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CoffeeNColor
Who hosts the after-party?
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on January 16, 2017 at 3:08 PM

My BM asked me if I had planned to do an after-party. I've seen this done a bunch of ways. What she did for hers was say, hey everybody we're all gonna meet up at this bar, if you want to join us for...

COWS, Jan 16, 2017 12 261
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She tried so hard, but still missed the mark.
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on January 11, 2017 at 10:08 PM

I'm invited to a wedding in March so I went online to look at their registry. On their site with the links to the stores, they have a little note on there saying: Your attendance is all that we could...

MJ, Jan 12, 2017 19 7
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Etsy store recommendations for Invitations?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on January 11, 2017 at 11:14 AM

I've written on here before that Etsy makes me want to pull my hair out. The way the search functions are set up is just not intuitive for how my brain works. I've tried to avoid using it, but I'm not...

MissGtoMrsG, Jan 11, 2017 7 22
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"Date Night In" boxes-Feedback requested
CoffeeNColor in Wedding Attire, on January 9, 2017 at 5:32 PM

I just saw this ad on FB from a company called Date Night In. As I understand it, it is a subscription plan that will send you an activity box once per month for a date night with your SO. It's...

BoozyBaker, Jan 9, 2017 1 11
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Rehearsal Dinner vs Family Welcome Dinner
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on January 5, 2017 at 11:21 AM

FMIL has offered to host what she is calling the "rehearsal dinner." She has done this for her other children's weddings, and the OOT family and grandparents attended those. She asked for our prelim....

CoffeeNColor, Jan 5, 2017 5 65
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Jewelry suggestions for this dress?
CoffeeNColor in Wedding Attire, on January 3, 2017 at 3:51 AM

I said yes to my dress! Now on to planning jewelery. I'm thinking drop earrings. I will be using my mom's veil for the ceremony (not pictured). I think because of the intricate lace and the illusion...

alwaysandforeversimp, Jan 3, 2017 15 36
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Asking MOH via email...
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on January 2, 2017 at 9:36 PM

My intended MOH is one of my best friends from college. She works night shift as a nurse, has a 5 month old, and lives in another state. We've been playing phone tag for the last few months and...

Erin Wood, Jan 3, 2017 16 6
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How much should I insist on business license info?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on December 21, 2016 at 6:13 PM

On nearly all the blogs and articles I've read, one of the recommended questions to ask vendors is if they carry liability insurance and have a business license. In my state, the license # is a public...

SnowQueen, Dec 21, 2016 5 3
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Photographers-How did you know when you found "the one"?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on December 14, 2016 at 8:57 AM

FH and I met with 3 photographers last weekend. Beforehand, we had done research online and contacted some whose web portfolios we liked. We then did a preliminary comparison of prices and set up...

Tallah, Dec 14, 2016 16 11
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Save the Date Address Question: Guest and her fiance don't live together
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on December 10, 2016 at 6:10 PM

I am addressing my Save the Dates...My friend from my hometown (Darcy) just got engaged, but she and her fiance (Ian) don't live together. I have only met Ian once over coffee when I was visiting my...

Judi, Dec 10, 2016 5 10
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Week before Labor Day--will anybody travel to my wedding?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on November 17, 2016 at 9:44 AM

We initially set our date for 8/20/17. Now FH wants to move it to 8/27/17 because his sister is a kindergarten teacher and school starts on 8/21. The wedding on the 20th would require her to miss the...

OGA, Nov 17, 2016 8 23
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How many photos come with your package?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on November 3, 2016 at 8:43 AM

How many photos are you supposed to get with your package? My BIL&SIL got about 1,300 photos from their wedding. Some of the photographers I'm looking at say expect about 80 photos per hour of...

L.R., Nov 3, 2016 13 3,265
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Price Disparities with DOCs/Planners
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on October 31, 2016 at 10:33 AM

FH and I met with a prospective DOC over the weekend. We had entered a drawing at an expo and won a discount on her package. Her reg. price is $2,400 so with the discount it would be...

CoffeeNColor, Nov 1, 2016 6 22
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Questions to ask prospective Day of Coordinator?
CoffeeNColor in Planning, on October 28, 2016 at 9:14 AM

FH and I went to an expo and won a drawing for a discounted DOC package. We're meeting with her for a complimentary consultation this weekend to see if we click. What are some good questions to ask?...

Chip, Oct 28, 2016 4 1,913
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Stock our own alcohol or use the caterer's package?
CoffeeNColor in Do It Yourself, on October 14, 2016 at 7:17 AM

Our potential caterers has an option where we can provide our own alcohol but we just have to pay for their bartender to serve. The other option is to use one of their bar packages. We plan to do beer...

AAK, Oct 14, 2016 5 206
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Food/Seating for children 11-18 months old
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on September 26, 2016 at 12:00 AM

3 members of our wedding party has either just had a baby or currently pregnant. At the time of our wedding, they will range between 11-18 months old. Those will be the only children at our wedding. I...

VC, Sep 26, 2016 9 111
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Guest Transportation: Need to have or Nice to Have? (lots of OOT guests)
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on September 22, 2016 at 9:23 AM

I'm debating whether I need to do shuttle transportation for our guests. My venue is about 3 mile drive (10 minutes w/o traffic) from the hotel where most guests will be staying. It is just south of...

Tasha, Sep 23, 2016 17 21
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Internet Privacy Wedding Registry & Website/Concern about stalkers
CoffeeNColor in Etiquette and Advice, on September 19, 2016 at 2:24 AM

FH and I are thinking setting up our wedding website and registry. The website will have information for guests about the wedding location, suggested accommodations and transit options, and things to...

FutureMrsB, Sep 19, 2016 13 1,011
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Dress budget under $700...where to shop besides DB/consignment?
CoffeeNColor in Wedding Attire, on September 15, 2016 at 11:43 PM

I am trying to keep my dress budget under 700, and the lower the better. Any tips on where to search besides DB or consignment stores? I have looked at some department stores, but the dresses don't...

NerdLove, Sep 17, 2016 30 58
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Re-size ring? Get a ring guard?
CoffeeNColor in Wedding Attire, on September 15, 2016 at 12:01 PM

Any advice as to what is a good guideline for resizing the engagement ring versus getting an insert/guard/clasp to attach to the ring. My ring has started to feel looser towards the end of the day. I...

DestinationBride, Sep 15, 2016 23 13,826
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