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Kimi K
Master February 2012

Charging Admission to the Reception??

Kimi K, on January 4, 2012 at 2:06 PM

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As most of you are already well aware, I am having a DW in Key West. Since we're having more of an elopement - no friends or extended family will know about our nuptials until after we make our big annoucement. Since everyone loves a good party we have decided to have a formal, upscale BBQ in our...

As most of you are already well aware, I am having a DW in Key West. Since we're having more of an elopement - no friends or extended family will know about our nuptials until after we make our big annoucement. Since everyone loves a good party we have decided to have a formal, upscale BBQ in our hometown so everyone can get together and celebrate. BUT- we run into a problem. Our BBQ wouldn't be until June and we're getting married in Feb. Would it be terrible to charge an admission fee? The fee would be $10 - $25 per person and it would be given to our favorite charity. Since our guestlist is hitting 300ppl we figured this would be a perfect way to help our charity rake in the cash. We're having multiple carving stations, sides, a live country band AND DJ as well as open bar & basically all the bells and whistles.

Thoughts?

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  • Ab
    Master October 2011
    Ab ·
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    I get there are bells and whistles, and the pictures you posted look awesome, but that's not really a justification for charging admission; many brides on here have a fancy wedding and do not register and do not charge admission..I personally think it's a good hearted idea, donating to your favorite charity..I'm just trying to express what at least some people out of 300 might think, then again I supposed they can just not attend..However I'd honestly label it as a charity event then..that way you could possibly get away with charging even more. Sounds like you have already made up your mind though..

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  • Pumpkin's Sunshine
    Master October 2011
    Pumpkin's Sunshine ·
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    Awesome Thief- you shouldn't be so mean! She is everyone's best friend!

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
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    @Ashley R: I don't think I would have a dress code. I tend to stick out of a crowd since I'm Kimi K. ;o)

    Ab Z. A: A Charity event sounds like an amazing idea. The only problem is with charity events you have to have guest speakers and honorary members attend. That may bust the budget a bit. Good ideas though! :o) I'm curious to see what all my friends will think of the idea!

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  • The Awesome Thief
    Master February 2010
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    I'll even tell her i love her at the end of the night.

    then i will never call her again.

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  • That one chick who's married to that one dude
    Master April 2012
    That one chick who's married to that one dude ·
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    Hey Kimi, I will be the guest speaker for free admission!!

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
    Kimi K ·
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    Will you speak about our wedding as the slideshow commences?

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  • Heather
    VIP October 2011
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    I think it should be a charity event for brides who can't afford an awesome wedding but whose parents won't put up the dough, either. Kim Kardashian can be the guest speaker.

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  • That one chick who's married to that one dude
    Master April 2012
    That one chick who's married to that one dude ·
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    I would say whatever you would want me to say. Smiley laugh

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
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    Heather, I like the way you think!

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  • Kimpy
    Super October 2012
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    Make sure you don't put the ice too close to the BBQ pits. UNLESS you hire a sculptor to make fresh ones as the others melt!

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    You forgot the jetpacks. And the unicorns.

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
    Kimi K ·
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    Well, duh Kimpy. The Ice bar will be placed in the corner closest to the woods (summer temperatures drop back there from the shade) The fire pit for the smores won't be lit until dusk and that's on the other side of the tent. BBQ pits ??? We're not camping. This is a reception. It's catered. :o)

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  • countrybride*H*
    Master April 2012
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    I'm with that one chick.. Saving up $35 between now and June won't be hard. I'll be saving every penny to come to this kick arse reception!

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  • That one chick who's married to that one dude
    Master April 2012
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    If you go to mcdonalds several times in a month (or any fast food place) you can go to this reception! Hmph

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
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    Why have unicorns when you can be one?


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  • P
    Super June 2010
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    Sounds totally awesome! Can I come! how about a wet t-shirt contest?

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  • Kimi K
    Master February 2012
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    ^ Negatory. This is an upscale BBQ. Not a white trash redneck party.

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  • Abby
    Super April 2012
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    No offense really but isn't the whole point for people to celebrate your wedding even if it is months later? It seems tacky to ask people to pay. If you really want to donate to charity then have a dunk tank where people can donate that way. Or as people to donate what they can. It shouldn't be a requirement to give you $25 dollars in order to celebrate with you.

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  • Kristi
    VIP August 2012
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    My honest opinion is that charging to get into your wedding reception is extremely tacky. I see where you are going with the idea though. What if you call it an extravaganza or a gala. Not a wedding reception. You can let everyone know that it's for charity and the proceeds will be distributed as such.

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  • Tach
    Master July 2012
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    Awesome idea! I really think they should feel honored that they were even invited!

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