Discussions I've participated in

How much is appropriate for a bridesmaids gift? I want to give them the day of.

I have a few aunts and uncles who used to be doctors in the Philippines. When they migrated to the US, they became nurses. My wedding is in the US. Would you still address them as Doctors on the...

This is really just me venting lol, but is anyone else frustrated by the silly rules of wedding etiquette at times? - Cash funds - I don't feel the need to do these on Zola because I didn't feel I...

I am at a loss for gifts for my 4 bridesmaids. I’ve already gotten them personalized cups and fun glasses with the date on them. Should I get them anything? I thought favorite drink (coke/Pepsi),...

Hello, I was wondering about how much do you spend on bridesmaids gifts to give them the day of the wedding? Thanks!

I have posted about a wedding I was invited to recently that FH and I will be going to even though it is shaping up to be a disaster. We are going because FH is in it, but after this I don't want to...

Hey Brides! FH & I feel differently about this, so hoping for some advice. Is it weird to invite parents of a family friend you grew up with, but not the friend you grew up with? Here's the...

Hi, I am having a hard time picking a dress for my bridesmaids. I feel bad asking them to spend 250 on a dress but I feel like they had enough time to save up. I've been engaged since Sept 2020, ask...

Ok so a friend of mine is getting married soon and I just want clarification on this..also for my own purposes later on in the planning as well.. Ok is the bridal shower gift and the wedding gift the...

Hi everyone. I was paging through the discussions and I'm sure its been discussed before, but what kind of bar should you have for a wedding? We're on a fairly strict budget (I'm a college student and...

Hi everyone, My fiance and I are torn and have a question regarding etiquette for this... So we knew from the start that we wanted a Jack and Jill shower. I don't want a bridal shower at all. However,...