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The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center

From 25 to 200 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Get Ready Rooms

Why couples loved this venue

  • Quality catering
  • Guests comfort
  • Amenities
Leah
Annmarie
Rebecca
Melissa
Abigail

Recommended by 96% of couples

About this venue

Looking for the perfect Wedding Weekend? We are your destination resort without boarding a plane!

Located in Southbury, CT (23 miles from Brewster, New York) The Heritage is a perfect blend of rustic charm with modern amenties. We have 163 guest rooms, a 9 hole PGA rated Golf Course, Health Club with heated salt water pools, tennis and restuarant and bar all onsite.

CEREMONY - We have our Vineyard and the Stone Garden as two unique outdoor ceremony options. The Garden Room is the dedicated room indoors if the ceremony can not take place outside.

COCKTAIL HOUR - Takes place in our Terrace Room. This private indoor space is over 2200 sq ft and has full access to the terrace patio and vineyard throughout cocktail hour and the reception.

RECEPTION - The double doors open and guests enter Timbers and view the cathedral ceiling with exposed beams, oversized fireplace, and 10 foot windows with vineyard viiews. Timbers can accomodate up to 200 guests.

Services Offered - The Heritage Hotel is a full service hotel that boasts a variety of offerings to the couples and their guests.

The Heritage offers both Plated and Station Package Options. Both packages include access to a hospitality room, five-hour open bar, a champagne toast, house centerpieces, a complimentary KING room for your wedding night, chiavari chairs, tables, linens, glassware, flatware, and china and a maitre d to ensure the day runs smoothly.

Our resort offers...

  • On Site guest accommodations at a secured rate
  • The Tavern, our onsite restaurant and bar for an afterparty
  • Indoor and Outdoor Heated Salt Water Pools
  • Indoor Hot Tub
  • Tennis Court
  • 9 Hole PGA rated Pomperaug Golf Course
  • Health Club with steam room and sauna
  • Free WiFi
  • Free on site parking
  • Wheelchair access

You work directly with our Director of Catering, Jennifer Giuliano who has over 20 years of experience at the Heritage. Jennifer and the Heritage team would be honored to work with you and have your wedding be the one that your loved ones are talking about for years to come.

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Features

Large team (21+ members)

Experience

  • 57 years in business

  • We speak English

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$4,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$1,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$500

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

25

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Banquet Hall
Barn
Hotel
Resort
Winery

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
May
November
December

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Reviews of The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center

Weddingwire
4.8/5 47 reviews
Google
4.2/5 896 reviews
Leah
Leah Sent on 05/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect place for a wedding

We had the pleasure of meeting Jennifer and other staff members at the Heritage Hotel for our wedding. Jennifer was always available to answer any questions I had along the way and gave us a tour of the venue multiple times. We had our rehearsal dinner there and they set up the room beautifully. The food for both the rehearsal and wedding were delicious and there was something for everyone to enjoy. They even offer centerpieces for the tables and to set up and break down decor and assign you a maitre de for the day of that is always getting you drinks and making sure you're comfortable. The venue is so beautiful and made for the best pictures! It's also super convenient that the ceremony, reception, after party, and hotel are all in the same location so there's no need to worry about traveling. The only down fall was that we lost power the night before the wedding for a couple hours and was surprised they didn't have a generator. But would definitely recommend having your wedding at the Heritage as it's a beautiful place with professional staff who are guaranteed to make you feel so important on your special day.
A
Alyssa Sent on 06/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn’t have asked for a better venue!

From day one this venue was amazing to work with. Jennifer did not pressure us to choose the Heritage, she actually recommended seeing more just to make sure this is what we wanted! And it was. The grounds are beautiful, getting married in the stone garden was such a unique entrance and so beautiful, and everyone loved the food!! We had out of town guests and they made a long weekend out of the wedding, used the pool, the close coffee shop and the golf! We LOVED the Heritage!!
M
Mark Sent on 03/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Great hotel/venue for wedding weekend

Candice in sales was a joy to work with throughout our wedding process. She was communicative, straightforward, and accommodating. During the wedding weekend, hotel staff on hand were kind, easy to access, and fully on top of everything they had agreed to do to make our weekend what we wanted it to be. The garden room and outdoor space adjacent to it served as a perfect venue for our Indian haldi/sangeet celebration for roughly 130 guests.

Many of our wedding guests took advantage of a room block to stay at the hotel during their trip, and they were all very pleased with the accommodations and even eager to come back. The long hallways and numerous lounges offered ample opportunities for socializing, and the rooms were clean and comfortable.

We highly recommend the Heritage Hotel as a venue for your wedding weekend!
Annmarie
Annmarie Sent on 10/26/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Dream wedding

The Heritage has always had a special place in my heart because it is located in my hometown and I knew having my wedding there would make it that much more special. My Husband and I got married on September 30th and can't stop talking about how having everything there (ceremony, reception, after party, lodging) was the best decision we ever made. The hotel and grounds are just absolutely beautiful and the timbers reception room is simply breathtaking. But what made it even more special are the staff. Jennifer was incredible leading up to the day with being responsive, keeping things on track and answering any questions we had, and our coordinator on the day, Kara, was unbelievable. We didn't even need a wedding planner! She made sure everything was set up perfectly and that the flow of the day was exactly how we wanted it to be. She is such a wonderful person and we feel so thankful to have met her. All of our guests raved about the food and how helpful and friendly all of the staff were. They also still talk about how amazing of a wedding it was. You can't beat the easy flow with going from the ceremony at the stone garden, to the cocktail hour room with the outdoor patio, and then simply moving to the next room to the reception, and only needing to go up to your room at the end of the night! It was a dream day and there is absolutely nothing we would change about it. If you want an unforgettable and special wedding with everything in one place, you must book the Heritage!
Rebecca
Rebecca Sent on 09/21/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The best venue!

My husband and I got married at Heritage Hotel on 09/16/22 and could not recommend this venue enough. It was so convenient to have our ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, and hotel all at one location. The bridal suite was perfect for the bridal party to get ready in and the groomsmen had a great time golfing and got ready in a hotel room as well. The staff were all amazing. Jennifer helped keep us organized and answered all our questions leading up to the day, Kara was amazing and so helpful the night of the wedding, and the waitstaff and bartenders were so much fun and kept the party going all night (special shout-out to Lexi). We spent the rest of our weekend at Heritage Hotel and had the time of our life in the Tavern with the best bartenders (Quon, Craig, Steve, and Lauren). Overall, we 10/10 recommend and wish we could do it all over again!
Melissa
Melissa Sent on 06/07/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Venue

My husband and I just got married here on May 21, 22. We would recommend this venue to others. It was perfect for us, We love the rusty country vibe. We had a lot of guests from out of state so it made it very simple for everyone. Not to mention the guys did a golf tournament the day before. Jen was terrific, the meetings we had were very detailed. If something wasn’t going to be a good idea, she would tell you but also make recommendations to make it work. She was very responsive with all my emails. I greatly appreciate everything!
Abigail
Abigail Sent on 06/03/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Spring 2022 Wedding

We had our dream wedding at the Heritage Memorial Day weekend. It had the rustic look we wanted and was an all in one experience. We were able to have hair and make up done in the executive suite, the ceremony was in their stone garden (with a backup room if it rained), indoor/outdoor cocktail hour, and an all wooden reception room with a gorgeous stone fire place. It was great being able to walk back up to your hotel room at the end or hit the after party at their tavern restaurant in the hotel lobby. Our guest kept complimenting how they loved that everything was in one spot. Some guests came early to use the pools or go golfing to enjoy more of the long weekend. The vineyard and golf course were a great spot for pictures! The staff was so attentive and quick to answer questions. Couldn’t have asked for an easier planning process with them. We also used almost every vendor they were affiliated with and they were all great as well!
A
Amanda Sent on 12/15/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful venue

We chose the Heritage because its breathtaking woodwork & fireplaces throughout. The property
is gorgeous. We also loved the convienece of having our wedding at a hotel and Im glad we chose to do so because we were able to celebrate with our guests all weekend long. The food was delicious, the staff was amazing! Everything about the heritage was magical and wonderful!
A
Arianna Sent on 08/16/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Happiness at the Heritage

We cannot recommend the Heritage Hotel enough! We had our wedding there this past July! First of all, we were a Covid couple who had to postpone our wedding from 2020 to 2021. The staff, especially Jennifer, were so helpful with moving our wedding date that it made a stressful time in our lives so much easier. Overall, this venue has everything you could want! Our guests stayed at the hotel and enjoyed their stay as you get all the amenities at the hotel like use of the gym and pools. We had our ceremony in the stone garden on the most perfect day! It’s a very unique and beautiful space! The timbers room for the reception is very grand and rustic, but also has a cozy feel. The food was also amazing! We did the buffet stations with steak and chicken, mash potato and pasta bar and more! Everyone loved the food. We also had a donut wall! We had the best day ever and it was all thanks to the amazing staff! Shout out to Sean, Della, and Faith! They were fantastic with helping to make everything go smoothly. We also had breakfast the next morning at the hotel which was so nice not to worry about going somewhere. You will not regret having your event at the Heritage Hotel!
M
Mitch Sent on 06/12/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Great Experience and Flexibility

My Wife and I are splitting up vendor reviews and I was excited to write the review for Heritage Hotel! From the months leading up to the wedding until the day of Heritage was nothing but wonderful! As we approached our wedding state guidelines for COVID continued to change. Heritage did a great job keeping us updated with what that meant for us, as well as being flexible as we made adjustments to headcount, locations of cocktail hour/DJ etc. always coaching us through the experience. Next on the night before the wedding there was a large storm and the power went out throughout the hotel as we were all hanging out the Heritage Hotel Bar (the Tavern). The Heritage Staff was wonderful and actually moved us from the bar into the cocktail hour room (which still had some emergency lighting), setting us up with candles and allowing us to have almost an impromptu pre party! Finally on the day of the wedding we had to transition from being mostly outside to inside due to rain, and everything went off without a hitch! Overall we would highly recommend Heritage and we were happy to go through this experience with them!
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The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center frequently asked questions

The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
  • Signature Drink
  • Specialty Beer
The space offered by The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Banquet Hall
  • Barn
  • Hotel
  • Resort
  • Winery
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Wifi
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in flexibility, 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in average response time, 4.8 in professionalism and 4.8 in value.
The Heritage Hotel Golf, Spa & Conference Center currently offers 1 offer promotion and 1 discount promotion for wedding services.
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