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The Thayer Hotel at West Point

The Thayer Hotel at West Point

West Point, NY
4.8 out of 5 rating, 127 reviews
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    John Sent on 05/27/2026
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    May 16, 2026 Wedding Reception

    We could not have been happier with our wedding experience at the Thayer Hotel. From start to finish, everything was handled with professionalism, care, and incredible attention to detail. Melissa, our Catering Manager, was absolutely outstanding — extremely conscientious, highly organized, and an exceptional communicator throughout the entire process. She made what could have been a stressful experience – especially since we were out of state - feel seamless and enjoyable.

    The Thayer itself is a truly beautiful and historic venue, and it created the perfect backdrop for our wedding weekend. The service was wonderful across the board, and the food exceeded expectations for both us and our guests.

    One of the things we appreciated most was how flawlessly the Thayer team coordinated with all of our outside vendors, including transportation buses, gift bag delivery, the band, and photography. Everything ran smoothly because of their careful planning and execution.

    We are so grateful to Melissa and the entire Thayer team for helping create such a memorable and special celebration. We would highly recommend the Thayer Hotel to anyone looking for an exceptional wedding venue.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    John, thank you so much for your incredibly kind words and for choosing The Historic Thayer Hotel for your wedding celebration. We are truly honored to have been part of such a special milestone in your lives.

    It means so much to hear that Melissa and the entire team helped make the planning process feel seamless, especially from out of state. From coordinating with your vendors to ensuring every detail of the weekend came together smoothly, our team strives to create unforgettable experiences for every couple, and we’re so happy that was reflected throughout your celebration.

    Thank you again for your heartfelt recommendation. We wish you both a lifetime filled with love, happiness, and beautiful memories together!
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    Wedding Review

    We felt that the Thayer was a great venue for our wedding, and we couldn’t have had a better experience start to finish. The wedding expo’s that they offer were a big help in giving us a better idea of what to expect going forward. From picking the right room within the Thayer for our ceremony, to the menu tasting, we really felt that the Thayer did a great job. Staff on the day of were attentive, and made our wedding day as smooth as possible!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your heartfelt review and for choosing The Historic Thayer Hotel for such an important milestone in your lives. It means so much to hear that our wedding expos, planning process, menu tasting, and attentive staff helped make your experience feel seamless from start to finish.

    We are truly honored to have been part of your special day and are so happy your wedding was everything you hoped for. Wishing you both a lifetime of love, happiness, and unforgettable memories together!
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  • Holly
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    April 2026 Wedding

    We had our wedding at the Thayer in April 2026, and it was an incredibly seamless process from start to finish. Heather was our coordinator at the venue, and she was so warm and helpful. We had multiple phone check-ins along the way, and she always made sure to clarify any details with me based on the information I provided to ensure they had everything how we wanted. 
    When it came to the wedding weekend, Aaron was assigned as our maître d’ and we cannot say enough great things about him! Even guests and family members were commenting on how wonderful he was. From the moment we arrived for the rehearsal dinner, he made us feel so well taken care of and his calm sense of confidence really helped us to relax and enjoy ourselves. The ceremony and reception went off without a hitch; the food was delicious and the servers were very attentive. Everyone says something is bound to go wrong on your wedding day, but thanks to the staff - especially Aaron and Heather - we really had the perfect day with no issues. If I had to go back and do it all again, I would choose them!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Holly, thank you so much for sharing your experience and for choosing to celebrate such a special moment with us!

    We’re truly honored to have been part of your wedding day, and we’re so glad to hear the entire process felt seamless from start to finish. Heather will be so happy to know her guidance and attention to detail made you feel supported every step of the way, and your kind words about Aaron mean so much. Creating a calm, confident, and well cared for experience is exactly what we strive for, especially during such an important weekend.

    It means everything to hear that your day felt perfect and stress free. We wish you both a lifetime of happiness and hope to welcome you back to celebrate many more milestones in the years ahead.
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    Staci Sent on 03/30/2026
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    Best Wedding Venue!

    We had our daughter’s wedding at the Thayer Hotel, and from the very first visit through the very end of the night, it was an absolutely wonderful experience. I had never planned anything even close to this size before, so I honestly had no idea where to begin, but their team made everything feel manageable and walked us through every step. From choosing the menu and reserving rooms to tastings and even helping connect us with the bakery, they made the entire process feel easy.

    On the day of the wedding, everything was set up perfectly. I truly did not have to do a thing. I walked in feeling like a guest and was able to relax and enjoy the evening, which was such a gift. The food was delicious, the bar was well stocked, and the maître d’ was incredible, attentive, professional, and on top of every detail.

    At the end of the night, the staff even helped me pack up the car, which was so appreciated after such a big and emotional day. It was a magical evening, and my daughter and new son-in-law had the wedding they had dreamed of. I highly, highly, highly recommend the Thayer Hotel and its wonderful staff.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words, Staci! It was truly an honor to be part of such a special day for your family. We’re so glad our team could make the planning process feel seamless and allow you to fully relax and enjoy every moment.

    Hearing that everything came together perfectly, from the food and service to the small details at the end of the night, means so much to us. We will be sure to share your kind words with our entire team.

    Wishing your daughter and son-in-law a lifetime of happiness, and we hope to welcome you back to celebrate many more special moments in the future!
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    Christina Sent on 02/23/2026
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    Spectacular Fall Wedding

    My husband and I picked The Thayer Hotel for it's beautiful location on the Hudson River. We knew we wanted to get married in the fall and wanted an outdoor wedding. The Thayer had the best of both worlds. Catering on premises, day of coordinator so we didn't have to stress, professional staff, and amazing scenic views for our pictures. We cannot thank the staff of the Thayer Hotel for making our wedding special. We've been married for 2 years already and we just recently went back to celebrate our anniversary there. It will always be a special place.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Christina, thank you so much for your kind words and for choosing The Historic Thayer Hotel for your fall wedding. We are honored to have been part of such a special day for you and your husband. The Hudson River views in the fall truly make for a magical setting, and we are so glad our team could help make your celebration seamless and memorable.

    It means so much to hear that you returned to celebrate your anniversary with us. Knowing that The Thayer Hotel continues to be a meaningful place in your story is the greatest compliment we could receive. We hope to welcome you back again for many more anniversaries and special moments in the years to come.
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    Robert Sent on 12/30/2025
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    Wedding at The Thayer 10-25-25

    The Thayer hotel was an absolute dream. We worked with Melissa and she delivered on every promise. From working with us on picking the ballroom, to all the small details, everything came out perfect. The hotel staff and wait staff were all amazing and we had the most incredible view for pictures at West Point. Highly recommend!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Robert, thank you so much for sharing your experience and congratulations again on your wedding. We are honored to have been part of such a special day. It is wonderful to hear that Melissa and our entire team delivered on every detail and helped bring your vision to life. We’re so glad you enjoyed the ballroom, the service, and the unforgettable West Point views for your photos. Thank you for the recommendation, we wish you both a lifetime of happiness and hope to welcome you back again!
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    Pamela Sent on 11/22/2025
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    SPECTACULAR Wedding at The Thayer Hotel!

    Our daughter's wedding at The Hotel Thayer was, in a word, SPECTACULAR! The hotel is stunningly beautiful, but beyond that, the staff is outstanding. Our wedding coordinator, Heather Osgood, spent months helping us get every detail perfect. She was patient, knowledgeable, supportive, warm and crafted an absolutely flawless wedding experience. Our maitre d', Aaron Falk, was OUTSTANDING from the rehearsal dinner until the end of the after party. Every single detail was under his control, and not only did he not miss a single detail, but he also did it all with humor and grace. The rest of the staff, desk clerks, housekeeping, bellmen,  banquet staff, the chef and the kitchen staff were incredibly talented, friendly and helpful. The food was SUPERB! I cannot recommend Hotel Thayer and its staff more strongly. It is unrivaled. My daughter, her husband, and my husband and I thank you all for the time of our lives!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much, Pamela. Your words mean the world to our entire team. We are thrilled to hear your daughter’s celebration was everything you hoped for and more. Heather and Aaron will be overjoyed to know how much their care and dedication meant to your family. It was an honor to be part of such a beautiful day, and we are grateful for your trust. Wishing your newlyweds a lifetime of happiness, and we hope to welcome you back again soon!
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    Edina Sent on 10/16/2025
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    Our special day

    The experience at Thayer was truly captivating and breathtaking!!!! We will never forget the incredible hard work from our Maitre’d Aaron who helped and navigated the day so smooth and stress free. The scenery and the atmosphere is incredible and having our family all stay there and share the special moments before and after meant everything in creating memories!!!!! My coordinator Heather was so helpful in helping facilitate all the necessary steps in what was needed for our special day!!!!! We are forever grateful!!!!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Edina, thank you so much for your wonderful review! It was truly a pleasure working with you and being part of such a beautiful celebration. I’m so glad your wedding day was everything you envisioned and that your family could share in those special moments together. Wishing you and your husband endless love, happiness, and cherished memories in the years ahead!

    Warmly,
    Heather
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    Julia Sent on 10/13/2025
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    A Magical and Perfect Wedding Day at The Thayer Hotel

    Our wedding day was nothing short of magical and perfect at The Thayer Hotel at West Point. I cannot recommend the hotel enough to engaged couples for a seamless wedding planning experience from start to finish and for an outstanding once in a lifetime wedding guest experience. We had someone from the hotel to help us every step of the way and to make sure everything we discussed and planned for the day of was perfectly carried out. The hotel staff are incredibly kind, patient, knowledgeable, and truly went above and beyond to ensure we had the best day of our lives. Our guests raved about how it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to with delicious food, comfortable accommodations, and kind and amazing staff. We can’t thank everyone at The Thayer Hotel enough for making our wedding day the best day!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your kind words and for celebrating your wedding with us at The Historic Thayer Hotel. We’re truly honored to have been part of such a magical and meaningful day. It brings us so much joy to hear that our team helped make your planning process smooth and your celebration unforgettable.

    We’ll be sure to share your lovely feedback with our staff, who will be delighted to know they helped make your day so special. Wishing you both endless happiness as you begin this new chapter together!
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    Lisa Sent on 10/11/2025
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    Our September 2025 Wedding at The Thayer Hotel

    My husband and I got married at The Thayer Hotel in September 2025 and it was truly a 10/10 experience. The venue itself is stunning, unique, and charming and the views are UNMATCHED! We got married onsite and it was really so gorgeous. Plus, there are so many amazing places on the whole campus to take photos, inside and outside.

    The food was SO GOOD, and the drinks were delicious and strong! When we went around the reception from table to table literally all our guests’ plates were licked clean.

    The professionalism of the venue staff was also excellent, specifically our day of coordinated/Matre D, Talia, and our event planner who helped us with legit every detail leading up the rehearsal dinner & wedding, Melissa. Everything went smoothly the day of, but even if a hiccup arose, Talia handled it with ease. She even came into the hospitality suite to help me with my bustle when no one else could figure it out! Without Melissa and Talia, and the rest of the wonderful staff, the day would not have been as perfect as it was.

    The waiters, bartenders, front desk agents, bell boys, etc. really took care of us and our guests. Our guests were raving about how kind and helpful everyone was the whole weekend and continue to tell us that it was the best wedding they have ever attended!

    The quality of service and value is really prominent at The Thayer Hotel. I felt like they really cared about my husband and I at every point of the planning process and day – they really took great care of us. The packages they offer are great since you can have a ceremony, reception, and after party onsite, plus have a room block. Our guests and us loved that everything was in one place – it was very convenient and efficient. Overall, we would recommend this venue to anyone who wants to get married in the Hudson Valley and is looking for a beautiful venue with breathtaking views, excellent food/drinks, and white glove service.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Lisa, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful review and for choosing The Historic Thayer Hotel for your special day. We’re thrilled to hear that your wedding was everything you hoped for and more. It’s wonderful to know that Melissa and Talia helped make your experience seamless from start to finish, and we’ll be sure to share your kind words with them and the rest of our team.

    We’re honored to have been part of such a meaningful celebration and so happy that you and your guests enjoyed the food, drinks, and service throughout the weekend. Wishing you and your husband a lifetime of love, laughter, and unforgettable memories together!
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    Morris Sent on 09/16/2025
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    Schrader wedding

    We cannot say enough wonderful things about The Historic Thayer Hotel at West Point. From start to finish, the entire team was beyond accommodating, kind, and truly great to work with. They went above and beyond to make sure everything was as seamless and stress-free as possible, allowing us to actually enjoy the process leading up to our big day.

    The venue itself is an absolute dream—breathtaking, timeless, and elegant. So many of our guests commented that it was one of the nicest venues they had ever been to, and we couldn’t agree more. Every detail was thoughtfully handled, and the atmosphere was simply unmatched.

    As for the wedding itself, it was everything we dreamed of and more. Thanks to the Thayer’s incredible staff and coordination, our wedding day was perfect in every way. We will always be grateful to them for helping us create memories that will last a lifetime. If you’re looking for a venue that combines beauty, history, and exceptional service, look no further than The Thayer Hotel.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for sharing such wonderful feedback about your wedding experience! We are thrilled to know our team helped make the planning and your big day seamless and memorable. It is an honor to have hosted such a special celebration and we are so glad your guests enjoyed the beauty and history of the hotel as much as you did. We look forward to welcoming you back for future visits and celebrations at The Thayer Hotel.
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    Brianna Sent on 09/07/2025
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    Incredible Venue

    We could not have imagined a more perfect venue for our wedding than Thayer. From start to finish, the team was professional, kind, and incredibly attentive. The space itself is stunning and provided the most beautiful backdrop for both our ceremony and reception; our guests are still talking about it!

    On top of the gorgeous setting, the food was absolutely incredible. Every dish was fresh, flavorful, and beautifully presented. We had so many compliments from guests saying it was the best wedding meal they’ve ever had.

    We also want to give a special shoutout to Casey and Aaron, who went above and beyond to make sure every detail was taken care of. Their attentiveness, calmness, and genuine care for our day did not go unnoticed, and we are so grateful for everything they did to make the experience seamless and unforgettable.

    If you’re looking for a venue that combines gorgeous scenery, outstanding service, amazing food, and a team that truly cares, Thayer is the place. We are so happy we chose it and would do it all over again in a heartbeat.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for such a heartfelt review and for choosing The Thayer Hotel for your wedding day. We are honored to have been part of such a meaningful celebration and delighted that both the setting and the cuisine left a lasting impression on you and your guests.

    Your kind words about Casey and Aaron mean so much, and we will be sure to share your gratitude with them. They, along with our entire team, take great pride in making every detail seamless so couples can fully enjoy their day.

    We are thrilled to know your experience was everything you hoped for and more, and we wish you a lifetime of happiness. We look forward to welcoming you back to The Thayer for future celebrations and anniversaries!
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    Veronica Sent on 08/31/2025
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    The Thayer Hotel

    Nothing but pure professionalism! From the wait staff to the front desk to anyone working in that hotel who didn’t even have a role in our wedding weekend, we were met with nothing but kindness, warm greetings, and assistance even when we didn’t ask. The grounds are beautiful, and the hotel is charming! My husband and I had such an amazing weekend! Huge, HUGE credit especially to Aaron our Maitre d, who solved problems we didn’t even know we had. When our backdrop for our sweetheart table wasn’t able to be built like planned, he went out of his way and reconstructed it to work. He, along with the team, set up all of my DIY centerpieces better than I could have imagined, and when he realized I didn’t have enough signature drink signs printed, he printed more and found gorgeous gold frames to display them in. There wasn’t a single problem that was brought to mine or my husband’s attention until it was resolved thank to Aaron and his caring, professional work. This allowed for us to have a stress free of a wedding as possible! I wouldn’t have wanted to get married anywhere else, and our wedding reception wouldn’t have been as amazing as it was without Aaron or the Thayer! Highly, highly recommended!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for sharing such heartfelt feedback about your wedding weekend. We are thrilled to hear that every interaction, from our front desk to our banquet team, made you feel cared for and supported throughout your stay. Your kind words about Aaron mean the world—his dedication, creativity, and problem-solving are truly remarkable, and we’re so glad his efforts allowed you to enjoy a stress-free and memorable celebration. It’s an honor to have been part of such a special occasion, and we are deeply grateful you chose The Thayer Hotel for your wedding. Congratulations to you both, and we wish you a lifetime of happiness together!
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    8/16/25 Wedding at The Thayer

    The Thayer was by far the most put together venue we toured and we instantly fell in love. There are multiple options for your ceremony and reception rooms and all are equally beautiful. They were so responsive and organized and truly took the stress out of wedding planning. Our coordinator, Casey, was so amazing throughout the entire process and made my husband and I feel so comfortable. Our Maître d', Aaron, was incredibly helpful and thought of everything - such as taking the flowers from cocktail hour and saving them for our farewell brunch. The entire wedding party was obsessed with him- for good reason! He was always 10 steps ahead of all of us, and made our day seamless.

    I cannot recommend The Thayer hotel enough!! We just got married yesterday and I already want to do it all over again, it was the most perfect day imaginable!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for this beautiful review, Diana! We’re honored that you chose The Thayer for your special day and thrilled to hear that everything exceeded your expectations. It’s wonderful to know that Casey and Aaron made the planning process and wedding day seamless and stress-free. We’ll be sure to share your kind words with them and the rest of our team. Hearing that you’d want to relive the day all over again truly means the world to us. Wishing you and your husband a lifetime of love and happiness — we hope to welcome you back for future celebrations!
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    Thayer Hotel wedding

    Absolutely amazing all around, food was great, service was fantastic, and the ceremony sight was the best anyone could ask for

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for the wonderful review! We're so happy to hear everything from the food to the service to the ceremony site exceeded your expectations. It was an honor to be part of such a special day. Wishing you all the best in your new journey together!
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    Mallorie Sent on 06/29/2025
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    Wedding venue review

    We had the most incredible experience at our wedding venue, and working with Maiter’d Aaron made the day absolutely perfect. The venue itself was beautiful and everything flowed so smoothly from start to finish. But what really made the difference was Aaron.

    Aaron was responsive, organized, and went above and beyond to make sure every little detail was exactly how I envisioned it. He made the process feel so easy and stress-free, even when I started to feel nervous leading up to the big moment. Aaron has such a calming presence and made sure I felt supported the entire time. Whether it was answering questions, making last-minute adjustments, or just checking in to make sure I was okay, he was there for us every step of the way.

    Our ceremony felt so personal and special because of him. I truly can’t thank him enough for making our day run so smoothly and for making me feel so cared for. If you’re getting married here, you are in the best hands with Aaron!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for this heartfelt review. We’re honored to have been part of such a special day, and we’re absolutely thrilled to hear that Aaron made your wedding experience so seamless and memorable. He truly takes pride in what he does, and your kind words mean the world. We’ll be sure to pass along your gratitude to him. Congratulations again, and we wish you all the happiness in the world as you begin this new chapter!
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    Martha Sent on 05/21/2025
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    Spring Wedding 2025 - perfect wedding weekend!

    Our daughter's wedding at the Thayer Hotel was absolutely wonderful! The hotel and the views of the Hudson River were stunning. We had the rehearsal dinner and farewell breakfast in the Eisenhower Room and the wedding reception in the Washington Ballroom. Our coordinators Jessica and Melissa helped and took care of everything we needed. They walked us through the wedding process with patience, professionalism, and friendliness. They responded quickly to all our requests and questions. We would highly recommend the Thayer Hotel for your wedding venue!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share your experience! It was truly an honor to host your daughter’s wedding celebration at The Thayer Hotel. From the stunning Hudson River views to the elegant Eisenhower Room and Washington Ballroom, we’re so glad everything came together to create a memorable weekend for your family.

    Jessica and Melissa will be thrilled to hear your wonderful feedback! They are truly dedicated to making each couple’s experience seamless and special, and your recognition means the world. Wishing your daughter and her new spouse a lifetime of love and happiness!
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    Jenny Sent on 01/16/2025
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    Fairytale!

    The absolute most perfect venue for the wedding of your dreams!!! 5+++++!!!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Wow, thank you for such an enthusiastic review! We’re thrilled to hear that your experience at The Thayer Hotel was nothing short of perfect and that it made your dream wedding a reality. Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness, and we hope to welcome you back for future celebrations!
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    Kerry Sent on 11/12/2024
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    5 Stars!! Beautiful Venue!

    We worked with Melissa (ended up being my Thayer planner as well) and couldn’t recommend more. Melissa was great to work with and answered every question I had. We no longer live in NY, so Melissa setup a virtual walk through of the venue which helped us make our decision. They will set your VIPs up as visitors to West Point so you can take photos at Trophy Point if desired. This saved us so much time/stress on day of. Talia was our Maitre’D and she sure everything went according to the plan on the day of.
    The food and drinks were delicious and received glowing reviews from our family and friends.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for your glowing review! We’re delighted to hear that Melissa and Talia provided such exceptional service and helped make your special day stress-free and memorable. Melissa’s virtual walkthrough and attention to detail, along with Talia’s day-of coordination, are wonderful examples of the care we put into every event. We’re so glad your family and friends enjoyed the food, drinks, and the overall experience. Thank you for choosing The Thayer Hotel—we hope to welcome you back for future celebrations!
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    Jenna Sent on 11/12/2024
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    Amazing Overall

    Our experience at The Thayer Hotel was absolutely magical from start to finish. From the moment we toured the venue, we knew it was the perfect place for our wedding. The setting is nothing short of breathtaking. The natural beauty of the venue created a serene, romantic atmosphere that we couldn’t have imagined anywhere else.

    The staff at The Thayer Hotel were equally impressive. They went above and beyond to ensure everything was seamless, from the planning process all the way through to the big day. Our wedding coordinator and Maître D' were incredibly organized and attentive, making sure that every detail was taken care of. We felt supported and relaxed, knowing that we were in capable hands.

    We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect venue to celebrate our special day. The Thayer Hotel made our wedding day unforgettable, and we’ll always be grateful for the unforgettable memories it helped us create. Highly recommend to anyone looking for a venue that offers both beauty and impeccable service!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt review! We are thrilled to have been a part of your magical wedding day and are so glad The Thayer Hotel exceeded your expectations. The stunning setting, paired with our dedicated team, is something we take great pride in, and it’s wonderful to know that both contributed to making your special day unforgettable.

    Your kind words about our wedding coordinator and Maître D' mean so much to us—they truly strive to ensure every detail is perfect. Thank you for trusting us with your celebration, and we’re honored to have helped create memories that will last a lifetime. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness, and we hope to welcome you back soon!
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    Fall Wedding 2024

    My wedding at the Thayer was an absolute dream; my family is still talking about it. I have been planning my wedding day for almost two years and Jessica, the Venue Coordinator, was nothing short of perfection. The communication, kindness, and patience she has is unparalleled. She was always willing to answer my questions or concerns in a timely manner with a smile, consideration, and respect. I felt incredibly grateful to have had the privilege of working with her to plan my day. Our tasting dinner with both parents was incredible, our family still talks about it too. Food for a wedding was a point of contention, I was not willing to settle for mediocre, and Chef Chris did not disappoint. He was extremely accommodating for all allergies and diets and made us feel safe and comfortable in the variety of foods available. The staff and hotel on the day of my wedding were as professional as they come. The warmth I felt from their positive energy, and how thoughtful they were delivering service to my guests was well worth it. I had the privilege of working with Diana as my Maitre D’. She is such a breath of fresh air in all the decision fatigue and stress the day of a wedding. I was able to trust her judgement, she was so respectful to all guests, family, myself and my husband. Her communication and professionalism is top tier and I truly felt so relieved knowing my vision would be executed through her. She was there for my scheduled breakfast the day after helping me gather all my belongings and chatting with my family. The valet were so helpful and sweet, the rooms were spotless, and all my guests loved walking around admiring the history and architecture. The Zulu rooftop bar was also such a hit!! It was so good knowing that after my event all my guests would be safe and could still party up there if they wanted. The view is absolutely killer, nothing beats being outdoors in the mountains over looking the Hudson River. I am so thankful to everyone at the Thayer and so pleased to have had them as my venue and would do it all again in a heartbeat.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re thrilled that your wedding at The Thayer was everything you dreamed of. It’s wonderful to hear that Jessica, Chef Chris, and Diana made your day so special, and that the food, service, and attention to detail exceeded your expectations. We’re glad your guests loved the venue and that Zulu Time was such a hit!

    Your trust in us means the world, and we’d be honored to welcome you back for any future celebrations. Thank you again for choosing The Thayer Hotel!
  • Kathryn
    Kathryn Sent on 09/25/2024
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    Perfect Wedding Weekend at The Thayer

    Our wedding weekend at The Thayer Hotel was perfect! From the start of our planning process all the way until the end, we enjoyed working with the Thayer and our coordinator Jessica. They checked all of our boxes as far as having enough rooms for our out of town guests, space for our rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, after party, and day after breakfast. We were so happy to be able to have all of the events in one space so that no one had to travel throughout the weekend and we did not have to provide transportation. During the planning process the communication with Jessica was open and clear and she was able to meet all of our needs. She even went above and beyond what we were expecting in order to truly make it our dream wedding. Even though it unfortunately rained on the wedding day, the Thayer staff were quick in their contingency planning and moved the ceremony into an indoor space that turned out beautiful. Having the after party at the Zulu rooftop was also a big hit. The guest rooms, venue spaces, food, staff, and hotel grounds were all exceptional. Our guests still have not stopped raving about the entire weekend and we are so happy that we had our wedding at The Thayer!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your kind review! We’re thrilled that your wedding weekend at The Thayer Hotel was everything you hoped for, and that Jessica and the team helped bring your vision to life. It’s great to hear that everything from the rehearsal dinner to the ceremony, reception, and after-party went smoothly, even with the weather changes. We're so glad your guests enjoyed the experience as much as you did. Thank you for choosing us to be a part of your special day!
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    Get married here. Simple perfection!

    The Thayer is THE PLACE to get married. The staff was completely wonderful from planning to days after. The venue is just beautiful, the service from every employee is top notch, and the packages are completely reasonable for everything you get. Special shout out to Krista, Marie, Gino, Chris and Aaron who were extremely kind and who went over and beyond to make our day everything we could ask for. Everyone, literally everyone, who came to our wedding have only good things to say. Zero drama. Zero issues. Literally from finding a magical crochet hook to accommodating a Filipino food station they made magic happen. These people made a profound impact that my (now) husband and I will never forget. Choose this place as your venue and do the room block- especially on game week- you will not regret it. Oh and be sure to ask for Marie Schuette as your planner and Aaron Faulk as your Maître D’. Together you're in the best of hands!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Hello Debra! Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share your wedding experience with The Thayer Hotel! We loved hosting you and Dylan and your loved ones for your special day. We are thrilled to hear that Krista, Marie, Ginoh, Chris, and Aaron took good care of you and will share that with our management team. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness!
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    The best day!

    If you’re looking for a timeless, classic wedding venue with picturesque views and an incredible staff, look no further. My guests were in complete awe of the grounds, the hotel and the experience provided at the wedding. Chelsea and Amy were absolutely amazing to work with and found a way to make my wedding exactly how I wanted it. I would have my wedding again and again at The Thayer!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Congratulations Abigail and Daniel! It was our pleasure to host your incredible wedding. We are so pleased to hear that Chelsea and Amy helped to make your special day exactly as you had dreamed it could be, and they absolutely loved working with you. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your kind words with us. Wishing you and your friends and family good health, love, and happiness!
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    Book the Thayer!

    The entire staff at the Thayer were incredible. From changing to our rain plan, to changing the room it was in, to the food, staff- it was all amazing. The Maitre'd, Amy, was INCREDIBLE, as was our coordinator, Marie. I cannot say enough wonderful things about them. The brunch was beautiful and better than what we envisioned. I would recommend them to anyone!

    On an additional note, the pricing was very affordable- more so than less established venues. For a place that hosts Presidents and Generals, the Thayer exceeded our expectations in every way!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Hello Sarah! Congratulations on your wedding! We are so happy for you and Paul and were thrilled to host your beautiful celebration. We are glad to hear Amy, Marie, and our staff took good care of you and that your special day turned out amazing. Thank you for your kind words. We wish you and your loved ones a lifetime of happiness!
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    Don't Walk, RUN to the The Thayer for your hotel block and next event



    Wow. Where do I begin? Chelsea Allen and the Thayer Hotel are more than amazing and we can’t thank them enough for hosting our guests, setting up a beautiful rehearsal dinner and breakfast for our wedding. Chelsea answered all questions and concerns and was the sweetest person to work with and we cannot recommend this hotel enough!! Every email, visit and call we felt supported and the venue itself is so stunning! Even on a rainy October day our guests couldn't stop raving.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you, Alyssa! We are thrilled to hear you were happy with your experience at The Thayer Hotel! Chelsea loved working with you and Steven, and we appreciate your kind words. It was absolutely our pleasure to host you! Cheers to you and wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness.
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    Taylor Sent on 10/27/2023
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    Just amazing

    October is amazing in the Hudson valley and Thayer gives all the vibes with the views of the Hudson, the fall foliage and the cozy lobby.
    Everyone I came into contact with at Thayer was professional and helpful. Chelsea specifically was phenomenal. She was very attentive and did not leave a stone unturned.
    The food was incredible. Head chef Chris took the time to sit with us at our tasting and make sure everything was just the way we wanted it.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Hi Taylor! We were thrilled to host your wedding here at The Thayer Hotel. We couldn't agree with you more about Hudson Valley Octobers! So glad you enjoyed the views, foliage and our cozy lobby. We are pleased to hear that Chelsea and Chef Chris took good care of you and that you enjoyed the food! We really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience with us and for your kind words. Wishing you and your loved ones a lifetime of happiness!
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    Absolutely Outstanding!

    We had the pleasure of having our wedding ceremony and reception at the Thayer recently. We cannot express how wonderful the experience was! Everyone from Krista in sales, who helped us choose the type of reception we wanted, to Hayle, our on-site coordinator who was the best show-runner we could have hoped for, to the bartenders at our celebrations and the valets (Thank you, Phil!) who made getting in and out seamless and easy.... They were all just as helpful, friendly, professional, and cheerful as could be.
    The rooms were immaculate and luxurious. Everywhere you looked, there was another gorgeous view! The bridal suite was perfect for not only getting ready, but for our pre-wedding ceremony of signing our wedding ketubah and was spacious enough to accommodate our entire family.
    We cannot say enough good things about Chef Chris and his entire staff! I am celiac, and he went above and beyond to ensure that we could have the champagne brunch reception of our dreams, right down to the gluten-free waffles. We don't have room here to express all the compliments that we got from our guests regarding the quality, presentation and variety of our celebration feast.
    Having a dedicated maître d' for our reception was indispensable and we didn’t even know that until Amy and her colleagues granted every request just as it was asked. Amy introduced herself to the principals in our wedding party, saw to their every need, and made sure that everything was exactly as we had wanted for our big day. She was so friendly and accommodating and made us feel like we were the number one priority for the entire hotel and staff.

    It was an absolutely welcome surprise to come to our bridal suite after the reception to find a bottle of champagne and chocolate covered strawberries to cap off the most perfect day we could have imagined. (Pro tip: Chocolate covered strawberries also make a gorgeous breakfast!)
    We will heartily be recommending The Historic Thayer Hotel to all of our friends and family, and we can't wait to be able to visit again!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you, Karyn! We are so thrilled to hear how perfect your wedding was! Krista, Hayle, and Chef loved working with you and Jonathan and are so incredibly thankful for your kind words. It was our pleasure to host your special day and we look forward to you coming back to visit for your anniversary! Cheers to you and wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness.
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    Incredible Wedding Experience

    Aaron Falk was incredible, I couldn’t have asked for a better Maitre D. He was responsive and always asking if we needed anything, Aaron made me and my wife feel comfortable. Aaron went above and beyond several times through the day and was perfect with the timing of events for our schedule. I am so impressed with the experience we had with him and the whole staff at the Thayer Hotel. Thank you again Aaron for everything along with the staff at the Thayer Hotel, you guys were all amazing.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you, Zach! Aaron had a great time making sure that you Kayla had an excellent celebration. Krista, Marie, and the entire team thank you for taking the time to share. Congratulations and we look forward to seeing you next year for your anniversary!
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    The Best. Dreams Achieved.

    Our dream wedding took place at the Thayer Hotel this past week and we are still in disbelief. The rooms, the FOOD, the ambiance and the STAFF are just incredible. We were so well taken care of by Carly, Casey, Daphne, Chris (head chef) and the flawless team. The flexibility, communication, and professionalism of the Thayer Squad made our wedding the best experience ever. We are so thankful and so appreciative of everyone's hard work and attention to detail. We could not be happier. We felt like royalty at the Thayer because we were treated with so much love and respect by everyone and will definitely be returning for our anniversary!!!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you, Elyse! You and Jim rock too! Carly, Casey and the whole team loved giving you and your friends and families an amazing day. Be well and we will see you for your anniversary!
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    Joe M. Sent on 10/14/2020
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    Accommodating and helpful

    We all know 2020 has been awful. Thankfully the Thayer was more than ready to help us adjust to the constantly changing rules and guidelines regarding Covid. When our day finally came (the 3rd one we had to plan, by the way) the venue raised their game and help make the day perfect.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you, Joe, for taking the time to write. It was our pleasure to raise our game and take good care of you! Be well!
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    Suhad Sent on 07/15/2020
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    Celebrating love in the time of Corona is possible.

    After postponing our big day due to the pandemic, my now husband and I were out to reimagine our wedding day with safety protocols in mind. The staff at the Thayer Hotel was up for the challenge and we could not have been happier with the outcome.
    With buffet style food out the window, Nicole the Catering Sales Manager, worked diligently in creating a menu for cocktail hour that lend itself to be pre-packaged. She also showed us various space options that would accommodate social distancing. Not to mention her enthusiasm since day 1!
    Brianne was the event planner and she was amazing in planning the big things like floor plan and timeline to the smaller details like reservations for lunch the day after. She went above and beyond to make sure we were ok. Lastly, Chelsea was the maitre d'. Her sweet and caring self took care of us all through out the event. Together they were an amazing team!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Suhad and Julio, thank you so much for writing this. You were one of the very first couples that we had the pleasure to serve after we reopened on June 1, 2020. We worked so hard to make sure that our "covid" couples felt safe so they could relax and enjoy with their closet friends and family and are thankful that you had a wonderful day and got to "feel like a bride"! You deserve it. Thank you for hosting your event at the Thayer.
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    Have your wedding at the Thayer!!

    I can't say enough about the Thayer. I got married in December 2019 at the Thayer Hotel and I would not change a thing. The Thayer staff was so great throughout the whole planning process and they went above and beyond to help me in planning our perfect party. Our guests raved about the food, the hotel rooms, and the West Point experience. Being able to go right upstairs to the bar for the after party and then right to your hotel room is the best guest experience. Our photos from the hotel lobby and the back courtyard are gorgeous! We wouldn't change a thing.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Katie! Thank you so much for your kind review. We are so excited that you made a weekend of it and that your guests enjoyed their rooms, the food and being at West Point, . We have to agree that it is pretty great to go right up to Zulu Time Rooftop Bar after the wedding. Your pictures are gorgeous and thank you for sharing!
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    Katherine Sent on 07/27/2019
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    A perfect venue for a perfect day

    For our once in a lifetime day, the Thayer Hotel went above and beyond to provide the best wedding venue imaginable. From the little details of making sure our family members were treated with special care, to the big ones of doing everything possible to have our ceremony take place outside amid rainy conditions, the Thayer did everything possible to make us happy. Our ceremony was beautiful along the Hudson river, and the convenience of having the hotel & reception in the same place was perfect. Even the ability to hold an after-party at the rooftop bar is an added bonus that takes care of any thought of what to do after the reception ends. Our team at the Thayer were flexible, and had us as their number one priority throughout the weekend from the moment we arrived. This was perfect, and we could not be more appreciative of the team, the venue, and that unforgettable weekend we shared with our families.

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you very much! The team here is grateful for your kind words and we are appreciative that you shared your impressions so that future couples will know what to expect.
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    Aimee Sent on 06/18/2019
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    Amazing!!!

    We cannot fully express how perfect the Thayer was for our wedding. Everything about the Thayer was amazing, from the beginning when we toured our venue and through our actual wedding day. It was everything we hoped it would be. My husband and I, and our families, were treated so well the entire weekend, from the rehearsal dinner, to the reception, to the breakfast the next day. The whole staff made sure my husband and I were taken care of and went out of their way to make sure we got the drinks and food we wanted.

    The grounds were the perfect spot for our first look. Plus, everyone loved taking pictures and hanging out outside during our cocktail hour. The grounds are beautiful.

    The food was absolutely delicious. Everyone loved the food at the cocktail hour, including the hors d'oeuvres and the taco and pasta station, as well as all the food at dinner.

    We worked with Carly, who was incredibly professional and helpful throughout the whole process. She answered all of my questions, gave me helpful information, and replied to all of my e-mails quickly. She was amazing to work with. My husband and I were planning our wedding from far out of state, so it was so wonderful to have someone so attentive to my questions and someone who answered my e-mails so promptly.

    We also worked with Brianna, who was our day of coordinator. She was awesome! She made sure all of our needs were met and answered all of my questions. She really made sure the day ran smoothly and everything was taken care of. She was friendly and helpful the whole night.

    Overall, the Thayer was beautiful, the food was phenomenal, and the service we received was wonderful. Our guests had an amazing time, and we did as well!

    We cannot recommend The Thayer enough! Thank you for making our wedding unforgettable and magical!!
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    Lauren Sent on 06/18/2019
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    The Thayer Hotel

    Everyone at The Thayer Hotel exceeded my expectations and truly made our wedding dreams come true. Carly (our coordinator from the venue) was absolutely amazing to work with and SO helpful and responsive. All of my guests told me how impressed they were with the venue, the food, and the service. I would absolutely recommend The Thayer to anyone. I am SO thankful we chose to get married here! Thank you Carly & all of the staff at The Thayer for being incredible.
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    Theresa Sent on 02/20/2019
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    Gina is the best!

    My fiancé and i got engaged in December and started reaching out to possible venues. Gina at the Thayer was extremely responsive right away and the day we met and walked through she was so attentive and sweet! She took notes and was able to get us answers right away! Communication with her has been a breeze and we truly can’t wait to have our wedding at the Thayer!
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    Amy Sent on 01/09/2019
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    Wedding of our dreams

    We had an incredible experience at the Thayer Hotel for our wedding. They worked with our budget, were extremely flexible in cutting things and adding things last minute and even coordinated for a bus transfer the DAY OF for our rehearsal dinner on West Point proper. We had our wedding in the Washington Ballrom and our ceremony in the Grant Ballroom- both were incredibly beautiful. Our coordinator for the weekend, Brianna was extremely attentive and helpful ensuring everything was done properly. She was calm the entire wedding weekend even when we felt a bit overwhelmed. The overall wedding coordinator, also named Brianna, was also extremely helpful and worked with us the entire planning process from when we booked to coordinating our tastings, an after party etc. The staff that weekend was attentive and congratulatory and treated us amazingly. We absolutely loved the Thayer and will have only happy memories after working with them!
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    Juliana Sent on 12/14/2018
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    The Thayer Hotel is the best! Pick them and you will not regret it.

    Our wedding is in 5 months but we have been working with The Thayer for over two years in prep for our wedding after West Point graduation. They are the best and are making sure everything goes perfect.
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    Jenna Sent on 01/13/2018
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    My husband and I are so happy that we chose the Thayer as our venue. It's such a perfect place for a wedding! The views are absolutely breathtaking, which allow for gorgeous photos. Everyone that we met with from day one were so helpful. Stacey, our sales coordinator, and Dana, our planner, were both amazing from day one. We truly can't put into words how happy we are that we used the Thayer. To everyone that helped us during our Wedding, thank you for helping make our day perfect and the best day of our lives.
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    Kayla Sent on 12/15/2017
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    We had the BEST day at the Thayer Hotel! We only looked at 4 venues when we got engaged and fell in love the second we drove up to the hotel. The sales consultant we worked with is no longer with the Thayer, but I would assume that the experience is still the same... many of the venues we looked at were not flexible regarding some options we wanted to have, but the Thayer was quick to explain what we could work out rather than just a flat no. Once we got to the planning stages, we worked with Joanna and Gina, both of whom were incredible to work with. I never had to wait more than 24 hours for a response to any questions I had and they were both so accommodating to our requests and inquiries. Our Maitre D and the rest of the staff on our wedding day were also phenomenal. Many of our guests have commented to us about the quality of service they received. Now - THE FOOD!!!!!! I can't rave enough! My husband typically never orders steaks at a wedding because he is always frustrated that they are not evenly/properly cooked. Even he was blown away at the quality of the steaks at our wedding - everyone's was cooked perfectly! The cocktail hour food was also delicious and very well-prepared, we've received many comments on this so our compliments to the chef! My husband and I can't say enough nice words about the Thayer Hotel and everyone who worked there on our wedding day :) Thank you for helping make our day perfect!!!
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    Christina Sent on 12/07/2017
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    I can’t say enough great things about the hotel! We got married this past April and Stacey was our coordinator and super helpful with any questions we had! The day couldn’t have gone any better with their help!
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    Joanna and her team were great to work with from the very beginning. Every request we had was met and easily taken care of. They set up a small table for my flower girls so they could have their own table for dinner. When it rained before our ceremony they were there with towels to quickly dry off the chairs so we could continue. Our maitre'd, Debbie, made sure our entire reception went smoothly. She checked in on us often to make sure we didn't need anything, and her staff made sure we were fed and had fresh drinks all night. At the end of our reception all of our personal items were boxed up and waiting for us the next morning. The convenience of getting married in a hotel was wonderful for us and our guests. The beauty of the Thayer can't be beat and we are so happy we chose it for our wedding.
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    Jessica Sent on 07/14/2017
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    We recently got married at the Thayer Hotel July 2017 and it was the best day (weekend) of our lives! We selected the Thayer Hotel initially because we wanted to avoid shuttles/moving parts by having everything all in one place (rehearsal dinner, hotel rooms, getting ready suites, photo opps, the wedding, after party, etc) so that everyone could just focus on enjoying themselves, and they did! Dana was our wedding planner and she was so patiently helpful throughout the planning process. We felt like celebrities during our menu tasting with Chef Lee. When we arrived for our wedding weekend, we were taken care of from start to finish, we never worried about a thing (thanks Debbie and Dana!). Our guests raved about the views, food, and enjoyed staying at a historic venue. We are very happy with our decision to have our wedding at the Thayer Hotel at West Point.
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    Mike Sent on 12/10/2016
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    Our experience from the first day we visited the Thayer to decide on a venue for our wedding to the day we departed for our honeymoon was outstanding.
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    Kaitlin Sent on 05/18/2016
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    Words cannot begin to explain how absolutely incredible our experience was at The Thayer. Our planner, Cathy Johnson, worked tirelessly to ensure that our day was perfect. She responded to emails on her days off, made last minute changes at my request, and had everything organized and planned perfectly. We had a threat of rain on our wedding day and Cathy worked to make sure that our back-up plan was just as beautiful as our original. Fortunately, we had no rain and the ceremony was flawless. Cathy made sure that all of our vendors were taken care of and that on our wedding day my husband and I had nothing to worry about except celebrating our marriage. The cocktail hour was an incredible indoor/outdoor celebration with delicious food and a romantic atmosphere. Our reception couldn't have been more perfect! Stacey the sales manager worked with Cathy and Amanda to coordinate our entrances and it all went off without a hitch. We had some guests with food allergies that were accommodated without any hesitation and the waiters and waitresses worked to make sure that we were never without a full drink in our hand. We couldn't have imagined a more perfect day and I think the fact that after kissing my new husband I immediately ran to hug Cathy explains just how appreciative we are for all that they did for us.
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    User2373516 Sent on 10/18/2015
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    My husband and I were recently married at the Thayer Hotel. We viewed several venues in one day, and as soon as we saw this historic, beautiful hotel, we knew this is where we wanted to celebrate our special day. We started our planning process with Stacey who was awesome in answering all of our initial questions and helping us secure our date. After that, she handed us over to Alex S. assuring us we would be in good hands. She was SO right!! Alex was great throughout the entire planning process. She responded quickly and thoroughly to our emails and paid close attention to EVERY detail. I emailed her at least once a month, if not more, with a ton of questions and she always answered within the next day or two with a level of detail beyond my expectations. We keep saying we don't know what we would have done without her!!

    A few days before the wedding, the weather was reporting for heavy rain. Stacey and Alex helped us walk through all the steps we should take to ensure the day would still run flawlessly (clear walls for the cocktail tent, an aisle runner if the grass was wet, info on the backup room, suggestion on cute ideas for photos, etc). They made us feel prepared and calm headed into the weekend.

    Our wedding day was hands down the best day of our lives (and the rain held off for the ceremony!). Alex, Carly (our maitre d) and the Thayer Hotel staff were incredible. So friendly, accommodating, and the level of service was top notch. We highly recommend The Thayer to anyone looking for an EXTRAORDINARY wedding. And if you get a chance, drive around the campus as it is absolutely breathtaking and made for some gorgeous photos!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for your review of your wedding experience at The Historic Thayer Hotel at West Point! We love helping our guests create unforgettable memories during the entire wedding planning process and it's so much fun to see all of the planning come to fruition! Our entire team wishes you and your husband the absolute best, and we hope that you will come back to see us for many years to come to celebrate your anniversaries at The Thayer!
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    Victoria Sent on 09/30/2015
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    Getting married at the Thayer Hotel was a dream come true! I couldn’t have been happier with the entire experience; from the food to the magnificent views.  The staff at The Thayer Hotel is so attentive and professional.   The Thayer Hotel is very lucky to have Stacey Jones as the Catering Manager.  Stacey made the process effortless and enjoyable.  I did not have to worry about anything leading up to or on the actual day of the wedding.  Family and friends still talk about the amazing time they had at our wedding! 

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Hi Victoria! We're so glad that you have such fond memories of getting married at The Thayer! We have an talented team of professionals like Stacey who strive to turn our guests' dreams into reality.

    We hope that you had a fabulous first anniversary! Please come back to visit us in the future!
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    Kevin Sent on 09/24/2015
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    Thanks to the online reviews, we decided to hold the wedding reception at the Thayer Hotel at West Point. The entire process of booking/arranging the reception was made very easy due to the efforts of Elizabeth Keith, the Catering Manager, and Joanna Signorelli, the Wedding and Social Event Planner. Our interactions with the Thayer Event team were nothing short of outstanding! In May, we flew to New York and arranged for a food/beverage tasting with Chef Lee Clements during our visit. We were delighted with the quality and selection of the food that was presented to us during the tasting. The wedding took place on August 29th, 2015. Although one might expect that numerous glitches would arise during the day, everything went off without a hitch! Debbie Chichetti, the Maitre D for our reception, worked quietly in the background making sure everything moved smoothly during the cocktail hour and the reception. The banquet hall for the reception was beautiful, the flowers for the wedding/reception arranged by Mayuri's Floral Designs, New City, NY. The DJ was Andrew from Turntable Events. The photographers and videographers were from H& H Photographers. The Thayer staff (Joanne and Debbie) worked seamlessly with these other vendors to make sure that everything was in place, and the specific needs for each vendor were met. The Wait Staff was extremely professional and went out of their way to make sure everything went well with the dinner service. I cannot say enough good things about how the entire Thayer staff worked so hard to make our daughter's special day a success and a wonderful occasion to remember. We followed up the reception experience the next morning, by hosting a Farewell Breakfast for our guests at the Thayer. Again the event went off without a hitch. A comment of one of guests can be used to succinctly summarize our Thayer Wedding Reception Experience……… "the minute we stepped into the Thayer, we were treated like royalty"!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your review, Kevin. Our entire team at The Thayer strives to make all of our guests feel welcome. We hope that our team helped create some beautiful memories for your family to reflect on in the coming years.

    And, we will pass your note along to members of the team you specifically mentioned in your review.

    We hope to see you again soon!
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    Corinne Sent on 07/08/2015
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    I was incredibly impressed by the professionalism, attentiveness, and care demonstrated by the Thayer Hotel's staff during our wedding weekend. Our wedding coordinator, Alex, and our maitre d' Debbie were absolutely phenomenal, going above and beyond to ensure that every detail of our rehearsal dinner, wedding ceremony, and wedding reception was perfect. Alex was exceptionally responsive to my emails, providing helpful feedback and advice along the way. The food was delicious, the reception hall and ceremony on the lawn were beautiful, and the service was top-notch. I could not have imagined a more wonderful wedding weekend.
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    Christine Sent on 06/30/2015
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    Getting married at The Thayer Hotel was a dream come true. From the amazing food, to the gorgeous views we could not have asked for a better location. From working with Stacey the Catering Manager, to our wedding planner, Joanna, and our maitre d, Carly, made sure that we did not have to worry about a single thing before and during our wedding day! From setting up and enjoying the food tasting, to dropping off all of our materials for the wedding a couple days before, to the rehearsal ceremony, to the actual wedding, I did not have to worry about anything! The staff was friendly, professional, pleasant and very attentive to us and our guests. I cannot thank everyone enough that was a part of our big day, and I would recommend that everyone should get married here!
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    User2193552 Sent on 06/23/2015
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    Alexandra and Stacey made this a very painless experience. The staff at our reception was extremely professional and blended into the room like they were not even there. The Thayer Hotel is hands down the best venue to have a wedding in the Hudson Valley. They do an excellent job at the finest details. They ensured that our table arrangements were set up to exact specifications that we asked for. Communication was never an issue, and every cost was discussed in detail before any committments were made. The food was better than most restaurants I have been to, and this was a meal made for a wedding reception. There was literally nothing more that we could have asked for to make our day better. Planning and execution was flawless, and the Thayer Hotel did not disappoint. When we compared other locations, the Thayer Hotel worked out to be the best quality for the money that we spent, which was comparable, if not less, than other locations in the surrounding area. The return on investment was amazing, and we will recommend the Thayer to anyone for their special event.
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    User2174069 Sent on 06/10/2015
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    We booked the beautiful Thayer hotel for our daughter Samantha and Connor's wedding reception at West Point. It was a flawless night, our wedding reception coordinator, Alexandra, and all of the staff were hospitable, flexible, and professional. We highly recommend it. Food was fantastic, service was friendly, and the rooms were beautiful. You will not be disappointed.
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    User2217166 Sent on 04/29/2015
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    I have nothing but fabulous things to say about the Thayer Hotel. From the time I stepped into the lobby I knew it was the venue of choice for me. Not only was the hotel perfect for my needs, they were willing to accommodate anything I wanted, and with a smile. I visited and highly considered many other Hudson Valley venues, but the Thayer was hands above all the others as far as inclusive package items, a hotel on site which is always a plus, spectacular ballrooms, top notch service and wedding coordination services...need I say more? And the food....oh the food !! My guests are still talking about how amazing the food was, as well as the service. People expected mass produced wedding banquet fare....instead they got delicious, delec
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    Kate Sent on 02/08/2015
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    My husband and I got married at The Thayer Hotel on 12/13/14. What an amazing day!
    Having grown up in the area I was already familiar with their well-known reputation and their amazing Sunday brunch. I contacted The Thayer Hotel 6 months before our wedding after having a contract already signed with Bear Mountain Inn. We wanted to switch venues because of the poor service being provided by the Bear Mountain Inn. We initially worked with Lorraine in Sales, she was very helpful and accommodating to us with our 6 month timeline. We met our wedding coordinator, Joanna at our food tasting, which we were able to invite up to 4 guests. Awesome! Our food tasting was great, my husband, my parents, and I were very impressed with the food and wine selection. Joanna was extremely helpful during the weeks leading up to our wedding. She was responsive and always responded to my emails and phone calls promptly. She really knew how to make a bride feel at ease during the stressful weeks leading up to the wedding. We had a lot of out of town guests that came into town for the weekend. Working with the Thayer Hotel with the room block was seamless. Guests found it easy to book their rooms online by using the wedding block link. The beginning of our wedding weekend, my husband and I were faced with devastating news of my husbands father passing. It was unexpected and something we couldn’t have prepared for. Joanna and the Thayer Hotel staff were kind hearted, and sympathetic while providing first-class service during such a emotional time. With so many guests visiting from out of town, my husband and I chose to continue on with our wedding events. We took wedding photos in the lobby of the Hotel, which was beautifully decorated for the holidays. Everything from the cocktail hour to the farewell cookie bar was amazing. Our guests are still talking about what a great weekend they had at the Thayer Hotel. We’re so thankful we made the switch to Thayer Hotel!
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    Anthony Sent on 01/16/2015
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    Everything from the hospitality to the way the room looked on the day of the wedding was everything my wife and I could dream of and more. The people that work there were always smiling and very welcoming. Our cocktail hour was in a bridal suite away from the actual cocktail hour and I've been to weddings before where they have forgotten about he wedding party and there was no food. Not here, there was so much food we all had to stop eating because no one would have been able to move out of the room when the time came. I recommend anyone to get married here because not only is it worth evey penny, but the historical value and what that place represents is a selling point in itself
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    Alyssa Sent on 10/09/2014
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    The venue was absolutely beautiful. Our coordinator Stacey was professional and extremely responsive throughout the process. All of the food was so delicious! I would recommend everyone to choose the Thayer for their events.
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    Cait Sent on 09/07/2014
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    We had a FANTASTIC time at our wedding! All of our guests are still raving about it! The Thayer was an amazing venue, great food, great service and very flexible to work with. It was a pleasure!
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    Dinesh Sent on 09/07/2014
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    Ours was a different wedding than a typical American one, with a Cocktail Reception on the first day followed by a Hindu and Muslim style wedding the next day.

    The Thayer Hotel was a real gem that I happened to find by chance and I am really really glad that I did. A historic location with beautiful vistas, The Thayer Hotel provided all that we wanted - A brilliant location, amazing rooms and a complete destination experience.

    Stacey was one of the most warm people I have ever come across and she was there whenever we wanted to meet. Very responsive and organized, she worked with us around everything that we wanted. Having our names being displayed on the hotel's main display board was a very touching gesture.

    I wish Stacey and The Thayer Hotel all the very best and hope they have more Indian weddings in the future!
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    Diane Sent on 08/20/2014
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    We recently hosted our daughter's wedding at The Thayer Hotel and I cannot express our joy at how beautiful and perfectly executed the event was. Some guests thought magic was in the air, but I know that the staff of The Thayer worked very hard to create a seamless and wonderful experience for us and all of our guests. Throughout the yearlong stage of long-distance planning, our catering manager, Stacey Jones, exemplified professionalism, kindness and elegance and patience. Her experience in coordinating major events was evident and she helped us greatly. On the days of my daughter's rehearsal and wedding, Stacey and her staff were proactively and quietly working behind the scenes to take care of our every wish. We also had the pleasure of hosting 120 out of town guests who stayed at the hotel and raved about The Thayer, its staff and its ambience. The wedding went off without a glitch and the majority of our 170 guests have told me it was the best wedding they have ever been to! Many thanks to The Thayer and it's wonderful staff!
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    Catherine Sent on 08/19/2014
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    Choosing the Thayer Hotel as our wedding reception location was an easy decision as soon as we first arrived. Where to start.....working with Lorraine was a pure pleasure. She was always willing to answer my calls and work with me even months before the wedding when I know she was swamped with a number of other weddings; she never let me feel like I was second to anyone.
    We had a pretty large wedding and many guests staying over. The reservation team was very pleasant to work with and dealt with hundreds of our family and friends. We ended up having 68 rooms in total. Our wedding guest took up most of the hotel and no one complained to me about anything! It proves that the Thayer was very professional and can handle some stressful situations.
    We had our rehearsal dinner in a private room (Hap Arnold Room) with family and bridal party on friday night and it was delicious food, helpful service and a great time. The day of our wedding, the girls hung out in our suite and had breakfast delivered and everything was seamless (on the bride's part )
    15 minutes before the groom was supposed to leave for the ceremony, he realized he did not have a bow tie or suspenders! Lorraine was ON IT and quickly fixed our mini disaster and had a bowtie and suspenders ready for him and he was on time for photos and the ceremony!
    Then our reception was in the George Washington Ballroom. Everything set up exactly how I wanted it, the room looked gorgeous. Again, Lorraine was so helpful with organizing everyone's entrance and making sure we had everything we needed.
    The reception was absolutely perfect
    The next morning, we had a breakfast buffet for our guests. Again it was all perfect and delicious.
    I am short on words I have left, but I would recommend anyone to have their wedding weekend at the Thayer and they will not be disappointed!
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    Sarah Sent on 05/20/2014
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    I am so pleased to have had my wedding at The Thayer Hotel - everything was absolutely gorgeous and completely stress-free. Stacey Jones is the BEST! I can't say enough great things about her professionalism, organization, promptness, and attention to detail. We had our rehearsal dinner, wedding reception, and morning-after brunch at the hotel (our wedding was at the Catholic chapel) and the food was amazing for all three meals. The staff was attentive and accommodating all weekend, and everything went so smoothly - from checking guests into rooms, valet parking, transportation to the wedding ceremony, and handing out our welcome bags. We had a fairly large wedding (about 150 guests) and booked 54 total rooms, so I was shocked that there wasn't at least one hitch throughout the weekend! Not to mention we got married on Mother's Day weekend, which is a busy time for the hotel as they are known for their Mother's Day brunch. My friends and family cannot stop talking about the location - The Thayer Hotel is the perfect mix of scenic, historic, classic and romantic. With such an exceptional staff, it was simply a quintessential wedding venue.
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    David Sent on 02/05/2014
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    I don't know what I can say that would express my satisfaction with the Thayer and Stacy . The food was the absolute best! And, we had a blast at the tasting. The hotel staff could not have been more accommodating and could not have been more fun. The location, views, food, staff, and Stacy will make your day nothing less than perfect.

    So I have mentioned Stacy a few times already, and, that is because she is the most kickass person in the wedding world (only because that is how we know her)! She is the most pleasant person you will ever deal with and she will do everything she can do, in order to get what you need/want. Stacy could not have possibly done more to help us; she also is so quick with her replies (via email or text), you will not be disappointed.

    Overall, our guests are still talking about the wedding after three months. We had guests from Ireland, India, Japan, and across the states. For two of our international guests, this was their first time in America and we could not have picked a better way/location to welcome them!
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    Christina Sent on 11/11/2013
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    Our wedding at the Thayer was absolutely wonderful! The food was great, the staff was excellent and working with Lexi was easy and stress-free! I have no complaints!
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    Tara Sent on 11/08/2013
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    Let me start by saying The Thayer Hotel is extremely lucky to have Stacey Jones as one of there wedding coordinators! Stacey was an absolute pleasure to work with and made sure everything last detail was PERFECT for our wedding! We were fortunate enough to have our ceremony outside and the views and atmosphere were breathtaking. The food, I am still hearing compliments about the mashed potato bar, the ballroom, the guest rooms, and the entire staff at The Thayer Hotel helped to ensure our wedding day was unforgettable. If you are looking for a venue with amazing views and exceptional service, look no further than The Thayer Hotel!
    Tara and Nick
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    Lyndsay Sent on 10/02/2013
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    The Hotel Thayer offers brides and grooms an incredible and grand setting, delicious food, well-appointed rooms, professional staff who make the entire process stress-free, and wow factor views, for an unforgettable wedding experience!!! Only an hour from NYC and most northern and central NJ locations, and nestled in the beautiful Hudson Valley region, the Thayer offers you all of the perks of a destination wedding but close to home!

    If you want wow factor, the Thayer is the place! We were lucky to have a sunny day and were able to wed outdoors. Had it rained, we would have been married in a spectacular ballroom in front of walls of windows overlooking that spectacular view. We saw the venue in late fall, had our tasting during winter after a snow, and married in late spring when everything was in bloom. The Thayer was beautiful during every season!!!

    Everything about the Thayer is perfect! The food was absolutely delicious (and how many foodies do you know who can say that about wedding food). Our ballroom was grand, but tasteful (it wasn’t some glitzed out wedding hall that looked like every other ballroom you have seen). Our rooms were beautiful, comfortable, and all of our needs were met by the friendly and professional staff. The views of the river, the surrounding grounds, and the spectacular natural setting, is truly hard to match—let alone top. But what truly sets the Thayer apart is Stacey J. While I am sure all of her colleagues are also extraordinary, we were lucky enough to have Stacey as our wedding point person. She is a delightful, charming, kind, and lovely person! She is an incredible professional so I have no doubt that she made every bride feel special, but I felt as though I was the only only person she thought about for months leading up to that day! But so did my husband! She made our wedding day so incredibly special.
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    The Thayer Hotel is a beautiful setting for a ceremony. It overlooks the Hudson River and the photos that we took @ trophy point and @ the bridge across from the stadium are priceless.
    Stacey our wedding planner was the best! She made sure everything was in order and made sure that everything would be right. If you are looking for the best scenic views for your ceremony, you need to take a look at The Thayer Hotel. You will not be disappointed.
    Stacey, thank you again for everything that you have done for us! We will not forget it!
    Best Wishes,

    Stan & Leslie
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    Melissa Sent on 07/07/2013
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    Our wedding at the Thayer Hotel, June 2013, was nothing short of perfection! From the views, to the service, to the food, to the wonderful planning and coordination from Lexi, we couldn't have asked for anything more. Our guests are still talking about how "it was the best wedding they have ever been to". Thank you again Lexi and the entire Thayer Hotel staff!
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    Jane/Neil Sent on 04/16/2013
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    Jane and I cannot say enough positve things about our entrie four day destination wedding at West Point and The Thayer Hotel. This was a destination wedding for almost all of our guests who started to arrive on Thursday before the Saturday wedding due to their desire to see "The Point" as well as staying at The Thayer. The professional staff, represented by Stacey Jones as our event planner, went above and beyond to make our day truly special. Their collective attention to detail was incredible, coupled with unbelieveably great food and views of The Hudson (along with great weather) made the entire experience "over the top. Our many friends, family and co-workers raved about their entire very positive experience. Highly recommended as you will not be disappointed.
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    Susan Sent on 07/23/2012
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    Stacy Jones waw the absolute best to work with. I was an out of state bride in California and was so happy with her extreme professionalism and helpfulness to all my questions and to keeping track of all details needed to make the wedding ceremony and reception go absolutely smooth. Everything was in place as we had discussed, and she helped direct things at the rehearsal and even morning of the wedding to make the wedding go off perfectly. She's very pleasant and easy to work with. I am so grateful to have had a person like her to make sure my wedding day went as planned. And as far as The Thayer Hotel, it was absolutely a perfect venue. The outdoor ceremony had such a fantastic view of the Hudson River. The reception also had a gorgeous view overlooking the river. The food was fantastic. My guests mentioned how the cocktail hour food was good, and very plentiful, and the reception had delicious food. I was also happy with the cake vendor that they use, and I also was very happy with the DJ on their list of recommended vendors (Tom Destry). I used an outside vendor for the florist (Angel Wedding Works) and they were great. I rented an arch from them which they decorated beautifully, and with the stunning view of the Hudson River as a backdrop, you can't beat this utterly amazing setting. We loved our whole day and couldn't have been happier with The Thayer Hotel.
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    We were married at the Thayer Hotel on June 15, 2012. Our day was absolutely perfect!!! I would not have changed a thing! We were well taken care of, and made to feel very special. It was simply the best day of my entire life.
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    The Thayer Hotel couldn't have been a better venue to get married. The setting was beautiful and the staff provided all the help/assistance possible to make out wedding day beautiful. I would highly recommend this location (and our catering manager, Lexi) to others. Amazing experience and memories.
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    The Thayer Hotel provided a beautiful venue for the Rehearsal dinner and the Bridal Brunch for our departing guests on Sunday morning. Lexi Casalino, the senior catering manager, coordinated everything perfectly. We worked together blocking hotel rooms, choosing the menus, and reserving the bridal suite. Even when the blocked rooms had been filled, Lexi contacted me and opened up more rooms for additional guests. She always responded to phone calls and emails quickly and, during the wedding weekend, she was always available to make sure that the Eisenhower Room looked perfect and that the Audio-Visual equipment was working correctly for the slide-show my son had prepared for the Rehearsal Dinner. I cannot praise the elegant Thayer Hotel highly enough. The accommodations were beautiful and the staff was kind and helpful. Even the new ZuluTime Lounge on the veranda overlooking the Hudson River provided additional opportunities to relax with guests. It was the perfect venue for my son's wedding.
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    The Thayer was the PERFECT place for a wedding. Stacey Jones was an absolute pleasure to work with!!
    She was extremely responsive and very helpful.
    Our wedding could not have been more perfect.
    I would (and already have) recommend The Thayer Hotel to ANYONE!!!
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    Caitlin Sent on 02/08/2012
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    Stacey was a dream to work with! She went above and beyond filling all of our requests. She even helped us plan a breakfast the next morning. There were absolutely no suprises on the big day. Not only was Stacey a fantastic event planner, the whole rest of The Thayer team was exceptional. The whole event was incredibly well done, and I am still having people contact to tell me what a great time and great food they had! Everything I wanted was done, there was clear planning a head of time and such a fine attention to detail! We had a great time on our big day and would reccomend The Thayer to anyone!
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    The Thayer Hotel is a lovely venue equipped with fantastic service, food, and beautiful views! I could not imagine having my wedding anywhere else. The hotel itself is full of character and it's people full of vibrance and energy. 5 out of 5 stars! Put this on your MUST SEE list when you venue hunt!
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    The staff at the Thayer Hotel went above and beyond to make our special day absolutely perfect. They thought of things I hadn't and took so much care and concern. I HIGHLY recommend them to anyone who is looking for a beautiful Hudson Valley wedding.
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    Our Experience with the Thayer was beyond anything you could imagine. The service was absolutely first class. Lexi and Amy truly created the stage for the memories that we will have for a lifetime. They went above and beyond our every request they made us feel like we were their only concern ( while handling 7 other weddings the same weekend). Our bridal suite was just amazing, the food was wonderful, everything was just seamless and we couldn't have ask for more. If you are considering a venue don't hesitate to choose The Thayer. You can put your mind at eases even when planning from several states away they will create your dream come true.
    I also would highly recommend the Salon on the Hudson located at The Thayer they did a beautiful job on my hair the day of the wedding.

    Thank you to all the wonderful staff from the bottom of our hearts.

    Jill and Matt Zacher
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    My wedding at the Thayer Hotel was absolutely perfect, I couldn't have asked for a better experience! Everyone on the staff, especially Lexi and Amy, went out of their way to be so friendly and helpful and all of our requests were met. The food was delicious, everyone raved about it! The whole planning process at the Thayer was wonderful, from beginning to end, and I would recommend it to anyone!
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    The Thayer Hotel was excellent! Rich & I couldn't have been more pleased with the service. It was above & beyond anything we could've ever imagined!!
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    Christa Sent on 09/21/2011
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    We didn't want a long, drawn-out wedding planning time, so I was delighted when I learned that the Thayer would be able to accomodate our wedding just 3 weeks out (and on a very busy home football game morning)! Their excellent staff made it easy to pull everything together very quickly, and our event was more than I could have ever hoped for. All of our guests were very impressed with the beautiful setting and superb brunch buffett, and I would highly recommend this venue to anyone wanting to get married at West Point.
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    Even if you are not West Point Alum...if you want your wedding to be different and memorable, the Thayer is the place for you. We had our weekend wedding there this March and it was not only amazing for us - but a wedding to remember. Our guests are still raving about the food and the hotel and the service!!! You cannot find nicer or more accommodating people. Emily was a great help in planning every detail with me and she was super responsive. Amy was amazing on the big day and made us feel like family!!! We LOVE the Thayer and plan to go back at least once every year!!!! I am sure everyone feels like their day was amazing but ours truly was. We could not have imagined anything better.
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    The Thayer Hotel is an amazing place to have a reception! I got married at the Cadet Chapel, but I know you can have an outside wedding at the Thayer Hotel.
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    The Thayer Hotel was the most magical place to have our wedding! It really was just the most beautiful venue. When booking Elizabeth was so great and helpful. We were able to switch things around to work within our budget. We worked with both Gina & Nicole as our planners who were also wonderful. The transition from switching planners was seamless. Before the wedding we picked out our cake in Peekskill and also had our food tasting. We were able to bring four guests and the food/chef was outstanding!

    On the day of the wedding everything went so perfectly. It was beyond my expectations. We got ready in the Presidential Suite (highly recommend - lots of space). We had breakfast ordered to the girls and guys rooms (small issue with guys breakfast coming late but it was fixed). We had a First Look out on the Washington Lawn which was breathtaking. As far as the reception, Brianna the maitre de really was so phenomenal! Everything ran so smoothly. The room was set up perfectly as we had discussed, the food was delicious. It was just a dream!! All of the guests loved the historic hotel as well. It was so great for our wedding to be part of an entire weekend - we had breakfast also the next day which was delicious.

    I am truly grateful for the Thayer for my perfect day! I cannot thank them enough <3
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    We had all of our wedding events at The Thayer in August 2013: rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception, and newlywed breakfast. Both of us were extremely pleased and couldn’t have asked for a better wedding weekend!

    The staff at the Catering Office, who coordinate weddings at The Thayer, are friendly and professional. They went out of their way to accommodate our every request, and our wedding was organized perfectly. All of our events went smoothly and began exactly on time just as we wanted.

    Our guests loved the food, and complimented the friendly service. There were so many food choices for our wedding cocktail hour and reception, as well as our rehearsal dinner and newlywed breakfast, and we were able to get exactly what we wanted.

    Those who slept overnight at The Thayer loved their luxurious accommodations. All of our guests were impressed with the Gothic style architecture of the historic hotel, the glamorous entry foyer, and the elegant and timeless furnishings and decorations of the rooms where we held all our wedding events.

    We both have nothing but positive things to express about wedding weekend at The Thayer, and we recommend it to everyone!

    K&C
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    J & Sent on 11/14/2012
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    I would highly recommend The Thayer Hotel at West Point for any of your celebratory needs, especially a wedding. My now husband and I looked at one other venue prior to looking at The Thayer. Growing up in the Hudson Valley is what made us want a venue where we could get married outside, with a Hudson River view. This hotel is historical, classy and well kept. Lexi was our dedicated sales manager. I can only say the exact opposite of what the previous review said about her. She was always there for me. Almost anything I wanted, we could have. My vendors had only wonderful things to say about her and the rest of the staff. I did deal with Stacey a handful of times and she was very nice and attentive as well. Lexi made me feel so comfortable. She was very professional and responsive at all times. Our wedding was a breathtaking and unforgettable event for all. The day ran smoothly because of the staff at The Thayer. We stayed there the night before the wedding and the night of the wedding. We had booked two executive suites, which were perfect for getting ready with our groomsmen and bridesmaids. Not to mention the makeup artist and hair dressers having plenty of room to make us beautiful. Breakfast was delivered to our rooms in the morning along with mimosas. The staff also helped us load and unload everything. There is valet parking, an indoor and outdoor roof top bar and lounge for pre and post cocktails. The guests that stayed overnight were also able to enjoy the famous Sunday brunch the morning after the wedding. This venue had it all and I wouldn’t change one thing.
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    A wonderful experience all around! From the planning stages through the morning after the wedding, the entire Thayer staff were fantastic and responsive to our needs. Food was deliicious!

    A great wedding!
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    Courtney Sent on 03/29/2012
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    I did not actually have my ceremony at the Thayer hotel (my husband graduated from West Point and so the ceremony was at The Cadet Chapel), but we did have the reception there. Lexi was our sales manager, wedding planning, make it work super woman. I had to plan the wedding in 4 months because that is when my husband had leave time (the only time we knew for sure he could show up to our wedding). She negotiated a slightly lower rate to meet our budget which included a wine and beer open bar, wedding cake, and bridal suite for the wedding night. She even negotiated a moderate price per night for any wedding guests staying at the hotel. Because my husbad was in training, we did not have much flexibility to go to tastings. No problem! Lexi arranged the tasting and even ordered the cake samples to the hotel from their bakery partner so we could do it all in one day (which was during their crazy Christmas season). And it was not just a little tasting---we left full! When my guarenteed number of people changed because the Army doesn't care if you've already RSVPed for your friend's wedding, Lexi allowed us to adjust the guarentee (and you just don't find that kind of ethical, understanding practice in business often). On the day of, I was surrounded by staff who made everything super easy (they even kept track of my purse and ran for safety pins when my groom stepped on my train). Even the restaurant staff (especially Amy, Larry, and Dino the manager of MacArthur's) was a pleasure to work with for our small and simple rehearsal dinner (although the all-out fancy option was also available). The bill was not cheap at $115 a head plus tax and gratuity for our pretty traditional, military wedding. However, for the quality of service and in addition, the quality of people that so beautifully facilitated my wedding day, I would most certainly recommend this fantastic venue.
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    Jenn Sent on 10/27/2011
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    We were married on October 15, 2011 and couldn't be any happier with the staff. All of our guests said that they had a great time at the wedding and itw was so unique to have a wedding reception at West Point. We met with Lexi, the wedding planner, numerous times and she answered all of our questions and make sure to address all of our concerns. The wedding went very smoothly and it was very organized. After the wedding, the staff brought all of our gifts up to our room, which was a beautiful suite with amazing views. After our wedding everyone went up to the rooftop bar and continued the party. We couldn't ask for a better wedding!
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    Our wedding reception was at the Thayer hotel and was wonderful. We started with happy hour that included an indoor room and a covered outdoor area, in addition to the manicured lawn. Our guests loved being able to walk near the water. The passed appetizers and carving station were very well received, and we had guests surprised there was still a full dinner after all the appetizers. Stacey was amazing, and made sure everything was exactly as we wished.
    Dinner was better than at the tasting. We had salmon and chicken options, and both were very well received.
    The only negative at all was that the ballroom got very, very warm when everyone was up and dancing. Fortunately we had the outdoor space, but it was still hot. Also, I would not suggest more than 200 guests in the large ballroom for a seated dinner - we had about 170 and that seemed full to me.
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    Wedding Day

    We had Aaron as our day-of coordinator, and he was absolutely great to work with! He was always very quick to respond throughout the process, which gave us so much peace of mind leading up to the wedding day.

    On the day itself, Aaron did an amazing job making sure all of the behind-the-scenes chaos flowed smoothly and seamlessly. From keeping everything on schedule to handling details without ever bringing stress to us, he truly helped make our wedding day feel effortless and perfect.

    We are so thankful for all of his hard work and support and would absolutely recommend him to any couple planning their wedding!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you so much for your kind words and for celebrating your wedding with us! We are thrilled to hear your special day felt seamless and stress free from start to finish. It means so much to know the coordination, communication, and attention to detail helped make your wedding day so memorable. We truly appreciate your recommendation and wish you both a lifetime of happiness together!
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    Wedding Reception Review

    The Thayer Hotel provided excellent service throughout the entire wedding process from start to finish. From our initial visit with Casey, we knew we were in excellent and attentive hands. On the big day. Maître D Aaron was exceptional, providing attention and care to even the of smallest details to make our reception so beautiful and personalized. Aaron you are fabulous!!
    I would be remiss if I did not mention that the food is exceptional as well.
    Thank you Thayer Hotel and staff for making our wedding the beautiful event it was!

    The Thayer Hotel at West Point's reply:

    Thank you for sharing your wonderful review. We are so glad your experience with Casey, Aaron, and the rest of our team made your wedding day so memorable. Aaron’s attention to detail and care truly shine, and we will be sure to share your praise with him. We are also delighted you and your guests enjoyed the food. It was an honor to host your celebration, and we wish you both a lifetime of happiness!
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    Beckett Sent on 06/18/2019
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    The Most Beautiful Day

    My husband and I are both from the Hudson Valley. We have both worked hundreds of weddings, being in the Food & beverage industry as long as we were. After looking at several locations in the area, we were feeling really underwhelmed. Everything that we liked, we couldn't afford, anything that we could afford looked like it smelled, old and musky.
    My father, a naval academy graduate, took us to West Point all of the time for our necessities, and we had brunch at the Thayer from time to time. It has been a part of my life for a long time. That is when I decided, lets go to the bridal show, see what its all about.
    After that, we took the information and realized we absolutely could make this work! I printed out the Football schedule and the Academic Schedule, crossed off any available dates that coincided with major campus events (trust me, its important you do this!). We nailed down June 7th, 2019. With less than 1 year from contract to wedding, the team was great. They always responded back within a day to my numerous questions.
    There was some changing of staff over the course of the planning. My only real *eh* about the whole situation was that our day of coordinator wasn't scheduled until less than a week before the wedding and we could not meet to discuss my needs until the day before the wedding. A few, minor, things were missed (i.e. the toss confetti was put out as "favors", so guests didn't have anything to toss when we left the ceremony.... I can also chalk this up to a fail on my ushers part, since that was his job haha).
    Over all, amazing experience. This is really one of the very few places where you can have the beauty of the outdoors while also having the ease of a banquet hall. And you can always return to have a DELICIOUS dinner, stay the night, or explore, because it has been here for years and will continue to be a landmark of the Hudson Valley, and your relationship, for years to come.
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    Brittani Sent on 03/20/2019
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    Amazing visit with West Point!

    Thayer Hotel was the first venue we saw and they definitely delivered! Gina hosted our tour and was wonderful in answering all of our questions! The space has everything we needed as far as a one stop shop destination for our rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, hotel accommodations for guests, beautiful photos and a place to get ready for us! Loved it - wonderful first time!
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    Brighid Sent on 07/25/2016
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    The Thayer Hotel helped make dreams come true for my July 3 wedding in West Point, New York. My husband, a 2012 USMA grad, and I simply couldn't imagine anywhere but West Point for our wedding... and The Thayer Hotel didn't disappoint. The venue was stunning, our guests are still raving about the food, and I truly appreciate the event team's support and care along my wedding journey (especially while my fiancé was deployed). We also loved staying in the Pete Dawkins room, enjoying the gorgeous lawn for our ceremony and first look photos, and the wonderful recommendations for additional wedding vendors. I just can't say enough about The Thayer Hotel at West Point - THANK YOU!
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    The Thayer was a fantastic venue for my daughter's weekend wedding celebration. From day one, over a year ago, Stacey, Joanna and Debbie were kind, friendly and super professional. The rehearsal dinner, wedding ceremony, wedding reception and Sunday breakfast were handled beautifully with no issues whatsoever. We are fairly picky and have eaten in some of the world's finest restaurants and the Thayer's food was of excellent quality in ample quantities. If you are looking for slick and modern, the Thayer is not your place. However, if you are looking for history, class and grandeur, look no further. The Thayer is the perfect gathering place for a warm comfortable weekend wedding celebration. Dreams can come true!
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    Cindie Sent on 05/21/2015
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    We wanted to have a brunch wedding with views of the Hudson River, and when we found the Thayer Hotel, we knew it was perfect. Booking the site was easy, and their brunch package was exactly what we were looking for. From the huge tray of jumbo shrimp to the omelette station, everyone really enjoyed the food.

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    Shannon Sent on 09/04/2014
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    We had our ceremony and reception at the Thayer Hotel. The staff was absolutely wonderful and always courteous to us and our guests. The setting was absolutely gorgeous and the ceremony and reception were carried out exactly as we has hoped. Our guests loved the rooms at the hotel as well. It was a wonderful weekend for both of our families!
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    We had our wedding at the Thayer hotel in the hudson valley, even though we live in NYC. It was an amazingly beautiful location. We wanted a beautiful back drop so that we didn't have to decorate that much. The views of the river and cliffs are spectacular and the floor to ceiling windows really bring the outdoors inside. We also really liked the castle like look as well. We were married in the ballroom which is all white wood and very traditional looking with high ceilings which made beautiful pictures.

    It was also great that it is a hotel because we got more time with our guests and very few people had to drive elsewhere after the reception. The food was fantastic and the portions were generous. People loved the food. The cake bakery they work with was fantastic. We actually ate the top layer of our cake when we got back from our honeymoon; we're just going to get another fresh one next year because we loved it so much.

    Lexi at the Thayer was our venue coordinator and she was a joy to work with. I have no idea how she answered all of ny detailed emails given how many weddings they have there.

    We did think it was a tad expensive once all the linens and details were added in, but I think that's probably typical. It is a value given it's quality, service, and atmosphere. We looked at a lot of places in the Hudson and this was by far the best for us.
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