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Hello! We have a LARGE venue, but only ~100 guests. I’m wondering if anyone had the same type of thing? Any way that you set up tables, decor, added things, etc. to make it not feel “empty”? Silly...

Hey yall! I’m having so much stress over this. I put together all of our invites (wax seal on vellum) and brought one to the post office a few weeks ago to ask about postage. The woman weighed it...

Hey all! we don’t really want speeches (unless any of our people absolutely want to!). Have you been to weddings where there were no speeches? Were they missed? We are also thinking of us toasting our...

I have several brand new more casual dresses (BHLDN and Jenny Yoo) I bought last year for my shower and rehearsal, but we moved our wedding to next year and I’ve since changed my style where have you...

Hi All, We’re allowed to purchase our own alcohol for our wedding (we’re doing an open bar). Our caterer can also supply for a per member count (standard). Has anyone chosen to purchase their own...

Hey all! We want to do some type of an open bar (whether full or beer/wine and signature cocktails) for our welcome party. Budget wise, we can do it for about 4 hours max. Our friends are partiers and...

Hey all! So originally my wedding was supposed to be January 30th of this year. Because of covid we rescheduled for January 29th 2022. With all this Delta and Lambda variant stuff and the CDC going...

Hey all! We’ve historically given cash and a card on the day of weddings. However, for an upcoming wedding we’d like to donate to their honeymoon fund (basically a cash fund). It’s kind of tricky...

Hey all! We have a smaller wedding next year. 115 invites, including plus ones. We’re doing a welcome party as 90% of our guests are traveling in from out of town. For anyone who had a similar event,...

Hi y’all. Are you having June 2021 weddings? We booked in March/April before we really knew the severity of all of this. A lot of our guests will need to travel from out of state to attend. We’re...

Hey all - our ceremony is set to be outdoors next June in VA. If anyone is from the south, you know June can mean 80 and nice or 95 with 95% humidity. Thinking about nice umbrellas to have over the...

Hey y’all! Curious for those who have had a wedding this year, are going to, or are next year. What are y’all doing for cocktail hour food? I originally wanted a grazing table with passed apps, but is...

Hi! Curious about RSVPs. Did you do a standard mail-in RSVP card or online on your website? We do need to ask about attending the welcome party and meal choice. I’ve heard 50% of people don’t mail...