Discussions by Gen

I feel like this is the perfect opportunity for a fun, low-cost DIY! We do want to have a guest book but I just can’t stand the thought of spending like $40+ on the books we've seen in stores,...

Any brides just decide that bouquets aren’t worth the hassle and money? I feel like it is something that is used for such a small part of the wedding and I’d rather cut this than something else. The...

FH and I have had several people who, upon receiving their invitations, have asked “do you have a registry or would you prefer cash?” So of course we agree with the majority of posters here who say it...

Is anyone planning to donate their hair after the wedding? I would really love to do this since I'm going to be cutting off at least 6 inches anyway. If you've done it or are planning to do it, what...

How much honeymoon shopping did/will you all do? I feel like every time I see a sundress I like now I’m using “oh I’ll wear it on the honeymoon!” as an excuse to buy it hahaha. Now I’ve moved onto...

So we sent out our invitations exactly a week ago. To be fair, our RSVP date isn’t until 5/2 so there’s plenty of time, but I was kind of expecting there to be a bunch of responses flooding in right...

All of our invitations are officially in the mail as of yesterday morning! We are doing online RSVPs so I keep anxiously checking our website even though I know there’s no way anyone has received them...

So my FH and I decided that we are going to only serve wine at our cocktail hour/reception (our venue is actually famous for its wine and our reception is in the room where they do wine tastings lol)...

We are having an adults and adolescents only wedding (13+) just because that is what works best for us. But we have one relative in specific with multiple young children who tends to offend easily,...

Apparently a giant package arrived for us in the mail today... we didn’t order anything and our registry says some items have been purchased! Here’s my one question... my mom is also coordinating a...

So our venue offers complimentary valet parking for our guests. I am wondering what to do about tips for this? Is it us who will give the tip, or the guests who utilize the service? Of course we don't...

I’m doing my hair trial exactly 8 weeks before the wedding. I was planning to get my hair cut around 6-10 weeks before so it’ll be fresh but have time to grow into itself. So I would either be getting...

So we signed the contract with our photographer months ago but we will be meeting with them one more time in the coming months to finalize everything. I was just rereading the terms and conditions,...

We’re officially at 100 days today (yay!) and more pre-wedding events are starting to get set in stone. And it’s starting to become clear that I will not have a single weekend the entire month of...

Ok so first of all just ranting / warning others about Men's Warehouse AND The Black Tux because now we have had negative experiences with both of them. Men's Warehouse: -Wouldn't let FH try anything...

So I know that tipping your coordinator is obviously something you can do if they provide exceptional service, but I’m wondering what to do if our coordinator works for our venue? To clarify, we...

UGHHH. So we booked a venue with catering that was priced way higher than we wanted, because we wanted a place that could accommodate my severe food allergies (gluten and dairy). That was literally...

We’re allowed to choose 2 reds and 2 whites. The options are: Red: Cabernet Merlot Pinot Noir White: Sauvignon Blanc Chardonnay Pinot Grigio Riesling Also, the Cabernet, Merlot, and sauvignon blanc...

So our caterer allows 2 entree choices for our guests. I just scheduled our food tasting (yay!) but she mentioned we will only be able to taste 2 entrees? Not sure how that makes sense because how...

Are you inviting coworkers to your wedding? I have been debating this with myself for the past 9 months and keep hoping I’ll have a moment of clarity and make a decision, but I am so stumped! The way...