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Kendyl
Devoted May 2014

already sad the wedding is over before its happened. i am officially nuts!

Kendyl, on May 19, 2014 at 1:39 PM Posted in Planning 0 16

We've been engaged for just over a year , the wedding is in 12 days and I'm already feeling blue about it being over! I've been looking at wedding stuff for so long and have spent so much time planning , now that theres nothing left to do and I know it will all be over soon I'm feeling a bit sad ! Its so weird, it seems like not too long ago it was 300+ days and now its here almost ! Anyone else feel/felt this way ?

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Latest activity by Precious, on May 20, 2014 at 12:25 AM
  • Lisa G.I'm a Mrs. now!
    Expert June 2014
    Lisa G.I'm a Mrs. now! ·
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    Yep, starting to wind down a bit today.....What the hell am I going to do with all my time now? LOL

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  • C + R
    Master November 2014
    C + R ·
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    Haha, I totally understand where you are coming from!! Wedding-planning has consumed so much of my life lately that I'm not sure how I'll fill my time after it's over. It really is bittersweet to see everything come to an end after months and months of planning!

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  • Ashlee
    VIP October 2014
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    Omg i feel this way already and mine is not until october!!!!! i just seen our venue is holding a bridal show 5 days after our wedding there and im already so upset i cant attend bc i wont be a bride anymore Smiley sad and ive been to every one of there bridal shows lol totally get how you feel

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  • Jaimee G.
    VIP January 2014
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    YES.. except mine is really over Smiley sad Its very depressing. I still spend a lot of my time looking at wedding things.. if only I could have a 2nd and 3rd and 4th wedding to the same man.

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  • Alice
    Devoted September 2015
    Alice ·
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    I'm sure I'm going to hit this point too when I get a lot closer to mine.

    Take the time to relax these upcoming weeks. Start the count down.

    'Cause your finally getting married!!!!!

    Don't think about how the planning is ending. Start imagining how your new married life will be. Smiley smile

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  • Tiffany
    Super October 2014
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    Yeah I feel the same too. Like most of my time and thoughs are towards wedding stuff so what will I do in five months when its over

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  • MrsNewvine
    VIP September 2014
    MrsNewvine ·
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    I totally feel this way & our wedding is still 4 months away! I feel like I'm going to need something else to plan!

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  • Stephanie
    Master November 2014
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    I'd try to do as little wedding-related stuff as possible for the next two weeks. Get done whatever needs to get done, but focus more on life unrelated to the wedding. It might make it easier to handle your feelings when the wedding is over, since wedding planning can become a major part of your life and identity.

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  • Kimberly N
    Super May 2014
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    I totally agree! My wedding is this Saturday and I'm a little sad it's almost over. But our HM is in September so we have something else to look forward to. Although having our in-laws staying with us already and still being at work has added some stress..

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  • Angela Marie
    Master May 2014
    Angela Marie ·
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    I'm right there with you ladies. I've been slowly weening myself off doing wedding related things. And when someone begins to discuss it, I quickly change the subject. It's going to be here so quickly. Having my last day of work 2 weeks ago helped a lot because I was able to get a jump on everything I was planning on leaving for the last minute. My goal is to be done with all things wedding by this Friday.

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  • DisneyNut
    Master October 2014
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    It's like the let down the day after Christmas.

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  • Meg
    Devoted May 2014
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    Hi date twins!

    I thought I'd be all wrapped up with planning at the beginning of the month and I'm still working on wedding stuff non-stop! I'm actually looking forward to it all being over.

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  • Jessica
    Super July 2014
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    It's like Christmas... You have all this anticipation and in 24 hours, it's over! Hopefully our marriages will be as exciting as our weddings!

    Smiley smile

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  • Allison
    Super April 2014
    Allison ·
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    I thought I'd feel that way and I occasionally see wedding stuff on Pinterest or here that makes me nostalgic (and obviously I'm still on this website) but for the most part, I was so relieved when it was over, especially since that meant more free time and less money to spend.

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  • OfficiallyMrs.Bentley
    Super May 2014
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    Hey 5.31 ladies! I will be relieved so that I can move on to something else and no more paying for wedding stuff. Just excited and ready for my day. Have a few more small things to complete. Hopefully by this weekend I can just relax all next week. Will definitely have a spa day soon after.

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  • Precious
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    Precious ·
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    I'll be getting a puppy to cope. That should occupy my time.

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