Discussions by Gen

Dealing with beyond awful FIL drama the past couple days (whatever you’re thinking, I promise it’s worse 🙄) and really wanting to drown myself in a fun aspect of wedding planning to take my mind off...

My engagement ring was too big and always spinning so I got it sized down slightly a couple months ago, and it's still too big. I'm seriously so confused about this though, because my engagement ring...

So we were originally just going to play music over speakers for our ceremony, but then realized that one of my family friends who I have known our entire lives is an extremely talented flutist (he's...

I'm really conflicted on this. My mom keeps asking me if I want one, and saying she's happy to throw it for me with the help of my bridesmaids (who have also offered) but I just don't know if I want...

So just curious if anyone has done this, I know when your license expires you can sometimes just mail in to get a new one, but I'm wondering if you can do the same for when you change your name after...

How far before the wedding are you all/your future spouses getting your hair cut? I feel like my hair always needs at least a month after getting it cut to grow a little and look more natural, but...

We both got 2 weeks off for our honeymoon, and decided with our "let's go wherever we want in the world!" mindset that we were going to go to Italy. Though, long story short I suppose, it wasn't very...

So basically, our photographer is from a small boutique place with only a few full-time employees, and some freelancers. She is one of the full-time people, and she also brings a second freelance...

Just went on Shutterfly and saw they are having a 50% off sale, plus an additional $10 off of a $50+ purchase, and it ends today! Just thought I'd let you all know for those of you...

I feel like 50% of my to-do list (wedding related, and just life in general lol) is "remind FH to do xxx." Has anyone found a good electronic to-do list that will let you share the list with another...

FH and I are both huge country music fans so we really want our first dance to be a country song, but we can’t seem to agree on one! So far we are thinking maybe Diamonds and Twine by Ryan Hurd or...

We currently have 130 on our list (originally wanted 100). Only 30 are my FH's guests. The thing is, out of the 100 that are "mine," only about 20 of them are friends that are JUST mine. The rest are...

This sounds silly because I've been engaged for 9 months, but for the first 6 months of the engagement I had a very different vision and expectation of what my wedding would be like. 3 months ago we...

Just something I'm thinking about in terms of addressing invites... I always thought it would be less formal to put someone's nickname on an invitation but now I'm wondering if it is weird to address...

So FH and I are extremely conflicted between 2 songs for our first dance. FH really wants to use the song History in the Making by Darius Rucker, which has been "our song" since we first started...

So, I got an email that apparently my venue is having a bridal expo in November. It's only 20 mins from my house and it's free, so I guess there is no downside to going. But we will likely have all...

Tomorrow, FH and I have an in-person consultation with the photographer that we are 99% going to hire... what questions should we be asking her? (I've already asked about how long they will be there,...

For those of you who saw my post about whether or not to splurge on 3 hours of videography for about 1k... yay I found someone good who would film just the ceremony for $400! The only catch is,...

My FH and I are inviting large groups of people who all know each other...... ie a group of my friends from high school, a group of his friends from college, my friends from childhood, his friends...