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Are you inviting your co-workers?

Lynnie, on September 3, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 98
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Did you decide to invite your boss or any of your co-workers? How did you decide on your colleagues?

Did your co-workers make the cut?


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Latest activity by Sweetness, on December 31, 2020 at 2:13 PM
  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    I invited many of my old jobs coworkers because we were all like family. My new job I only Invited a woman I knew through my old job, the woman I work with directly each day, and the two woman I met while in new job training. All of the people we hang out outside of work.
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  • Brittany
    Super October 2020
    Brittany ·
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    I am not inviting anyone from my office. Most of them are from another location and the ones I have at my office I am not close enough to have them share the day with. None of my co-workers made the cut on my guest list.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Yes. I am inviting my whole office. There is only 8 of us all together that work at my office. So they will be invited. My FH can't decide about his co-workers.

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    We planned on inviting co-workers since they know we're getting married, but we've since decided against it. If we haven't spent time with them outside of the office (aside from REALLY close work buddies), they aren't invited.

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  • M
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    I invited some of my co-workers.

    The others did not make the cut for various reasons.
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Yep! Several. They’re like a second family.
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  • Kellie
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kellie ·
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    No. Our wedding is out of state. We are bringing his sister, brother in law, nephew and best friend to our wedding.
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  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
    Brae ·
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    I invited one, but we got extremely close after meeting, even going on vacation together. She was invited to my bachelorette and bridal shower. I look at her as a friend more than a coworker now. Also inviting an ex coworker, but similar situation of becoming good friends. Other than that no one from work.
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·
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    Yes, almost every coworker of mine is invited, not so much FH, though he has a few, he more considers them friends.

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  • Sara
    Expert October 2020
    Sara ·
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    Ugh this is so hard. As of right now I am not inviting my co-workers and fiance is inviting some of his. Fiance has worked at his company for like over 10 years and we have gone to a lot of work events together so I have met and spent time with a few of his co-workers. the tricky part is I work directly with 2 people and have been talking about the wedding a bit with them. I feel weird not inviting them, but..??

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    I don't work, but we're inviting all his co-workers. He works for a small plumbing company and they're like a family

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  • Odette
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Odette ·
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    Just a few... the very special ones.
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  • Megan
    Super October 2020
    Megan ·
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    I’m not sure. We’re stuck on this. We keep going back and forth, because I don’t want to be rude by excluding some coworkers but I would only want to invite a few that I’m close with. My fiancé just started a new job so as of now he is friendly with people but not close enough to invite them. Good thing we’re still a year out! It’ll give us time to decide about this
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  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
    Jess ·
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    I invited some from past jobs that had an impact on me and that i knew very well.
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  • Sara
    Expert February 2020
    Sara ·
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    I invited one coworker (technically three because I work with my mom and FH). She's the only person I work with who is in contact with me outside of work on a daily basis. Well..the only one other than FH and my mom. Haha
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  • Gmm
    Devoted October 2019
    Gmm ·
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    Yes, my boss, team members and a few people I consider friends in the office.
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  • Brittany
    Super May 2020
    Brittany ·
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    I am only inviting my close co-workers, the ones I work closely with and talk to or hang out with outside of work.

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  • Chinda
    Devoted November 2020
    Chinda ·
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    No coworkers. I’ve been a stay at home mom for a few weeks. (Trying to hang out with the kids before they go back to school) but I am a nurse and I don’t like to mix work with personal business.
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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Yes I’ve invited most of my co workers because to me they are like my second family. FH is inviting just the ones he’s close to.
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  • T
    Dedicated September 2019
    Teresa ·
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    I'm only inviting two of my coworkers because both sit right next to me and they both have been pretty generous with time off and gifts celebrating my engagement.

    At my old job I probably wouldn't have invited any coworkers mostly because there would've been too many to invite.

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