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Did anyone wear a capelet? Show me your photos!
Jay in Wedding Attire, on April 27, 2021 at 8:33 AM

I'm considering wearing a capelet--not a cape, not a jacket or bolero or topper--for my wedding. Did anyone or is anyone planning on wearing one for their own wedding day? It's so hard to find photos...

Megan, Jan 30, 2022 4 185 1
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Wearing wedding bands in formal portraits?
Jay in Planning, on September 18, 2021 at 7:34 AM

I’m having a last minute dilemma & would love to hear what others have done! For those who did formal portraits before the ceremony—did you wear your wedding bands in the formal portraits even...

Jay, Sep 21, 2021 10 230
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How long does it really take to put on a dress?
Jay in Planning, on September 8, 2021 at 9:20 AM

If you've been a bridesmaid--how long did it actually take you to put on your dress & shoes? As a bride, how long did it take you for your dress? I'm trying to sort out a detailed timeline,...

CountryBride, Sep 10, 2021 6 1,090
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Is this how a bustle looks?
Jay in Wedding Attire, on September 3, 2021 at 12:01 PM

Hi everyone! Looking for either reassurance that this is expected or advice on what to request to fix it! My dress has been bustled, & in the seamstress’s mirror it looked fine (i.e. from farther...

Clarissa, Sep 5, 2021 13 826
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Will i regret not having getting ready photos?
Jay in Planning, on June 22, 2021 at 10:25 AM

Has anyone not had getting ready photos--and did you regret not getting them? Or did you get them but would have been okay with skipping? Getting ready photos are my lowest priority. I don't want...

Ellen, Jun 24, 2021 23 3,989
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Paying for hmua services when it's "optional" but there are minimums--what's fair?
Jay in Hair and Makeup, on March 28, 2021 at 10:51 AM

TL;DR: If you had to deal with HMUA minimums, how did you choose to cover or split the costs? I'm not "requiring" anything, but if I don't hit the minimums I'll be paying for those services anyway....

Kari, Mar 29, 2021 15 284 1
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Last minute engagement shoot anxiety--did anyone wear high-waisted jeans?
Jay in Parties and Events, on January 26, 2021 at 7:20 AM

After spending days choosing an outfit for our engagement shoot, I landed on my usual style: high waisted jeans, a tucked-in cashmere sweater, & a belt. In the past few days, I've seen a sudden...

Milada, Mar 2, 2021 23 284
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Has anyone had a dress with scratchy lace?
Jay in Wedding Attire, on November 27, 2020 at 9:05 AM

Hi everyone, Has anyone had a dress with scratchy lace? Is that something that can be fixed with alterations, & if so, how does that work? Is it a super expensive alteration? Last Friday I went...

Michelle, Nov 27, 2020 9 323
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To save the dates or not? (pandemic edition)
Jay in Planning, on November 14, 2020 at 3:54 PM

This question is mostly directed at those who have gotten engaged during the pandemic & plan on getting married in 2021, but any insights are of course welcome! I'm torn on whether or not to send...

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Photographer conundrum--go over budget or keep searching?
Jay in Planning, on October 6, 2020 at 7:58 PM

I knew choosing a photographer would be tough—but I need help! I realize no one can help with my specific situation, so I'd love to know if you ran into similar problems and how you decided! How bad...

Bridget, Oct 8, 2020 21 286 1
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Venue thoughts -- Friday in preferred month, general venue anxiety
Jay in Planning, on July 23, 2020 at 7:31 PM

I've really been letting my anxiety get the better of me this week while trying to choose a venue--I'd love to hear about all of your experiences with Friday weddings, mid-November weddings, and...

Jay, Aug 6, 2020 16 148
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Double proposal?
Jay in Family and Relationships, on June 27, 2020 at 11:02 AM

Has anyone proposed back to their partner after they proposed to you? It's something I've always loved the idea of and am strongly considering, but the exact circumstances of my relationship are...

Jay, Aug 6, 2020 7 170
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