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Cheating - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:46 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 82
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Last question!! Do you firmly believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater"? Or is a history of cheating just a red flag for you?

Red flag or a deal breaker?


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Latest activity by Sweetness, on December 25, 2020 at 11:04 AM
  • H
    Super September 2019
    H ·
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    Absolutely 100% deal breaker. I have three children I need to set an example for. I don't know if I believe once a cheater always a cheater, but I do not give out second changes if you cheat.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Deal breaker. Cheating is one of those things that would be hard to look past!

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Deal breaker
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Deal breaker without a doubt

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  • Tamera
    Expert May 2020
    Tamera ·
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    Definitely a deal breaker. No excuses for doing that.

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Deal breaker, we wouldn’t share similar values and that’s important to me. People can change but I’d only marry someone who felt as strongly as I do about it from the beginning.
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  • Meghan
    Rockstar October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    100% deal breaker.
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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kaitlyn ·
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    Deal breaker.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    Deal breaker.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    Deal breaker.
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  • Meghan
    Super September 2019
    Meghan ·
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    Deal Breaker. History of cheating is a major deal breaker. If it was a one time thing years and years ago and hadn't happened since could maaaaybe consider overlooking it, but it would take a long time to build and ensure trust.

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    Deal breaker
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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    Deal breaker, however we all have our pasts and have made mistakes. Once, years ago, in a previous relationship, is not a deal breaker for me, but if it happens while we are together or it seems to be a pattern, then yes, deal breaker for sure!

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  • Stephanie
    Super August 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Definitely deal breaker.
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  • Brooke
    Expert November 2019
    Brooke ·
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    No doubt, 110% DEAL BREAKER
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·
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    100% Deal Breaker. Been there done that. I don't have time for the games.

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  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
    April ·
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    1000000000000000% deal breaker, seee ya later.
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  • Tara
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tara ·
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    10000000% deal breaker. I despise cheaters.

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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Deal breaker for sure!
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    Deal breaker. Maybe people can change, but I’m not willing to gamble on that possibility.
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