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Kashawn
Super March 2017

Bachelorette party disaster

Kashawn, on March 6, 2017 at 10:59 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 69

So what was supposed to be a weekend of fun in Miami turned into a complete disaster. Everything was good. Was having fun but my cousin who is the MOH brought her friend on the trip which I'm ok with but then they started separating themselves from the group which if your out here to celebrate me why are u separating yourself.

Then yesterday everything came to a head when my MOH wanted to do her own thing but the group wanted to do something different. One of my friends and my MOH had so much tension between each other which put me in the middle and stressed me out which I'm already stressed because I may not have a job when I come back to work because they may lay us off. So my friends and my MOH and her friend separated last night and while everyone was out partying I was in the room by myself so I can let people in the room. My last night on vacation and everyone was being selfish and didn't even consider me into the equation. I'm just ready to go home to my FH.

I needed to vent

69 Comments

Latest activity by Nonna T, on March 7, 2017 at 8:09 AM
  • MTMA9917
    VIP September 2017
    MTMA9917 ·
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    This is why destination bachelorette parties are almost always not recommended.

    They are ALWAYS drama filled, no matter what.

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
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    People dying is a disaster.

    Bachelorette going south because you have selfish friends is just unfortunate. but not a disaster.

    Priorities woman. Be grateful you had people who wanted to come party with you and move on.

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  • K.M.
    Master September 2018
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    I was thinking the same thing @MTMA

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  • RosieOutlook
    Expert October 2017
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    Just so we are on the same page here, you expected everyone to be with you and "celebrating" you 24/7?

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  • APD
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    This is not anywhere near a disaster. Your friends spent money to go on that vacation with you, sorry they didn't want to sit in a hotel room and sulk with you.

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
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    Well the whole purpose of everyone coming out here was for me.

    ETA: but I was left in the room while everyone got to do their own thing and have fun the last night here.

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  • vghjfcxgxfgdh
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    vghjfcxgxfgdh ·
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    Look on the bright side, you have an even better day coming up this weekend. You will soon forget about all the drama Smiley smile

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
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    It sounds like your MOH was sick of being around the rest of your group.

    A full weekend is a LOT of time to spend constantly celebrating someone. Clearly, she needed a break.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
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    You paid for them to travel there and the stay?

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  • J. Clo
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    Sorry that your bachelorette party did not go how you wanted and about your job situation. I hope all this tension will die down or be addressed before your wedding.

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  • APD
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    Smell that? Smells of entitlement.

    If you have anyone there with you it is no longer all about you. Life, believe it or not, is not all about you. Think of others when they spend time/money and take time off work to go on a trip with you for you.

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  • MTMA9917
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    YASSSS @APD!

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  • Rachel Langerhans
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    Seconding what JoRocka said Smiley smile Bachelorette parties are luxuries, not necessities (and destination parties are just bad ideas in general, in my opinion, for many reasons). It does suck how your friends behaved, I'd be bummed too. But you just have to let it go.

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  • RosieOutlook
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    Lol the whole reason was for a girls' trip, not a "kiss my ring all day and tell me I'm the Queen" trip, I'm sure.

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  • Kashawn
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    Kashawn ·
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    I didn't want to stay in the room and sulk. I wanted to go out and have fun

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  • Nonna T
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    Oh Sweetie, the world revolves around the sun, not you, not your wedding.

    eta If you wanted to go out, you should have gone out. You chose to stay in to "let everyone in." Why I don't know.

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  • APD
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    If you wanted to go out and have fun, I'm confused as to why you stayed in the room alone. Was it because nobody wanted to do what you wanted to do? Sounds awfully childish. I think you should grow up and realize that not everything is going to be about you just because you are getting married.

    NOBODY CARES AS MUCH ABOUT YOUR WEDDING AS YOU DO!!!

    ETA: Words are hard sometimes.

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  • Celia Milton
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    Partly because I'm ancient and partly because I'm really practical, I think these multi day, lotsa dollar bachelorette parties are ridiculous.

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  • TheBlindBride
    Devoted June 2018
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    That sucks, but you have to take some responsibility for choosing to stay in the room instead of going out with one of the groups. Ultimately the amount of fun you have in this life is up to you.

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  • MTMA9917
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    You get ONE day for a bachelorette party, not an entire weekend.

    I wouldn't expect my friends to kiss my ass all weekend so...:

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