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Trying to create a cash fund as the gift option for our registry. How did people do this ? Would prefer to use Zelle or Venmo to prevent fees through other third parties. Thanks !

I am the MOH in my long time (18 years) best friends wedding next August. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and will likely be getting engaged this coming spring- so I will be...

Hi everyone. I am getting married 12/9/23, so about 2 months away. Within the year, my mom got diagnosed with stage 4 bile duct cancer. She went through treatment and I continued to have hope as I...

Whats the etiquette on tipping your vendors? Do I tip all vendors, just those who don't work for themselves? And how much? Help!

I'm not sure if it would be in poor taste not to invite certain coworkers of mine. I work part time at a UU church. I was going to see if they would let me rent some tables from them to save money. I...

Anyone planning on going to Walt Disney World for their honeymoons? We are going a week after our wedding and I am trying to make sure we covered all experiences and activities to do.

Hello! I know this is a personal question, but I hope some are willing to answer. Is anyone planning/has planned their wedding while in remission? I'm 2 years cancer free and planning a (destination)...

Getting some serious sticker shock! Trying to put together a cost effective option for a reception (cocktail hour, dinner, drinks, dancing. ) Anyone have any good ideas or references? Looking more for...

Hi folks Fiancé and I are getting married at 501 Union in Gowanus in October. Our host hotels are just north in Downtown Brooklyn. We want to have "welcome drinks" somewhere the night prior to our...

My fiancée and I have been together over 9 years, we’re both divorced and intended on having a very small and intimate wedding at a winery - small venue. I was immediately informed that I had to...

For NYC wedding folks: I just heard that coveted wedding venue The Green Building in Gowanus, Brooklyn has been demolished. Apparently the owner, Gowanus Hospitality Group, sold it to a developer...

Short version: I think its truly insane that so many parents invite a boatload of old friends to their kids' wedding. I'm looking for advice on how others have talked their parents down. So my fiance...

Hey! So my mate and I are looking for a DJ and he has a cousin that does it professionally but he won't give us a family discount which sucks lol.but he did say that he charges $1200 for the...

How to come up with a honeymoon fund? Any ideas

Hi everyone! I have a specific wedding invite conundrum and I'm hoping someone out there has been in this spot and can offer a strategy. TLDR: What's the best way to proceed when you don't want to...