Bachelor party shenanigans?

This is really a conversation for you and your fh. I personally wouldnt mind if fh went to a strip club for his bachlor party. To me it doesnt matter where a man gets his appetite, so long as he comes home for dinner

Mine went - it didn't bother me. He doesn't usually go to them anyway, so I was ok with this one time. I was more concerned with him passing out somewhere or him breaking a bone after stumbling drunk down stairs.

Mrs P, ooohhh a cat fight! LMAO I knew there was some shit goin down when i saw this post had 100 hits! Ok, i will side with Mrs. P. I woulndnt dont like it! I dont want those chics heating my man up, and then have him come to me. I will do the heartin up around here! Lol I just think the whole thing is gross and disrespectful....but im old! Lol :-)

@JK8115 Hahaha! Once upon a time I was a size 4 (sigh... To be that skinny again) and one of my friends was taking burlesque classes in Chicago. So I went to a show with her and I was hooked! I started taking classes and eventually was asked to perform, although no... I'm not good at twirling anything lol... And that's that. It's really an amazing experience to even see a professional burlesque show. Women (and men) of all shapes, ages, and sizes just up there doing their thing! Even my prude Roman Catholic mother had fun. Anyway, I moved to Arizona and was going to join a troop here, but actual work got in the way and burlesque was just a hobby. I gained weight, lost a ton of flexibility, and started back at school.

I have an issue with it, but that's because we are the only people that each other has been with. Nothing to do with intimacy or trust I just don't want FH that close to another naked woman in person.

There is nothing intimate about a strip club lol. No, I don't mind it.

I totally 'get it' but I'm not personally the biggest fan of it. Luckily for me, that's not really my Husband's thing, either. So, he did end up going to a strip club but I think he gifted away his lap dance to his groomsmen! ... or so he tells me

Why is this back?

No shade LMAO!!!

But if everyone FH hates strip clubs how is they make so much money LOL? What do men love them when they young and single and them grow to hate them when their old and married. Or is it like GYN everyone hates but we all have to go.

Really? this again?

I feel like I just read a thread about this........

at the end of the day, it boils down to communication. Just talk to your FH about it..... a forum with hundreds of opinions is not going to sway your emotions on this one way or another, because everyone here is so different. (which is awesome!)

go with what your gut makes you feel, and talk to fh from there. at the end of it all, hes the only one who will make you feel any different from what you feel right now.

good luck... its a weird conversation to have, but it may open gateways to other conversations you may never thought about having.

@Alexis, I'm very jealous of your past life, including the size 4 part. I really want to see a burlesque show. Fucking cleveland...so boring

Oh but burlesque is everywhere http://www.clevelandburlesque.com

Omg I really had no idea! One of those is the day after my bday... I'm totally going

When we first started dating one of DH's co-workers had his bachelor party at a strip club. I knew about it, but did not say anything until he asked. I let him know that I do not mind if he goes to a strip club, but if he receives a lap dance touches them, I consider it cheating and cheating is a deal breaker for me. He went to the bachelor party, but skipped the strip club with several of the other guys invited.

Wow... What did I just read.. ?

This thread has made it all day since the time I got up until bedtime without anyone getting butthurt enough to start flagging or hiding posts. Bravo!