![Dani](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/8/6/0/utmr_7516860.jpg?r=13394183)
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October 5, 2017
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280![Dani](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/8/6/0/utbp_7516860.jpg?r=13394183)
To be honest, I almost didn't bother with this. I wasn't super active in the forums on a regular basis, but I figured if one of the points of doing a BAM is to help out other brides (and grooms too),...
![Danielle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/4/7/7/utbp_7343477.jpg?r=14912676)
When is the best time to put the order in for your cake? And what are some really good flavors? Oh yeah I don't like chocolate or red velvet...
![cupcakecardinal](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/8/3/8/utbp_7151838.jpg?r=13346830)
DH and just got back from our honeymoon and opened our wedding gifts. Someone gave us baby booties without a card or anything. Ugh. So rude and creepy IMO. Definitely not pregnant and not planning on...
![Colleen](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/9/1/4/utbp_6803914.jpg?r=14000596)
I just asked a friend to be a guest book attendant. Do people still do this? The friend I asked had one at her wedding last weekend. The main reason I asked is because we had a board made with a quote...
![Stacie](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/6/3/5/utbp_8649635.jpg?r=15436649)
Hey ladies! My current favorite venue only offers drink packages based on consumption. For those who have done the same, can you tell me how many guests you had and what the final beverage cost was?...
![KatieMBY](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/1/6/8/utbp_7590168.jpg?r=14951062)
I'm trying to decide on a dress slip, however most of them are supposed to be worn with a corset or something along your torso to keep it up. My dress has boning in it that I would imagine would help....
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![mmbrake28](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/7/9/3/utbp_7610793.jpg?r=13855469)
Hi guys...I know I made a dress post yesterday but I went to another boutique today and now I'm even more confused. I really wanted a flowy, whimsical dress...but today the girl kept pulling tighter...
![Maria](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/9/3/0/utbp_7443930.jpg?r=14463896)
Just out of curiosity. Were you comfortable with what you paid? Was it more than you originally planned? Less? Just right? Did you splurge? Not splurge? ETA: Feel free to show off your dresses. I...
![Jackamelia](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/9/5/6/utbp_8146956.jpg?r=14041553)
So I'll admit it, I'm not a jewelry girl. As of right now, the only jewelry I'm planning on wearing are my rings. But everyone around me keeps insisting I have to wear SOMETHING. Anyone else going...
![Jan N.](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/9/0/3/utbp_7963903.jpg?r=14332893)
Hi Everyone! Is anyone else buying a wedding day scent? I fell in love with "Stella" and it's rose, peony, and mandarin notes.
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![ALSpit](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/6/2/7/utbp_6917627.jpg?r=14722724)
So I sent my save the dates over a year ago.. sent my invites out July 1st. My RSVP due date is on Aug 15th (the wedding is in NJ and I reside in FL so the timing with sending checks is necessary...
![Susan](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/5/3/1/utbp_7300531.jpg?r=13705777)
My dress is beaded under my armpits and while trying it on the other day I realized it may rub my arms raw. Does anyone have any tips to prevent this?
![Molly](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/8/3/1/utbp_7960831.jpg?r=14078173)
I'm not personally a fan of chavari chairs for several reasons even though they're super popular, but I also know that a plain plastic folding char is super cheap and tacky. I love the look of wooden...
![Kaley](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/1/3/1/utbp_7361131.jpg?r=14131797)
Where are you all getting married?! Who are your favorite vendors so far?
![Danielle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/2/1/3/utbp_7190213.jpg?r=13366068)
Hey all, Wondering if any of you had luck finding mother of the bride dresses for moms who are petite, and don't want a matronly looking dress. My wedding is in October and my mom is having a lot of...
![Catti Labelle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/6/3/0/utbp_7550630.jpg?r=14231745)
UPDATE: I decided to go with dress #1 with off-the-shoulder sleeves! More in comments. Ugh, I never thought I'd post one of these but I'm seriously stuck! Yesterday I went shopping with my sister, and...
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![Erin Wood](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/5/3/6/utbp_7113536.jpg?r=13200191)
Here are my ideas- -Shorten it and wear it on anniversaries -Try to sell it. Not likely given the rip in the train -donate it to someone who needs a dress. -Save it and let it sit in my closet until I...
![Dani](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/8/6/0/utbp_7516860.jpg?r=13394183)
I saw this tiara in a Quincenera look book, but cannot find it anywhere. The designer of the dresses doesn't make tiaras. I've spent hours looking at Etsy, Ebay, Pinterest, Google (yes, even reverse...
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