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Marlina A.
Master September 2013

Anyone share their wedding website on Facebook?

Marlina A., on April 6, 2013 at 8:15 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 20

I wanting to share my site with some people whom all are not invited to the wedding, but would that open up a can of worms? I thought it would be cool for people to see it and write a note in the guest book if they wanted but I'm afraid of drama. Has anyone shared their site? How did that turn out? Is there a way to share and say nicely that unfortunately everyone could not be invited? If it will cause issues then I'd rather not.

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Latest activity by Edith , on April 7, 2013 at 7:44 PM
  • Val
    Master May 2013
    Val ·
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    What I did was copy my URL and sent it by text to who I was inviting.. I'm sure you can do the same through private message on Facebook.. If you just post it on your wall everyone one of your Facebook friends will know your wedding business.

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  • M2H
    Master September 2013
    M2H ·
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    Yeah i keep my wedding stuff of of FB as much as possible. I wouldn't suggest doing it. They might think of it as an informal "here's the info and expect an invite soon." If they want to really see it or know about the wedding i'm sure they could by word of mouth or through mutual friends and family.

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  • Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C)
    Master October 2013
    Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C) ·
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    No experience but I personally wouldn't do it. I've shared engagement photos but that's the extent I'm going. I think there is too much sharing going on these days I kind of think its special to share less on the Internet and more in person. If there are some people that you think would really like to see it that aren't invited or can't make it then I would PM them.

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  • All Smiles
    VIP September 2013
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    We don't have a Wedding website but if I were you I wouldn't post it on FB. I would find it rude actually that someone would post it and I'm not even invited to share that moment, it wouldn't be fair. We both have FB accounts with "engaged" statuses but that's about it. The only people who knows about our wedding plans or date are those whose invited or in the wedding. I just find FB more of a public space while I'm a private person. NOW if you want us WW ladies to view it we would love too Smiley winking

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  • TheLuckiest
    Super June 2013
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    Our date, time, and venues are listed. There is no way I'm putting that on facebook because it would like asking my high school graduating class to crash. Not going to happen!

    An acquaintance of mine from college posted hers, and I enjoyed seeing it, but I was looking at it more to be a snoop than anything else.

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  • K
    Super February 2014
    Kat-Theis2B ·
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    Oh hell nooooo! Posting it on FB is asking for a world of hurt. Don't do it!

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  • Marlina A.
    Master September 2013
    Marlina A. ·
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    I ask because I remember an old co worker sent out the link to his site and I knew I was not invited but I thought it was sweet to look.

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  • Marlina A.
    Master September 2013
    Marlina A. ·
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    I will not be posting it. I will email the link to all my guests. Yes it would be way too much drama lol

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  • Marlina A.
    Master September 2013
    Marlina A. ·
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    Lol Lynzey!

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  • All Smiles
    VIP September 2013
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    I concur with Luckiest, you will have people who just want to be nosy and possibly use it against you. Also the wedding crashes would probably happen. There's some mean spirited people out there.

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  • Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C)
    Master October 2013
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    I mean I secretly snoop them all the time when people do post them... And I get sad when they don't because I love reading the stories of old HS friends and things like that... But like someone else said- it's got all the location info on there I don't exactly want to broadcast that either.

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  • Morgan
    Expert September 2013
    Morgan ·
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    I posted mine. Most of my responses were "Oh that looks great!" or something along those lines. I think most people have an idea if they are invited or not. No drama here so far. Smiley smile

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  • MrsRight
    Expert July 2013
    MrsRight ·
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    A friend of mine posted his on fb AFTER the wedding. I actually got some ideas from their site.

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  • Glenda
    Master October 2013
    Glenda ·
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    Nope

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  • soon to be MAT
    Super June 2013
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    I would be concerned about people showing up who were not invited, or needing to inform people who thought they may be invited that they actually are not.

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  • Courtney
    Devoted June 2013
    Courtney ·
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    I posted a link on mine...it wasn't an issue people know if we are close enough for them to be invited or not.

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  • Christine
    VIP September 2013
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    I wouldn't... but after it's all said and done you can update the site with the wedding pictures and maybe post afterward so people can see?

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  • ForeverMyLove
    Master December 2014
    ForeverMyLove ·
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    We decided not to share wedding information on FB.

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  • D1
    Master October 2013
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    Only posted on our save the date Private, Facebook event.

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  • Edith
    Dedicated May 2014
    Edith ·
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    I posted mine on facebook then again it is a destination wedding lol. No one is willing to come to Mexico. Hey they cant say I didnt invite Smiley smile

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