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Savvy June 2020

Is this tacky for a wedding registry?

Bri, on June 18, 2019 at 3:05 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 15
My fiancé and I are long distance and will be remaining so even after we have our commitment ceremony. We normally visit each other a few times a year. Since we won’t be living together, we won’t need a lot of the typical things you’d put on a wedding registry. Is it tacky to put airline gift cards on it instead, since that’s what what help us see each other more often?

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Latest activity by Celeste, on June 20, 2019 at 5:21 PM
  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    I personally wouldn't do that, but it's more of a "know your crowd" kind of thing. If all your guests know and understand your situation, they would probably be fine with gifting you that.

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  • Shelbi
    Savvy July 2021
    Shelbi ·
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    My friend did that for her wedding and I actually got her that as I know they would put them to use visiting each other. They had a similar situation. I don’t think it’s tacky at all. In my opinion it’s like a honeymoon fund you’re asking for money for a specific thing. Do you girl!
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don't think it's tacky at all! In fact it's kind of sweet because it's them helping you towards your relationship.
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  • Wendy
    Dedicated April 2020
    Wendy ·
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    I don't think its tacky at all. As a guest, I would think its cute.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Amazon lets you add gift cards I believe! We just gifted one to a bride, she had an Amazon registry but a few gift cards too (southwest, airbnb, etc.). I thought it was fine!

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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I put a Lowes gift card on my registry. I didnt ask for like 400 $50 gift cards or anything, but I did add it in case someone wanted to buy us one. Like a "hey, we're working on this house thing, this would be appreciated" hint.
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  • Trista
    VIP September 2019
    Trista ·
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    Hey there! I'd say as long as you add a few other gift ideas, an airline gift card or two can't hurt!
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  • B
    Savvy June 2020
    Bri ·
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    Thanks everyone! I’m definitely putting some less expensive options on there, and I wouldn’t want the airline gift cards to exceed like $50 (a round trip ticket between New York and Oregon is only like $200)
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  • Bride2020
    Devoted May 2020
    Bride2020 ·
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    I think that's really cute! I would love to gift someone that if they were in your situation, more personal than just cash.

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    Judith ·
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    Will each of you maintain separate places, that the other visits? Then there are some gifts you could likely use. But gifts that make it possible to see each other, are great. And if our experience in loss and damage to luggage while in the airlines hands is anything to go by, you might want some more, since claims are paid slowly. 😋. Do you have any hobbies or activities you do when you are together, that might be supported by friend's gifts? In my experience of a long term commuting period with my spouse, we spent so much on travel, that it was tough to come up with concert tickets , movie passes, things for hiking and kayaking trips, or restaurant meals, for when we were together. We enjoyed such gifts received for our birthdays and on the holidays. So if people ask you for suggestions, or a wish list, because of your unusual circumstances, you might think of some things for each of your homes, or to do in each home area. You know travel costs and phone bills will deplete your individual budgets.
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  • B
    Savvy June 2020
    Bri ·
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    We each live in separate apartments, and his roommates don’t allow guests so we get an AirBnB when I see him, but he’s always able to stay at my place when he comes here. It’s just not very often, though. I’m usually the one traveling.

    I could definifely tack on some concert tickets and things from Groupon! There’s so much to do where’s both of us live
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    Judith ·
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    18 months that I was in the army, I kept company with a guy who was doing his medical residencies. Both hospitals, free room, in a suite with 8 others in single rooms, 2 living or quiet study rooms, open kitchen and dining. Little things like owning our own extra clean sheets and towels, a blanket and a robe, in a washable duffle bag, mentioned arriving in the other's town and immediately decamping to a cabin, or in, or motel, out in the rural belt or mountains near our respective places, made it easy to pick up and go . And take some of our nice than rental stuff with us, always all clean and packed. And we kept double and two single string hammocks, to take advantage of state forests, picnic areas near lakes. A hibachi and utensils and foil lived in his trunk. Camping gear in mine. It takes a while to set yourself up to be nomads. And it makes having places to go and things to do more important, a little romantic time, since you do not have any 2 person nest.
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
    Nicole ·
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    I don’t think there is anything wrong with it! Your guests know you’re long distance so they’ll understand why it’s there!
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    I would just not register. People aren't stupid, you will get a bunch of cash and checks and maybe a few physical gifts. Then you can spend that money on whatever you need. I think airline gift cards is odd. Not tacky I guess, but just really weird and I doubt many people would utilize that option.

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  • Celeste
    Dedicated October 2019
    Celeste ·
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    I think it's totally fine to register for airline gift cards!

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