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Veteran-owned

17 years in business

We speak English

Small team (2-10 members)

The Thayer Hotel at West Point is located in West Point, New York and presents stunning event spaces available for weddings, rehearsal dinners, and more. Nestled in the Hudson Valley, this venue showcases breathtaking views of the Hudson River. Featuring unique gothic architecture and a rich military history, The Thayer Hotel at West Point is able to provide a memorable wedding experience that is second-to-none.

Facilities and Capacity

With both indoor and outdoor event spaces available, The Thayer Hotel at West Point has six stunning areas to choose from. A grand total of 220 guests are able to attend a couple's event at this hotel. The largest space, the Washington Ballroom, sits 100 feet above the Hudson River. The striking views of the lawn contribute to the charm and personality of any wedding day atmosphere. For cocktail receptions, couples will have access to the Perishing Room as well as a seasonally tented patio. Guests can access the fresh green lawn to mingle as they admire the beauty of the Hudson Valley around them.

Services Offered

The Thayer Hotel at West Point offers a variety of services to ensure a seamless wedding planning experience for each and every couple. With seasoned event planners on site, couples have the resources and organization needed for their wedding day dreams to come to life. The venue’s deluxe bridal suite offers a calm and comfortable space to prepare for the celebrations. The in-house catering is also able to please through its convenience and delicious flavors. The Thayer Hotel at West Point is happy to provide event rentals as well as setup and cleanup services, should couples require them.

Cuisine

When it comes to wedding day cuisine, the team at The Thayer Hotel at West Point will provide a variety of options to choose from. From buffet-style meals to plated dinners and serving stations, you’ll have the flexibility to choose the setup that’s right for you. Any of these layouts can result in your guests raving about the mouthwatering cuisine. Some of their most popular menu options include a local cheese and cracker display, a Mediterranean antipasto bar, a pasta station, a carving station, and more. From shrimp and grits to Asian pad thai stir fry, they have all the bases covered.

Accommodation

The Thayer Hotel at West Point has 128 guest rooms and 23 suites. Your guests will love the modern fixtures and historic charm that each of these rooms feature. For guests with children or those with dietary needs, cribs and refrigerators can be provided upon request.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,500

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Signature Drink

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

40

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

3 depending upon the size of the wedding

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Historic Building
Hotel

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Audio Equipment
Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
December

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Reviews of The Thayer Hotel at West Point

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The Thayer Hotel at West Point receives glowing reviews from multiple guests who highly recommend it as a wedding venue. The stunning setting and excellent service, including coordinators like Melissa and Heather, Maitre D's like Aaron, Talia, and Diana, as well as the attentive staff, contributed to seamless and magical wedding experiences. Guests appreciate the delicious food, beautiful views, and attention to detail, making The Thayer Hotel a top choice for couples seeking a fairytale wedding with white-glove service.

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The Thayer Hotel at West Point receives glowing reviews from multiple guests who highly recommend it as a wedding venue. The stunning setting and excellent service, including coordinators like Melissa and Heather, Maitre D's like Aaron, Talia, and Diana, as well as the attentive staff, contributed to seamless and magical wedding experiences. Guests appreciate the delicious food, beautiful views, and attention to detail, making The Thayer Hotel a top choice for couples seeking a fairytale wedding with white-glove service.

Weddingwire
4.8/5 121 reviews
Google
4.5/5 1462 reviews
Chris
Chris Sent on 10/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Fairy tale setting in the Hudson

As an Army veteran and football season ticketholder, I've been coming to West Point for many years. So when it was time for my fiance and I to start planning our wedding, we knew that it had to be at the Thayer.

From the minute we started the planning process, we knew that we made the right choice. All the staff involved in making our day special were amazing.

From Melissa our sales manager, Chef Chris, Talia and Tiffany our Maitre D's, to our awesome bartender Daphne they made our day perfect.

The hotel itself is iconic and full of history and heritage, it made the perfect setting for a wedding celebration. It's castle like appearance with commanding and breathtaking views made for an absolutely stunning backdrop. The ability to take photos at Trophy Point, the cadet chapel and south dock train station made it an even better experience.

The cocktail hour was amazing, and Talia ensured that we had enough to eat in the privacy of an ensuite area while we decompressed from the ceremony before joining our guests for our reception.

The food was top notch and perfectly prepared, a testament to the Chef and his skilled team. The event spaces were set up to perfection and the wait staff and other bartenders were skilled, and efficient.

The after party at Zulu on the rooftop was the finishing touch on our perfect day.

If you're looking for the fairytale wedding location, definitely don't hesitate to checkout the Thayer.
Robert
Robert Sent on 12/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding at The Thayer 10-25-25

The Thayer hotel was an absolute dream. We worked with Melissa and she delivered on every promise. From working with us on picking the ballroom, to all the small details, everything came out perfect. The hotel staff and wait staff were all amazing and we had the most incredible view for pictures at West Point. Highly recommend!
Pamela
Pamela Sent on 11/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

SPECTACULAR Wedding at The Thayer Hotel!

Our daughter's wedding at The Hotel Thayer was, in a word, SPECTACULAR! The hotel is stunningly beautiful, but beyond that, the staff is outstanding. Our wedding coordinator, Heather Osgood, spent months helping us get every detail perfect. She was patient, knowledgeable, supportive, warm and crafted an absolutely flawless wedding experience. Our maitre d', Aaron Falk, was OUTSTANDING from the rehearsal dinner until the end of the after party. Every single detail was under his control, and not only did he not miss a single detail, but he also did it all with humor and grace. The rest of the staff, desk clerks, housekeeping, bellmen,  banquet staff, the chef and the kitchen staff were incredibly talented, friendly and helpful. The food was SUPERB! I cannot recommend Hotel Thayer and its staff more strongly. It is unrivaled. My daughter, her husband, and my husband and I thank you all for the time of our lives!
Edina
Edina Sent on 10/16/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our special day

The experience at Thayer was truly captivating and breathtaking!!!! We will never forget the incredible hard work from our Maitre’d Aaron who helped and navigated the day so smooth and stress free. The scenery and the atmosphere is incredible and having our family all stay there and share the special moments before and after meant everything in creating memories!!!!! My coordinator Heather was so helpful in helping facilitate all the necessary steps in what was needed for our special day!!!!! We are forever grateful!!!!
J
Julia Sent on 10/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Magical and Perfect Wedding Day at The Thayer Hotel

Our wedding day was nothing short of magical and perfect at The Thayer Hotel at West Point. I cannot recommend the hotel enough to engaged couples for a seamless wedding planning experience from start to finish and for an outstanding once in a lifetime wedding guest experience. We had someone from the hotel to help us every step of the way and to make sure everything we discussed and planned for the day of was perfectly carried out. The hotel staff are incredibly kind, patient, knowledgeable, and truly went above and beyond to ensure we had the best day of our lives. Our guests raved about how it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to with delicious food, comfortable accommodations, and kind and amazing staff. We can’t thank everyone at The Thayer Hotel enough for making our wedding day the best day!
L
Lisa Sent on 10/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our September 2025 Wedding at The Thayer Hotel

My husband and I got married at The Thayer Hotel in September 2025 and it was truly a 10/10 experience. The venue itself is stunning, unique, and charming and the views are UNMATCHED! We got married onsite and it was really so gorgeous. Plus, there are so many amazing places on the whole campus to take photos, inside and outside.

The food was SO GOOD, and the drinks were delicious and strong! When we went around the reception from table to table literally all our guests’ plates were licked clean.

The professionalism of the venue staff was also excellent, specifically our day of coordinated/Matre D, Talia, and our event planner who helped us with legit every detail leading up the rehearsal dinner & wedding, Melissa. Everything went smoothly the day of, but even if a hiccup arose, Talia handled it with ease. She even came into the hospitality suite to help me with my bustle when no one else could figure it out! Without Melissa and Talia, and the rest of the wonderful staff, the day would not have been as perfect as it was.

The waiters, bartenders, front desk agents, bell boys, etc. really took care of us and our guests. Our guests were raving about how kind and helpful everyone was the whole weekend and continue to tell us that it was the best wedding they have ever attended!

The quality of service and value is really prominent at The Thayer Hotel. I felt like they really cared about my husband and I at every point of the planning process and day – they really took great care of us. The packages they offer are great since you can have a ceremony, reception, and after party onsite, plus have a room block. Our guests and us loved that everything was in one place – it was very convenient and efficient. Overall, we would recommend this venue to anyone who wants to get married in the Hudson Valley and is looking for a beautiful venue with breathtaking views, excellent food/drinks, and white glove service.
M
Morris Sent on 09/16/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Schrader wedding

We cannot say enough wonderful things about The Historic Thayer Hotel at West Point. From start to finish, the entire team was beyond accommodating, kind, and truly great to work with. They went above and beyond to make sure everything was as seamless and stress-free as possible, allowing us to actually enjoy the process leading up to our big day.

The venue itself is an absolute dream—breathtaking, timeless, and elegant. So many of our guests commented that it was one of the nicest venues they had ever been to, and we couldn’t agree more. Every detail was thoughtfully handled, and the atmosphere was simply unmatched.

As for the wedding itself, it was everything we dreamed of and more. Thanks to the Thayer’s incredible staff and coordination, our wedding day was perfect in every way. We will always be grateful to them for helping us create memories that will last a lifetime. If you’re looking for a venue that combines beauty, history, and exceptional service, look no further than The Thayer Hotel.
Brianna
Brianna Sent on 09/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Venue

We could not have imagined a more perfect venue for our wedding than Thayer. From start to finish, the team was professional, kind, and incredibly attentive. The space itself is stunning and provided the most beautiful backdrop for both our ceremony and reception; our guests are still talking about it!

On top of the gorgeous setting, the food was absolutely incredible. Every dish was fresh, flavorful, and beautifully presented. We had so many compliments from guests saying it was the best wedding meal they’ve ever had.

We also want to give a special shoutout to Casey and Aaron, who went above and beyond to make sure every detail was taken care of. Their attentiveness, calmness, and genuine care for our day did not go unnoticed, and we are so grateful for everything they did to make the experience seamless and unforgettable.

If you’re looking for a venue that combines gorgeous scenery, outstanding service, amazing food, and a team that truly cares, Thayer is the place. We are so happy we chose it and would do it all over again in a heartbeat.
V
Veronica Sent on 08/31/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Thayer Hotel

Nothing but pure professionalism! From the wait staff to the front desk to anyone working in that hotel who didn’t even have a role in our wedding weekend, we were met with nothing but kindness, warm greetings, and assistance even when we didn’t ask. The grounds are beautiful, and the hotel is charming! My husband and I had such an amazing weekend! Huge, HUGE credit especially to Aaron our Maitre d, who solved problems we didn’t even know we had. When our backdrop for our sweetheart table wasn’t able to be built like planned, he went out of his way and reconstructed it to work. He, along with the team, set up all of my DIY centerpieces better than I could have imagined, and when he realized I didn’t have enough signature drink signs printed, he printed more and found gorgeous gold frames to display them in. There wasn’t a single problem that was brought to mine or my husband’s attention until it was resolved thank to Aaron and his caring, professional work. This allowed for us to have a stress free of a wedding as possible! I wouldn’t have wanted to get married anywhere else, and our wedding reception wouldn’t have been as amazing as it was without Aaron or the Thayer! Highly, highly recommended!
D
Diana Sent on 08/17/2025
5 out of 5 rating

8/16/25 Wedding at The Thayer

The Thayer was by far the most put together venue we toured and we instantly fell in love. There are multiple options for your ceremony and reception rooms and all are equally beautiful. They were so responsive and organized and truly took the stress out of wedding planning. Our coordinator, Casey, was so amazing throughout the entire process and made my husband and I feel so comfortable. Our Maître d', Aaron, was incredibly helpful and thought of everything - such as taking the flowers from cocktail hour and saving them for our farewell brunch. The entire wedding party was obsessed with him- for good reason! He was always 10 steps ahead of all of us, and made our day seamless.

I cannot recommend The Thayer hotel enough!! We just got married yesterday and I already want to do it all over again, it was the most perfect day imaginable!
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The Thayer Hotel at West Point frequently asked questions

The Thayer Hotel at West Point includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Thayer Hotel at West Point includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at The Thayer Hotel at West Point includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by The Thayer Hotel at West Point for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
The Thayer Hotel at West Point offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Thayer Hotel at West Point offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Thayer Hotel at West Point offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
The Thayer Hotel at West Point offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
The Thayer Hotel at West Point is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in professionalism, 4.7 in average response time, 4.7 in flexibility and 4.7 in value.
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