Discussions I've participated in

Back when I sent out invites in March, I added about 20 people to the list that were cut before sending them out to make my fiancé happy. (He wanted 80 guests per side but we started getting nos on...

My future husband is super simple which makes it hard to buy gifts for him. I have NO clue what to get him as a wedding gift and the wedding is in 6 weeks. I also don't want to feel like I'm getting...

My future mother in law is driving me insane. My ceremony and reception are in the town I grew up in, an hour and a half away from where my fiancé and I live. We have a hotel block set aside from our...

I have had it with my future in laws. I feel so awkward with them ever since our vacation back in August because I got to see who they really are. (In general they’re nice people). Thanksgiving dinner...

My fiancé and I were having an argument over how to choose who gets plus ones. He is saying that if they're old enough, they get one. I say that bridal party, immediate family (first cousins), and...

I feel like I'm stuck in the middle with my parents and his parents with planning things. I'm the type of person that likes getting things done so I don't have to stress about it later. I've been...

Hi! I'm finalizing my guest list so I can order save the dates and invites. I've asked my parents for help with the family aspects of the list. I'm looking at having 150 guests, but our list is at 180...

My family is hardcore Polish - polkas, pierogis, you name it. I want the traditional bridal dance polka for my wedding. My fiancé is against it because he feels like it will alienate his family...

How many Brides will have open bar at their reception? If so, what type of liquor will you be serving?

So my FH and I have decided we do not want little kids at our wedding. It wasn’t really a hard decision because we are having a very formal wedding and there’s also a pool near the cocktail and...

Hi! My fiancé is an accountant and it’s been super hard to do any kind of planning because of tax season. Now that it’s over, I want to get into planning but he wants nothing to do with it because he...

I’ve been having the same debate with my parents for the past month over where my wedding should be. I would like it to be where I live with my fiancé. They want it to be where I grew up which is only...