Discussions I've participated in

So our original thought was: Officiant (to ask everyone to put away cell phones), Groom's grandparents, Groom's parents, Groom and Best Man, then pairs of Bridesmaids and Groomsmen, Maid of Honor, and...

My wedding’s a good ways away in October 2023, but I’m a bit planner so I pretty much already have everything planned down to party favors & flower girl petals. Nothing’s booked yet because we...

Has anyone found a guestbook that will also hold your wedding photos once they’re published? I’ve seen guestbooks with engagement photos printed, but frankly I don’t love our engagement photos, and...

Has anyone ran into guests still trying to bring kids to their wedding even though they clearly stated NO CHILDREN?! Do you stand your ground or accommodate “family”? I feel like it’s so rude to even...

I'm an introvert, and I don't like being the center of attention. I'm starting to freak out about the wedding as it gets closer. I wanted to elope, but I got outvoted from my fiancé and our parents...

I am having a very hard time finding a videographer. At first I wasn’t sure if I wanted one, but in truth I would like to show that video to my future kids and to my future grand babies (if I have...

Our venue capacity is 170. Initially we thought we were inviting 130 people which seemed perfect. However, we’re now at 163 and I’m feeling very stressed about it. I worry that it will be tough to...

Planning on making beach bags for all of my bridesmaids as their day of wedding gifts. I was wondering if you plan on giving the same gift to your Maid of Honor as the rest of the bridesmaids, the...

How did you write your "Our Story" section on your website? Did you write it in 3rd person? I feel like that sounds weird (and kind of pretentious) but I also don't want it to sound like it's just...

FH and I have owned our own home together for a few years now, and we basically have everything we need. I wasn't planning on doing a registry, and neither of us really want anyone to get us anything....

Hi ladies! So, my wedding is on 9/10/2022 and I figured it's almost time to start wedding dress shopping. I am however having a VERY hard time coming to terms with spending such a crazy amount of...

So my fiancé and I got engaged Valentine’s Day weekend if this year. Our wedding is august 12, 2023. We’ve been together 6 years this august 12 and wanted a two year engagement to give us time to save...

Anyone else not changing their last name after marriage? It doesnt seem fair that women are expected to change the name they've gone by their entire life, but not men. Also, I really love my last...

Basically, my fiancé and I want to get married ASAP (like the end of this month) in a very small ceremony (immediate family only followed by a brunch/lunch) but my parents are trying to convince us to...

I don’t think I will register for china. We like to entertain, but I just bought a whole set of Christmas china off the Facebook marketplace, and I don’t think I would use china during any other...

Are you keeping your last name, taking his/hers, hyphenating, or creating your own??

I know the whole wedding industry is very wasteful, so I’m not sure why I’m so hung up on these welcome bags. I just feel guilty buying 200 plastic water bottles. With snacks, I could always find...