Is there an etiquette related to how centerpieces are distributed or what should the couple do with them? I plan to have lighted branches on each table. I then want to give one to each bridesmaid (6) keep 2 MOH and my mom. I will have about 13 tables. MY Fiance thinks that the right thing to do is to let each table decide who gets it and doesn't think my idea is appropriate. What can be done? I am attaching a picture of the centerpiece (not the vase).