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LanaKane
Super November 2017

Anybody NOT doing an engagement shoot?

LanaKane, on May 22, 2017 at 10:31 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 123

I was just wondering since i don't remember couples doing that a few years ago. Is this a recent trend? My fiance doesn't see the need and i have to say im on the same page.

I was just wondering since i don't remember couples doing that a few years ago. Is this a recent trend? My fiance doesn't see the need and i have to say im on the same page.

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  • nolalishak
    Master June 2017
    nolalishak ·
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    We aren't. But our photog package includes one so we are doing a mini shoot with dogs in October when our photog will be in our city for another wedding.

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  • milinovemberbride
    VIP November 2017
    milinovemberbride ·
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    We didn't. For a couple of reasons, we're long distance and since we've been engaged, I haven't seen him and won't see him again until MAYBE July. Also, I'm not photogenic at all and hate photos of myself so I felt like it would be a waste of money and time to have a bunch of photos I hate of myself

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  • T
    Super August 2017
    Toya ·
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    I wasn't comfortable with my body but we decided together that we didn't want them and plus everyone loved our STD anyway

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  • Courtney
    Expert September 2017
    Courtney ·
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    Nope we didn't do them

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  • K
    Beginner March 2018
    Kiwanna ·
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    I think they are a great way to decide if you are sure about your photographer. Unless you have worked with them before or saw their work

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    We aren't doing one, but it isn't a recent trend. They were popular when I married XH in 2003 too, and it hasn't died down at all.

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  • Willbewilkins
    Expert December 2017
    Willbewilkins ·
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    We weren't going to, but we discovered that it was important to FH's mom, so we got some pictures for her. We didn't do an official engagement shoot. We just asked my dad to take some nice pictures of us then I sent them to my brothers for editing what I couldn't. I don't think it's recent. My parents said they had an engagement shoot for their wedding and they've been married almost 30 years.

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  • Lauren
    Expert September 2017
    Lauren ·
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    Were doing them even though were getting married in 3 months. We had over a year long engagement but FH was gone for a year of it. Its our way of meeting our photographer and making sure we like his style and that we get along. Plus FH and I suck at pictures...so practice makes perfect

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  • LuckyAK
    VIP March 2018
    LuckyAK ·
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    We didn't. My brother took a few for our STDs. Didn't want a full blown session.

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  • Willbewilkins
    Expert December 2017
    Willbewilkins ·
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    One more thigh to consider: a lot of photographers include an engagement shoot with their wedding packages. The photographers I spoke to were willing to trade the engagement shoot for either a boudoir shoot or extra prints.

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  • TheeOne2Love
    VIP December 2017
    TheeOne2Love ·
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    We wanted them for our STDs and wedding website. Bought a $40 groupon and the pics turned out great. Not necessary but more of a preference.

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  • August bride
    Super August 2017
    August bride ·
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    Skipped it

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  • M
    Devoted October 2017
    MrsJ ·
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    We didn't do it. We're not a big fan of pictures to begin with and knowing we'll be taking a lot on wedding day is enough for us.

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  • S
    Beginner June 2018
    Stacey ·
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    I've been engaged for 10 years...little too late for me and if rather spend the $ on the bar lol

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  • LaNette
    Expert July 2017
    LaNette ·
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    No engagement shoot for my FH and I.

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  • Rahel613
    Dedicated September 2017
    Rahel613 ·
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    My fh and I are photographers so we did them, but one of the groomsmen is one as well and he did them for free.

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  • Dij
    VIP May 2018
    Dij ·
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    We did! And I loved them! It was so worth it to me.


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  • MrsRushinin2018
    VIP September 2018
    MrsRushinin2018 ·
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    I'm with just about everyone else. I will probably ask my friend who does photography as a hobby to do some shots of us and call it the engagement pictures. We got an awesome deal on our photographer but he wanted $599 for engagement pics. I don't really see the point in spending a ton of money in engagement pictures when the wedding pictures will soon replace them.

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  • Sarah
    Savvy January 2018
    Sarah ·
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    My moh is taking them (she does photography as a casual hobby, never for money, but has a super nice camera) but if she wasnt going to I would have skipped. its a lot if money to spend when you need to pay for a wedding soon

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  • Heartbweeps
    Super October 2017
    Heartbweeps ·
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    Nope, didn't want them

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