Discussions I've participated in

FH has one of the most common last names ever. I have tried everything combination of initials, wedding year, birthday, etc. and EVERYTHING is taken! Those that are taking common last names, what...

Does anyone know if we can have a catholic mass outside a church? I wanted to have my ceremony in my venue and wanted to have a priest come to us but don't know if that's possible.

My FH cousins have offered to throw a shower for my FH side of the family which I am very grateful for. My mom, sisters/MOH, friend/BM and aunt have offered to throw a bridal shower for my side of the...

So I would like to "surprise" my FI with a honeymoon in Germany since he is German and never been out of the country or on a plane, our honeymoon will be his first time flying. He has expressed...

My wedding was almost a month ago but I can't stop thinking about the big screw up I did. In general I'm a very overthinking person, I wanted my day to be absolutely perfect but I fudged up at the...

Hey so FH wants to have personal vows during the ceromony. He wants to memorize them (I think its a bad idea), so what are some neat and tasteful ways to read your vows with out it not looking like...

I was wondering if anyone used their bridesmaids bouquets as part of the reception decor after? I have 6 bridesmaids and I was thinking of getting my planner to quickly swipe away the bouquets from...

What are you ladies getting your fathers. Or the person walking you down the aisle. My father is passed and my 20 year old son will be walking me down the aisle. I have plans for my bridal party but...

How have you guys found an officiant? Im heartbroken because my church won't marry us because we live together. Id love to find a christian minister that would still marry us but looking at other...

Does anyone have experience with Chinese lanterns or sparklers to end the night. We are thinking about doing either or .. my venue says that it depends on wind for Chinese lanterns so not sure if I...

Are you guys doing a wedding speech or brief toast? Most weddings I've been to bride and groom said something brief but not sure if standard or what's expected?! Thanks!

Has anyone had an experiences where the venue did not allow the flower girls to throw flower petals down the aisle? If so what did you do instead?

Hi! My two nieces are going to be my flower girls; however, they have a bit of an age difference. One will be 3, and one will be 8. I had my heart set on an adorable princess dress with tulle, but I'm...

Hi everyone I have a dilemma, one of my friends from 15years is questionable invite. My FH doesn't like her and she doesn't like him. My FH doesn't want her there and says "it would ruin his day". She...

My FH and I have finally narrowed our venue decision to 2 places. I REALLY liked this hotel that was out of budget, but the coordinator is working with us. Today we toured this golf course with a...

Who pays for all this?