Discussions by Michelle

On WW, it seems that many have all their friends and relatives getting married at the same time as them. What about those of us whose friends and family are either married or not dating at all?

Have you had issues with this when meeting with them or are your current and potential vendors receptive about being vaccinated?

Do the artists you went with (or are considering) focus mainly on the bride and barely touch the bridesmaids or does everyone get equal time and attention to detail?

There are so many alternatives that aren’t as hurtful and convey so much more information too. It comes across as a mean dig because someone can even if that isn’t the intention at all. As a knee jerk...

The folding wood or the Chiavari? Something else entirely? There are so many choices at the rental companies and it’s impossible to tell from pictures what is comfortable and what isn’t.

From weddings you have attended, what do you wish the couple had offered to make the day/evening more pleasant? Even if it’s not required, what would you like to see considered? For example, maybe a...

What are you planning to have?

Which stores did you find offered what you needed with great service and prices, and what did you purchase from them?

Do you consider it to be the most vital part of the wedding day that everything is centered around or is it just going through the motions signing paper that you don’t feel guests care about and don’t...

What is common among your families and friend groups? What are you planning to go with? For example, even if someone has been together for years, they still can use upgrades because they may have...

From weddings you have attended, what did you receive as a gift or was offered as a service/activity that made you feel honored as a guest more than the ordinary?

What are you planning to buy with the kickoff to holiday sales? Have you found any good discounts or planning to take advantage of any at that time?

Are you having one? If so, are you planning to go to a local restaurant and either guests pay their way or you cover the bill? Or are you having an open house in your home catered by a local...

Not that getting ready pictures are high priority but I was reading that for most weddings, they are 100% staged and photographers ask that all hair and makeup be completely done before they arrive....

In hindsight, what do you wish that you had done that you overlooked or ignored? Is there a last minute purchase you should have gone for but forgot?

Are you having a Halloween wedding and embracing the season? Or dreaming of the idea? What colors and vibe would you choose? Bright and fun, dark and moody? Pumpkins or blood red roses?

As a bridesmaid/groomsman or a guest, what have you seen that works great and what have you personally seen that backfires?

For those not tossing the bouquet or garter, are you tossing something in its place? I was reading about one couple where the dj called all animal lovers onto the dance floor and they tossed stuffed...

How are you decorating? Simple or elaborate? If you are marrying at the reception venue, how are you setting aside the ceremony area?

What have you been served as a guest that was great or just so so bordering on bad? What did/you serve that you are hoping guests love and remember?