I’ve been on the verge of tears for the past 24hrs because I can’t make one of my best friends happy. She’s asking the impossible for a bridesmaid dress. I found one that’s $80 (it will need a lot of alterations) the other girls (and me) love, but she has a very different body type than the other girls and I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable or not pretty in the dress, which she said she will feel. She wants a long sleeve, modest dress, costing $50 or less.
I thought of the option of having everyone pick out their own dress they want from a website online, that way the colors and material is matching but everyone gets something they feel pretty in (and I don’t have to deal with drama because I have really bad anxiety already and this is making it worse). However, nothing on that website is long sleeve, and she doesn’t want to be cold (it’s a winter wedding, and even though I’m buying them expensive fur wraps as gifts, she’s still concerned). And the dresses are $100-140, so I’d end up having to buy her dress for her.
Help, I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable, or feel like I’m catering to the “skinny” girls and not caring about her, because I really do care about her opinion, a lot. She would have been my maid of honor if I didn’t have my cousin being my MOH. I don’t know what to do