My shower is in 2 weeks and I am super excited! I didn't want one at first but FMIL insisted on throwing one. Now that we are getting closer I am very excited. FH and I will be buying a house together after the wedding, we have lived together for 4 years but with my dad because he is all alone. So we registered for our own stuff to fill the new house. I can't help but check the registry every once in a while. Anyone else checking their registries and ruining the element of surprise?