Discussions by Sarah

Back when I sent out invites in March, I added about 20 people to the list that were cut before sending them out to make my fiancé happy. (He wanted 80 guests per side but we started getting nos on...

My future husband is super simple which makes it hard to buy gifts for him. I have NO clue what to get him as a wedding gift and the wedding is in 6 weeks. I also don't want to feel like I'm getting...

My future mother in law is driving me insane. My ceremony and reception are in the town I grew up in, an hour and a half away from where my fiancé and I live. We have a hotel block set aside from our...

I have had it with my future in laws. I feel so awkward with them ever since our vacation back in August because I got to see who they really are. (In general they’re nice people). Thanksgiving dinner...

My fiancé and I were having an argument over how to choose who gets plus ones. He is saying that if they're old enough, they get one. I say that bridal party, immediate family (first cousins), and...

My family is hardcore Polish - polkas, pierogis, you name it. I want the traditional bridal dance polka for my wedding. My fiancé is against it because he feels like it will alienate his family...

I feel like I'm stuck in the middle with my parents and his parents with planning things. I'm the type of person that likes getting things done so I don't have to stress about it later. I've been...

Hi! I'm finalizing my guest list so I can order save the dates and invites. I've asked my parents for help with the family aspects of the list. I'm looking at having 150 guests, but our list is at 180...

Hi! My fiancé is an accountant and it’s been super hard to do any kind of planning because of tax season. Now that it’s over, I want to get into planning but he wants nothing to do with it because he...

I’ve been having the same debate with my parents for the past month over where my wedding should be. I would like it to be where I live with my fiancé. They want it to be where I grew up which is only...

Hi guys! My fiancé and I are looking at reception venues in the Pittsburgh area. The ceremony is at my church so that is all good to go. Looking for suggestions you may have! Also if anyone knows...

My fiancé and I are looking at a number of venues in our area. Some are all inclusive while others require you to bring in your own vendors. I understand both points of view on these but I’m wondering...

My fiancé and I got engaged about a month ago. I just met with my parents to figure out a potential guest list. They've added a bunch of people, most I haven't seen in years and some I just don't...

I am in the middle of a disagreement with my fiancé over our wedding party. Growing up, most of my friends have always been guys. I have 3 friends (2 guys and a girl) that I have been friends with for...