Discussions by Michelle

What are you planning to wear under the dress? Are you going for white or color, heels or flats? Do you plan to wear them all night or go barefoot at some point? Do you have experiences as a guest on...

Is it your go to dessert as a guest so you are making sure to have at least 1 slice per person plus potential leftovers of high quality cake or do you avoid it at all costs and have no desire to serve...

What are you serving at your reception? What do you enjoy as a guest?

Based on hindsight knowledge, different budget, or anything else, what would you do differently? Would you splurge on a specific item, not invite a specific person, run your reception a different...

What designers have you seen that you like either from model pictures or actually wearing them? Or would you take inspiration and get something custom made? Are they cost effective for one time wear?

What did you consider above and beyond compared to other vendors you interviewed/hired? What did you appreciate most about them?

Are you doing a photo booth guest book or taking a group photo of everyone on the dance floor?

For example are you hosting a bridesmaid luncheon or a similar event to thank your bridesmaids and loved ones for supporting you? Or are you going a completely different route or just keeping it...

Are you planning any specific songs or leaving it up to your dj?

How long will your reception last from cocktail hour (if you are having one) to going home? 2-3 hours with socializing for a dessert reception, 4-5 hours at an all inclusive or are you going for...

During planning, how effective have you found these to be? Do you take the information at face value as is written or do you take it with a grain of salt? For those who did get married already, did...

If you had multiple bars to cut down on lines, did you have all your bars serving the same beverages or divide them between alcoholic and non alcoholic ( coffee, boba, etc) on opposite sides of the...

What songs/artists get you into a dancing mood immediately?

What have you enjoyed as a guest that you would not have thought of? What details didn’t work out?

Do you have a seasonal color palette picked out or just whatever you like? What type of centerpieces and decorations are you wanting to have?

As a guest, what have you noticed worked well that you would do yourself or recommend to a friend getting married, and what backfired at weddings you have attended that you would do differently in...

What are you focusing your attention and budget on? Are you going for guest experience and memories or something else?

Some people don’t see the point in it and would rather go to the reception, while others see it a huge breach of etiquette to skip the ceremony because that is the purpose of the event. What is your...

What made them stand out as enjoyable?

Not counting the typical generic Amazon/Etsy selection of jewelry, robes/pjs, tumblers, totes, jewelry boxes and similar items that get thrown away, or covering expenses of the wedding day that are...