was the limousine. Unfortunately our wedding also happens to be prom night for almost every high school in the county. So the majority of places were already booked up when I started calling for price estimates. I was able to find one in the size that I needed to a decent price, but it is black, not white. I couldn't care less, as long as it is clean and works, I wouldn't care if it was hot pink. But my family had a fit when they heard and said I had to arrive to the church in a white vehicle or else the marriage would be doomed to failure. Such superstitious nonsense.

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  • Eamsee
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    Thank you! That sounds like a very yummy cake, and it will be a surprise for the guests when they see the cake cut open. There's a lot of us chocolate lovers out there!

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    Very true. Thanks!

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    Thank you!

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    Thank you! That's a great idea, but unfortunately, I don't like white chocolate. I'm a dark chocolate kind of gal. That's one reason why we chose this bakery above the others. Their chocolate fudge is made from a super dark and rich chocolate. This is actually a photo of cookies they make with their fudge on top.

    chocolate fudge cookiesChocolate Wedding Cake 1


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    Thank you! It's true that it is hard to not second guess yourself when everyone in the peanut gallery has something to say about it. But let them whine, I'm having my chocolate wedding cake!

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    Oh my God, that cake is AMAZING!!!! I absolutely LOVE your cake topper as well!!!!

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    Thank you! I normally keep all wedding details to myself for the very reason of not wanting to hear everyone's 2 cents. We were at a family dinner when I was offered a piece of cake (chocolate cake with vanilla icing) and I declined. Then someone asked if we had chosen a wedding cake flavor and design and well... down the rabbit hole I went.

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