Bridesmaid Meeting

A meeting about? I didn't have a meeting.

I also have not had a bridesmaids meeting. What are they for?

Didn't have any meetings.. We just had a WhatsApp group that we all sent ideas too and arranged schedules to dress shop etc.

We are covering game plan for the day before and day of so I can adjust plans to accommodate everyone's schedule

Nobody is having meetings because meeting are for companies. They aren't your employees or your slaves. Just text them the times. If they can be there, great, if not, who cares?

We talked about the cocktails we were drinking and the pool we were sitting beside because I invited my friends over for an afternoon by the pool not a committee meeting.

You do not need bridesmaids meetings. You don't need bridesmaids binders.

I honestly wouldn't bother with a bridesmaid meeting. I don't know about you but I don't have time to sit around and discuss other people's weddings with people I don't necessarily know and I'm sure my friends don't either. Call them if you want to chat or go to dinner or something one on one! Unless you guys are all friends then maybe just go to dinner together and not call it a "bridesmaid meeting".

My bridal party is scattered from Cali to South Carolina so no meeting. Even if we all lived here I wouldn't have one. If you want to do it that's your prerogative.

@Almost Now that is a good idea!

My meeting I've made proposal boxes for everyone and I have them a to do list and a question list for votes , I have dress and dress prices heel price hair style prices payment plans and etc to tell everyone and show pictures

A meeting? That's highly unnecessary. Also, if I were a bridesmaid and was handed a to do list I would laugh in your face.

Wait, wait, wait. Shoe prices and hair prices and payment plans? No no no. The only thing they're required to buy is the dress.

Please dont do a to do list, its very insulting. Let them offer to help.

Marquita... That's not how this works.

It's my wedding and things go my way if you would laugh in my face you would be kicked out the party simple as that they to do list is getting dress heels hair done nails and toes done etc

&& if you didn't have one or wouldn't have one from my question if I could read correctly you didn't have to comment on this post , I asked for advice for ones who have had one . thank ya

Based on your comments, I would be completely fine being kicked out for laughing at your to do list. You're expecting far too much from your bridal party. The only thing that they are required to do is buy the dress and show up.

You do not get to make them pay for anything beyond a dress, even then you need to consider their budget. You are being what is known as a "bridezilla". You're being a terrible friend.

That's what my meeting is for to see what and can't be done and my payment plan are for ones who are sailing I have travel agent who is doing payment plans and one who is in the party do hair and she is willing to set up payment plans and dresses they can set up a payment plan everything has a deadline

I would never dictate to my friends what they had to get done..that's awful..!!!! I asked my two girls who wanted tan, nails, makeup etc and then I arranged it for them. It's not their job to organise or do things for your wedding!!