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2442 days agoThe reason I’m not asking her is really because its going to be like a 25-person event and I already have 4 bridesmaids, and she’s giving birth any day now (her due date was the 13th). So she’d be super busy. We don’t have any kids in our lives...
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2442 days agoReally self explanatory lol. I don’t know where to look for a poly friendly officiant for a commitment ceremony as opposed to a legally binding marriage. He’s already married and I have no intentions of going down a traditional route.
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2449 days agoIt was $1,049 at David’s Bridal and I just can’t do that.
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2450 days agoI found a dress I LOVE online that’s within my budget, but I’d love it even more if I could cut out the chiffon in the cleavage. Let’s be honest: I have a nice body, and having that V-neck from snipping out the chiffon would make me look more...
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2469 days agoBackstory: I’m engaged to a legally married man. We’re polyamorous and he’s not leaving his wife. I’ll just be his unofficial wife. My family not only doesn’t support it, but believes my polyamory is a manifestation of my mental illness. I’m moving...
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2470 days agoMy ceremony is 11 months out. I’m moving across the country in September, but was told I may have a pituitary or adrenal gland tumor that’s leaking cortisol. Once I move, I need to get set up with a GP to refer me to the research hospital for...
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2473 days agoWe have a venue in Vermont because we got an incredible, unbeatable deal ($400 for the entire weekend and lodging for 20 people included). We were initially long distance, and this venue was 45 mins away from me. Well, now I’m moving out to...
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2500 days agoI don’t really understand the point of a Save the Date card...isn’t it basically just an invitation? Why would someone waste postage on sending a Save the Date to send the actual invite months later? Isn’t it assumed that if you’re getting a Save the...
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2501 days agoMy fiancé and I are long distance and will be remaining so even after we have our commitment ceremony. We normally visit each other a few times a year. Since we won’t be living together, we won’t need a lot of the typical things you’d put on a...
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2501 days agoThoughts? I definitely want to keep dusty rose and sage green (the lighter one), and my dress will be light gray
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2506 days agoWe’re planning our commitment ceremony for next summer, but my parents have never met my fiancé. We are in a non traditional relationship (polyamorous and long distance), and my parents support neither of those. They know I’m poly, but attribute it...