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I'm recently engaged and invited to way too many wedding this summer all without plus ones. I am planning on just attending the ceremonies and then leaving due to this. Is this considered rude? I...

My shower was yesterday and I would like to treat my MOH, BM and both moms to a brunch as a way to say thank you. I am getting gifts for each as a thank you for the wedding (to be given at rehearsal...

Hey ya'll! I'm attending a wedding about 4 hours away of a former co worker. My fiance is doing some major travel for work lately due to a merger and he'll get back late Friday night from travel and...

With not being married (yet) I attend frequently alone and my average is around $25-$40 Shower Gift and $50 Cash/Check for Wedding Gift. Is this being super cheap? Also when I...

There have been multiple weddings in my family where I was the only person excluded from a wedding party but now I am the one getting married and these are the same women that I would like to be in my...

I'm trying to find ideas for bridesmaid gifts. I was thinking about personalized getting ready bags? Maybe getting them each a small tote with a water bottle, a moisturizer or body lotion, lip balm, a...

Help! I need some advice on what to do... My bride has been my friend since we were kids and asked both me and her sister to be her MOHs (her sis has a new baby so I've been doing most of the...

So we both own our own homes- so we'll already be consolidating 2 houses into 1. The last thing we need is more crap! Isn't a bridal shower intended for when brides and grooms moved from their...

Is ours enough to hire a coordinator because I don't want to be bothered with small details or anything really. We're estimating 200 guests and we're putting in $30,000 of our own money and my...

So I've been engaged for 4 weeks and starting the wedding planning process and I am uninterested with it all. I have better things to do with my time than worry about some lame flowers etc? Is it a...

As an older bride I am now getting married of the first time when most people my age are having their marriages crash and burn. As someone who was consistently screwed over by not allowing plus ones I...

I have a large family and I had to make a rule that my cousins would not be able to bring a plus one unless of course they are married. Now I have just found out that one of my cousins wants to have...

One of my best friends and bridesmaids lives a few states away. I went to visit her and some other friends this weekend and got to meet her new boyfriend (of one month). He was a nice guy! No real...

I've heard a lot of stories on here about people inviting themselves, or assuming they get a plus one. How can I make it perfectly clear that no, you don't get a plus one. FH and I decided that unless...