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Weddings of Heart

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union
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Recommended by 99% of couples

About this vendor

Weddings of Heart offers couples experienced non-denominational wedding ceremonies throughout the greater San Francisco Bay area. Dr. Lili Goodman Freitas extends her over 30 years of experience to make each couple's day an authentic reflection of their relationship. Her expansive educational expertise and knowledge of various cultural identities and religions allow her to co-create a ceremony that uniquely honors and celebrates your love with you.

Experience:

Lili Goodman Freitas, Ph.D., began officiating weddings in 1983 and brings her professional experience as an ordained minister, educator, and counselor to her work. Her educational background includes master's degrees in social work and psychology and doctorate degrees in folklore-folklife and spiritual science. She maintains a role in academia by serving on the faculty of Meridian University and teaching MA and Ph.D. students in psychology. Dr. Goodman Freitas' knowledge of couples, psychology, and spirituality is apparent in the insightful, joyful, and loving presence she brings to her work. She is a seasoned public speaker and will present your ceremony with poise, lightheartedness, and love.

Services Offered

Weddings of Heart offers services for all forms of weddings, including various sizes, religions, cultures, and more. Weddings of the Heart aims to envelop each couple with love, compassion, and respect from beginning to end. The initial complimentary consultation lets you explore what you hope for in your wedding ceremony. Lili can officiate in civil union, non-religious, single religion, interfaith, intercultural, vow renewal, commitment ceremony, or rehearsal services. Beyond the ceremony, Dr. Lili offers marriage preparation counseling and workshops. Collaborate with her to create a memorable ceremony with Weddings of the Heart.

What You'll Love About Weddings of Heart

Lili at Weddings of Heart offers comprehensive services to help you craft the perfect ceremony, as well as marriage coaching before the big day. She'll collaborate closely with you and your partner-to-be to further strengthen your unbreakable bond before you exchange your long-awaited, 'I do's.'

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Woman-owned

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FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$90

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Buddhist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Quaker
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English

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Lili, the officiant, received high praise from multiple reviewers for her exceptional service and ability to create personalized, heartfelt wedding ceremonies. She was described as calm, professional, and dedicated, making the planning process stress-free and enjoyable. Guests admired her professionalism and the sentimental atmosphere she crafted during the ceremonies, recommending her highly for future nuptials.

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Lili, the officiant, received high praise from multiple reviewers for her exceptional service and ability to create personalized, heartfelt wedding ceremonies. She was described as calm, professional, and dedicated, making the planning process stress-free and enjoyable. Guests admired her professionalism and the sentimental atmosphere she crafted during the ceremonies, recommending her highly for future nuptials.

Tracy
Tracy Sent on 10/29/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Lili made our wedding ceremony perfect!

Lili made our wedding ceremony everything we were hoping for and more! We met several times (on Zoom and in person) and were in constant communication via email to perfect our ceremony. She made the daunting task of creating a short, simple but sweet ceremony easy to do. She guided us through the whole process and it was not overwhelming at all! She even helped guide us through the vow writing process too. What I was most thankful for though was the actual day of- My fiance and I were both so nervous and her calm, gentle voice kept the ceremony moving at the perfect pace that felt sentimental and special. She is calm, cool, collected perfection! We highly, highly recommend Lili for your wedding ceremony!
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Logan Sent on 10/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Your officiant search is over!

Lili was so great to work with! She spent so much time interviewing us and sending various options so our wedding ceremony was absolutely perfect. You can tell how much she cares and I would highly recommend working with her if you need an officiant for your upcoming nuptials.
Patricia
Patricia Sent on 07/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Lili is fantastic!

Lili was absolutely terrific. She was easy to work with and was available whenever we needed to ask her questions. Many of our guests were impressed at her professionalism and what she said throughout our ceremony. They even asked how long we had known Lili because she made our ceremony so personal and kept things light and happy. She made the entire experience stress free and easy. We would absolutely recommend her! Having her perform our ceremony was one of the best parts of our wedding!
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Peyton Sent on 05/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Lili is a wonderful officiant

We are so happy that we found Lili. Not only was she so helpful in organizing our ceremony, but she is a joy to be around. She made our ceremony feel special and joyful for us and all of our guests.
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Mariah Sent on 12/21/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Officiant for wedding

Lili was absolutely fantastic. She was so helpful during the planning process and explained exactly how everything would go. We were very nervous but she made the ceremony so smooth and easy for us. Everyone loved how sweet the ceremony was. 100% recommend Lili for any wedding!
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As Sent on 09/28/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Lili is a pro

Lili officiated our wedding recently, and did such a fantastic job. The whole process was seamless, and I could not recommend her more. -Andrew
Maria
Maria Sent on 01/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Professional, personalized, timely

Lili is a pleasure to work with. She has the elegance, kind demeanour, and expressive voice that were were looking for. She worked on a very tight deadline with us, providing personalized guidance on script options and examples of readings. We met over two 60-minute meetings and she promptly responded to our emails.
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Amber Sent on 01/04/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Lili was wonderful! She was responsive and flexible when preparing the ceremony, and was professional, well-spoken, and warm the day of.

Lili worked with us very collaboratively to develop a script for the ceremony, and came up with great options for us to choose from to shape the ceremony we wanted! She was also very on top of logistics, and made sure we had our wedding license all set and had a clear plan for all logistics before the day of. We were thrilled with the ceremony and with her as an officiant! We highly recommend Lili at Weddings of Heart.
Charmaine
Charmaine Sent on 04/29/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Felt the love

Dr. Lili Freitas won us over with her warmth and positive attitude. When we interviewed possible officiants for our wedding we wanted someone who would work with us to figure out what we wanted, because both my husband and I were raised Roman Catholic but are not practicing Catholics as adults. We also chose not to get married in a church but wanted a ceremony that had some aspects of religion, traditions from my filipino culture and overall a ceremony filled with an exuberance of love. Dr. Lili did just that with the ceremony she put together for us. The ceremony ended up very beautiful and we received so many compliments from guests saying that they felt all the love and even had a lot of happy tears (including my husband who is the most stoic man I know). Dr. Lili was a pleasure to work with.
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Holly Sent on 11/17/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Lili made our wedding ceremony magical!

Lili made our wedding ceremony magical! We booked with Lili back in 2020 and she was flexible and kind when we had to move our wedding due to COVID. With no problems (or cost) whatsoever with the move she officiated our wedding on 8/28/21.

Our friends and family all commented that they thought she was a grandmother, or a long time family friend, because our ceremony felt so personal. Lili was totally a pro - she had the whole process figured out and it made it easy and not stressful for us to walk through the process. She even asked for our preference on what she should wear.

She gave us a ton of material to work from and then we went through an editing process where we picked out pieces from her scripts that we liked to form our final ceremony. This allowed us exactly the right amount of customization and made it so that we were able to "write" what made sense for us without having to write anything from scratch.

We also didn't want to write super long custom vows like we had heard at friends weddings... (the whole here is our entire relationship story etc), so we asked for some partially prewritten vows and customized those and then read them ourselves and it was exactly the right amount of personal that we wanted to share out loud with friends and family. There were plenty of tears shed!

I would 100% recommend working with Lili on your ceremony! She helped us created something so meaningful (and not religious) especially since we didn't have that perfect friend to officiate. Thank you Lili!!
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
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Starting a wedding day with a beautiful ceremony really sets the tone for the rest of the event. Lili always brings such positive energy and joy to all she does. Her ceremonies are memorable and authentic. She connects with the couple and the guests and is able to showcase what makes each couple unique and special. Love this officent!!!

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Reverend Lili Goodman Freitas gives heart-felt and charming services for those wanting a professional officiant to help them "tie the knot." What a wonderful experience for couples on their wedding day!

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Lili is great to work with. She meets with each couple to really personalize their wedding and make it special. She has a great presence and makes sure each wedding is unique. It was a pleasure working with you and I look forward to working with you in the future.

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