Discussions by Michelle

What will you be offering your guests to eat for them to pick from? Will you have it served buffet style, plated or something else?

For the married couples, what items/services did you feel was worth the splurge that you don’t regret? What do wish you had skipped or researched better?

Little costs that add up or details that people don’t tell you about such as who is collecting gifts/cards or arranging delivery of getting ready food, as examples.

What did/will you serve to the 12 and under crowd? Are you going for basic chicken fingers, providing a second choice for them or serving whatever adults eat? How detailed are you going with that on...

What did you decide or what do you plan to have? Do you have a strong preference from a guest perspective being either an attendant or the significant other/random plus one of an attendant seated with...

Not counting your own, what details from weddings you have attended stood out as being the best ever?

Without inconveniencing guests or intentionally making them uncomfortable, was there anything you included that worked out well that you and guests enjoyed that was strongly discouraged by the wedding...

Are you going large, medium, small? Are there more friends than relatives?

In the process of planning, what customs/traditions did you want to do away with until you experienced them “in the wild” and understand why they are done the way they are? For example, we didn’t get...

Of invites you have received, how do you personally decide when and how to reply, assuming that you are never obligated or pressured by friends or family to attend, and when to give a give a gift or...

For those who are having dancing, are your guests who don’t dance and prefer to chat sitting at the dinner tables or will you rent a lounge area for them?

Which website did you find to be most user friendly for complete customization? We aren't listing Zola type registries or honeymoon funds. But we would like to include an option of using rsvpify.

Are you doing a full meal and deciding between plated or stations? Are you serving dessert only or going for a full meal with heavy appetizers? What does your menu look like?

Haven’t seen this in real life but online it seems to be very prevalent as of the last few months. But due to unfounded peer pressure, the couple feels they are fully responsible for covering all...

Not postponed wedding celebrations or vow renewals but after the wedding is all over and done, when do you plan to start hosting events as a couple? For example, non wedding related dinners in your...

Before you decide on budget and guest list prior to looking for venues, what are the areas that you and fiancé chose to focus on? Quality food and beverages that guests don’t open their wallets for?...

While some can and should be taken with a grain of salt, which ones did you find to be helpful? Either with a new idea to try out or something that worked for you.

What foods and meals are traditional for your families during the holidays and what are you turning into new traditions? For example, do you make a specific cookie or pie recipe for the holidays? Is...

If you have been one in the past or currently are in the role, did you enjoy it or not? What circumstances made it fun, or if it was traumatic what circumstances were not enjoyable? Based on all your...

What favorite foods have you enjoyed at other weddings and how did that translate to your own menu? Did you pick a variety of favorite foods from other weddings or go a different direction?