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The Bernard's Inn, a wedding venue in Bernardsville, New Jersey, has entered into a new partnership with celebrity chef David Burke. We are now called Red Horse at the Bernard's Inn. We have a newly renovated restaurant bar, a main dining room, and a new restaurant, "The Bernie." This wedding venue is a luxurious property that offers couples a romantic and intimate escape from the hustle and bustle of the big city as they celebrate their day. The stylish and sophisticated decor allows couples to create the wedding they've always envisioned right down to the finest details. With dozens of glamorous chandeliers and cozy stone fireplaces, this enchanting site welcomes guests to rejoice in harmony and create memories that will last a lifetime.

Facilities and Capacity

The Bernie (formally known as the Silver Vault & Wine Pantry) is a private room on the lower level of our venue with a private entrance. There are bathrooms on this level for private functions. It was once a speakeasy in the 1920s, but it was then turned into a bowling alley, pool, billiard room, and several restaurants. There is still the original brick and stone in the space. The Bernies décor is reminiscent of the fabulous estate homes of the Bernardsville Mountain Colony. It is a very intimate, rustic, and cozy space. The Bernie bar is a section of the room with some banquet seats, a private bar, and a great cocktail hour space (or used for gift opening, buffets, and much more!). The Bernie dining room is where your guests can be seated to eat. There is also a hidden TV in this section of the room. You can seat 55 guests in the Bernie dining room (maximum of 5 oval tables with 11 guests each) and 40 in the Bernie bar. We rent out this entire space, the Bernie bar and Bernie dining room. We rent The Bernie and the Bernie bar as one room. Please note that Bernie is not handicap accessible. You can enter this room from the lobby, followed by 14 steps, or our private entrance with 6 steps. The Bernie is an excellent cocktail hour space before entering our Fenwick Ballroom.

The most significant event space at The Bernards Inn is the outstanding Fenwick Ballroom. Featuring large windows, a bar, and a dramatic skyline, this 2,300-square-foot room makes for large ceremonies and extravagant receptions. The Fenwick Ballroom can be arranged to include seated guests, a dance floor, and live entertainment while accommodating up to 160 guests. Alternatively, this ballroom can be split into two separate event areas for smaller, more quaint festivities.

Services Offered

Upon booking your event at this venue, you will receive various event services and rental items. The helpful staff at Red Horse by David Burke at The Bernards Inn will help with the setup and breakdown of your event, allowing you to immerse yourself in your celebration. Fueled by passion, grit, and a knack for artful innovation, David Burke is one of the best-known and most respected chefs in modern American cuisine with his signature whimsical, boundlessly creative approach to food. Burke and his DBHM team operate or orchestrate the culinary component of 18 restaurants, a bakery, and our historic property, The Bernard's Inn. Further services include hotel accommodations (20 hotel rooms on the property, including a bridal suite and groom suite) and a culinary team that will create a customized wedding menu.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$850

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$350

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Dessert
Server(s)

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$185

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

6

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Historic Building
Hotel

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Clean Up
Get Ready Rooms
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

What event items are available?

Audio Equipment
Chairs
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Valet

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
September
October
November
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
July
August

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Reviews of The Bernards Inn

Weddingwire
4.9/5 131 reviews
Google
4.5/5 460 reviews
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Amanda Sent on 05/16/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Value & Service

We had to cancel (twice!) due to COVID. When we booked a third time, Amanda at The Bernards Inn was so nice, helpful, and responsive. She made it so easy for us. Amanda & the rest of the staff at the BI went out of their way to make sure our vision for our wedding was realized, and we could not have asked for a better team of people helping us. I would 100% recommend the BI for anyone planning a wedding in NJ. Thank you, especially to Amanda, for making our experience so easy and a dream come true!
John
John Sent on 04/13/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Held our wedding ceremony and reception, and a brunch the morning after our wedding at the Bernards Inn and everything was wonderful!

By the end of our tour of the Bernards Inn with Amanda (the onsite event coordinator), we knew it was the perfect venue for our wedding. Photos on the BI website do not do this quaint and charming boutique hotel justice, and the food, entire staff, and ambiance was exactly as hoped for. We held our ceremony on the main floor in the Fenwick A Room, our cocktail hour in the downstairs area (recently renamed "The Bernie"), and used the entire ballroom on the main floor ((Fenwick A and B) for our reception which easily held 80 guests. Felix (the banquet manager) and his team of servers were on top of the details, Rayne (our bridal attendant) was very attentive, and Leticia, Angel and Nancy at the front desk could not have been any more helpful; ensuring that our overnight guests had everything they needed. Two other features of the location that we and our guests appreciated were the abundance of free (Saturday) parking in the train station lot across the street from the BI and the fact that the BI bar stayed open until well after our wedding wrapped at 10:00 p.m.
A
Amyrose Sent on 10/01/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Great team, food & service. Beautiful reception venue.

We held our cocktail hour, wedding reception & after party at the Bernards Inn - the team (Amanda for all the planning & Felix on the day of) were great to work with and helped our vision come to life! They were understanding throughout the planning process and accommodating with everything from our menu and timeline to requests for the hotel throughout the weekend and provided recommendations on other vendors. We had a lot of guests traveling in and ended up blocking the whole hotel and were supported with a myriad of requests related to that. We loved the very special, unique & memorable cocktail hour in the Silver Vault Wine Pantry. The reception in the ballroom was perfect for our wedding of just over 100 people with a good size dancefloor and a 7 piece band! All the food & drinks were excellent as well as the exceptional service throughout the event - many guests commented on the high level of service - thank you to the staff, Amanda, Felix & the rest of team for our beautiful day!
J
Jill Sent on 01/24/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Top Shelf A++

My entire experience was phenomenal! Amanda was an outstanding event coordinator. Felix and his team of servers were exceptional and their attention to detail was memorable. My guests and I were wowed!
Dennis
Dennis Sent on 11/11/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Great rooms and service a very lovely time

Our family engaged the Bernardsville Inn for a weekend wedding at an estate in Bernardsville we had a family and friends to occupy all the rooms in the end. We had the rehearsal dinner in the taproom in the basement on Friday night and attended the wedding on Saturday with everyone in the bridal party staying over until Sunday. The team at the end headed by Gen. manager Mary Pavlini provided service that met or exceeded the service I have received in any hotel in America. At a moments notice bags and packages were taken in and out of the Inn as needed and the byword of the Inn seem to be "is there anything more we can do for you". Apart from the service all the food we ate at the rehearsal dinner, and for those who came up on Friday night, was just excellent. I cannot cannot give a higher recommendation to any establishment.
M
Mylene Sent on 07/13/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Most beautiful venue!!!!

I am so glad we choose this venue!
Everything was so perfect and beautiful. Amanda made the planning so easy. The wine cellar is PERFECT for small wedding, super intimate and romantic!
Cannot wait to go back for our 1 year anniversary!
E
Erin Sent on 11/04/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Elegant Celebration

The Bernards Inn is a class act establishment. Our wedding ceremony and reception went on without a single hitch. Amanda and Felix were attentive, flexible, and easy to work with!! Everyone on site from the servers and bartenders to guest services were pleasant and helpful.
Allison
Allison Sent on 07/26/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic perfect magic

We had a small intimate wedding ceremony and dinner in the Silver Vault and it was perfect. The staff was so helpful to allow us to really customize the space and the food and the service top notch. Everyone had a great time!
R
Rachel Sent on 01/12/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Christmas Wedding 2019

The Bernard's Inn was the perfect choice for our Christmas wedding! Amanda and her staff were so responsive and helpful throughout the entire wedding planning process. We booked the venue over a year in advance and they had changed the event manager during that time but Amanda made sure everything was set for our wedding day. Every detail was planned out perfectly and our wedding could not have been more amazing! On our wedding day, Amanda stayed late to make sure everything went smoothly. The venue is gorgeous and was already decorated for Christmas during my December 14th wedding. My guests loved taking pictures by the Christmas tree in the front entrance. Everyone loved the food and my guests raved about the cocktail hour! The cocktail hour is in a wine pantry and is so romantic and cozy your guests will love it! We also had our after party in the wine pantry. The venue has 20 guest rooms, which was a huge plus for us! The bridal suite is perfect for pictures and getting ready in. My guests who stayed the night absolutely loved their rooms. From planning the wedding to the day of, everything and everyone at The Bernard's Inn was perfect! I would recommend this venue to anyone!! Thank you so much for making our wedding day so magical.
Shell
Shell Sent on 08/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Intimate family wedding

Our intimate family wedding at the Bernards Inn was fantastic! We spent only a month putting the day together, but the day of went off flawlessly! We had a 10 person ceremony in the silver cellar, followed by an hour for pictures, and then our additional family and friends arrived for a total of just 40 guests. The cocktail hour in the silver cellar had the perfect intimate, elegant and romantic vibe with our own music piped in. We were able to also put together our own centerpieces on their wood tables for dinner in the wine pantry. Andrea worked to make sure my flowers survived until our Sunday afternoon event in their refrigerator (and they did, thank you!). I really appreciated how the Bernard's Inn worked with us to make our event fall within our budget (beer, wine, champagne only bar) without judgement or making it feel like we skipped over important details. It was a wonderful day and weekend (I highly recommend staying before and after the wedding!).
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The Bernards Inn staff is very professional and organized. They pay close attention to detail for every event. Jardiniere has been working with the Bernards Inn for many years. They handle every event with special care and make sure that no matter how large or small the event you get exactly what you were envisioning. They have a larger ballroom for weddings and corporate events and for a more intimate setting downstairs they have the wine pantry and silver vault. They are a pleasure to work with!

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The Bernards Inn frequently asked questions

The Bernards Inn includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Bernards Inn includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at The Bernards Inn includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by The Bernards Inn for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
The Bernards Inn offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
The Bernards Inn offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Bernards Inn offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Clean Up
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Wifi
The Bernards Inn offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
The Bernards Inn is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism and 4.8 in value.
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