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Thank you for visiting Silver Oaks, and congrats on becoming engaged!

The first source of information about our venue is without a doubt the website: www.thebarnatsilveroaksestate.com
Here you can view photo and video galleries, our availability calendar, schedule a consultation call, book a tour and see our FAQ's. <------- (super helpful)

We have placed an emphasis on providing everything you need to make an informed decision, no smoke, no mirrors, just honest and transparent answers to your questions.

You can speak directly to the owner, no sales pressure, no risk, no obligation. Just call, we're here.

If you're looking for a venue that will truly impress your guests, you're in the right place. Our venue is stunning and exudes a real Polo, Ralph Lauren vibe.

Come see for yourself what 10 years and the experience of 410 weddings have taught us.

Thank you for considering us!

We'll await your response.

Sincerely,

Gene & Veronica Carbona
www.thebarnatsilveroaksestate.com
917-923-4303

  • Hispanic or Latinx-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$14,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$14,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$14,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$12,000

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Clean Up
Glassware
Lighting/Sound
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$100

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

60

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

2

Describe your venue:

Art Gallery
Banquet Hall
Barn
Farm/Ranch
Garden
Historic Building
Park
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Decor
Drapery
Furniture
Lighting
Photo booth
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

May
June
July
August

Reviews of The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate

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Erin Sent on 08/17/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful inside & out!

I came across the Barn at Silver Oaks through Instagram (many years ago now), along with many many other venues. However, there was something truly unique about THIS barn, and I continued to watch many couples get married over the years telling myself that I (no fiancé yet!) would some day join them. I watched as the owners made annual improvements, making the venue more and more beautiful each year. Jared and I's journey with Gene & Veronica began over 2 years ago. We secured our date without even seeing the venue (it was winter) and we patiently waited until the spring to visit. As soon as we arrived, we knew this was our spot. Gene and Veronica are beyond humble and genuinely want you to have the most memorable day. They will stop at nothing to help you get there, and there are no words or enough thank you's to express the gratitude I have towards both of them, their staff, and family. We are both honored to have been one of the couples who have had a wedding here, and without Gene and Veronica, the day just wouldn't have been so special. Both beautiful inside and out (yes, the venue is too!), Gene and Veronica make every step of the way, every decision, every detail effortless. I'll never forget our wedding day...it was truly a dream come true!!!
Caitlin
Caitlin Sent on 02/24/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Chose another venue but this gem made the decision SO HARD!

I met with Gene and Veronica at their home for a small wedding show hightlight their favorite vendors and answering any question you could have about the barn. They both make you feel like family right away and their family has taken such time and care to make their property perfect for your day.

They normally don't open for winter viewing but becuase I am such an visual person Gene trudged out in the snow with us so we could see the venue. I couldn't have been more greatful!

We ended up choosing a venue farther south but letting go of this amazing venue and this amazing team was exceptionally hard! Would HIGHLY reccomend this venue to anyone getting married. You won't find a more dedicated team anywhere!
Suzanne
Suzanne Sent on 11/09/2019
5 out of 5 rating

November wedding

Start to finish, Veronica and Gene Carbona were wonderful. The Barn at Silver Oaks is beautiful, rustic yet elegant. Our daughter’s vision for her wedding was met completely with the help of Veronica’s wedding planning expertise. Being a destination wedding, we literally could not have done this without her. Her recommended vendors were great and exactly fitting for this beautiful November wedding. An alternative plan for inclement weather was well thought out, and although it was a bit chilly, the decision to follow through with an outdoor ceremony and cocktail hour was left up to the bride. It was magical.

Veronica is professional and keeps to a timeline from the beginning of the planning through the wedding itself and beyond. I was so pleased with how Veronica and Gene made our daughter and son-in-law the priority creating a day that they will remember forever. They felt catered to which is how it should be on your wedding day. Thank you, Veronica and Gene, from the entire Ragonese/Gullman family on a job very well done.
Quinn
Quinn Sent on 10/30/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Gene and Veronica ROCK!

I cannot say enough good things about Gene and Veronica (owners). From the moment you meet this pair you get a vibe that they are part of your family and they are already thinking of ways to make YOUR day better than the last one they had. They are responsive, honest, innovative, and always ready to help you with any questions you have. After all you only do this once! The Barn speaks for itself, large beautiful, and a mix of styles that make it the rustic fairy tale venue. I highly recommend their services and venue.
Emily
Emily Sent on 07/22/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing, down to the last detail

More than we could have asked for! Gene & Veronica and their family were all SO helpful with the entire planning process. We knew the second we saw the venue that we needed to have this be the place we decided to say "I do".

Both were very involved in the process and Veronica was so amazing and we are so blessed she was also our day-of coordinator. They deserve all the praise they receive and more. We are so happy to have invested in such an amazing family business and a beautiful location.

Love, Zach & Em Nadeau
Caitie
Caitie Sent on 06/26/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing!

What a joy to work with Gene and Veronica. We planned our Maine wedding from Colorado and could not have been happier. It was the most perfect day we could have imagined.
Z
Zachary Sent on 03/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic Venue and Kind Owners!

The Barn at the Silver Oaks Estate is a fantastic wedding venue nestled in the quaint and beautiful Winthrop Maine Lakes Region. Not only is the barn and the outdoor ceremony site absolutely stunning, but the owners are some of the kindest and caring people that my fiancee´ and I have met. couldn't be more excited to get married at this wonderful location surrounded by caring and wonderful people!
L
Linda Sent on 11/14/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Venue

My husband and I visited the barn before we even got engaged. It was stunning and Gene and Veronica are even more amazing. They truly make the experience and we booked this venue before we even got engaged because we loved them and the venue so much. We had a Nor'easter on our wedding day but they came together and made our wedding amazing. Being inside was intimate and beautiful. I could not imagine a better place to get married and a better set of people to help us through the process. If you want the best wedding ever with the most genuine and amazing people, book this venue and get Veronica as your planner if she is available. You will not be disappointed. We truly felt like we were part of their family and had not one worry about how are wedding would turn out. We knew in their hands it would be the best day ever and it honestly was. I highly recommend calling them to schedule a showing. You will not regret it.
C
Cindy Sent on 10/28/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Wise Old Broad

Unfortunately, it sounds like Poppy Leavers needs an attitude adjustment. I have worked with this venue as a vendor on several occasions and the owners are very professional, hard working and accomodating in ensuring that the brides, bridal party and guests are comfortable and enjoy their special day. I have also worked with other vendors, such as Cafe 130 Catering (now Lilac Mixology and Catering), who are also great to work with and I would highly recommend their services. (Side bar, their name change had nothing to do with this venue and everything to do with their growth and expansion). I have also worked with Poppy Leavers and on those few occasions, the brides were less than impressed with his work. As a result, I would surmise his lack of business success is likely due to this reason and not the venue.
Bottom line is I have enjoyed working with this venue very much when given the opportunity and would highly recommend. The venue is beautiful, both inside and out, the owners go above and beyond to make everyone feel comfortable and the day special for everyone attending.
A
Ashley Sent on 09/26/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Our story with Gene & Veronica and The Barn at Silver Oaks began 2 years ago. We had looked at countless other barns/venues and had made the decision to do a destination wedding. I had seen a post on Facebook about a new wedding venue opening up in Winthrop, Maine...we were in town so we decided to take a look at “another barn”. That day was the BEST decision we made and a day we will never forget. Veronica and Gene~greeted us with hugs...as if we had met a thousand times before, and from that day on we became “family”...we would keep in touch, attend open house events to see the progress they had made to the barn...every time leaving amazed and more excited for our special.
The week before our wedding, we met to finalize the last minute details. Their willingness to make sure everyone from the florist, DJ/Photographer to catering and bar service, were doing everything we asked...not only for the business but someone who would be as passionate and dedicated to making our day perfect in every way-exceeded our expectations.
I will without a doubt tell you that these two will make your day the single most amazing day of your life-from the personal touches, attention to detail and the way the barn reflected everything we envisioned for our day. These two have got it down..they knocked our wedding out of the park. They are amazing couple, with the most wonderful staff. The joy we felt on our wedding day was so immense but to look over and see this amazing couple just as happy as we were, was a feeling that will never be forgotten.
Gene and Veronica you will forever have two walking billboards in us and we want you to know that it was because of your dream, that ours was able to come true! We thank you from the bottom of our hearts, we are forever grateful to the both of you.

Love,
Mr. & Mrs. Connor
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Awards

13
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

5 Endorsements
Meraki Portrait Meraki Portrait Wedding Photographers

Gene + Veronica are super kind. Communication with them has been great, especially from a vendor stand point. They are super proud of their property and love to share it!

Treeline Photography Treeline Photography Wedding Photographers

Beautiful venue run by a fantastic crew. They make the barn wedding a dream to plan with a lovely location and welcoming family atmosphere. From intimate family celebrations to huge events with guest lists in the hundreds, this should be your first stop for rustic weddings!

The Music Man DJ Service The Music Man DJ Service Wedding DJs

Veronica and Gene have one of the up and coming wedding venues in the state of Maine. They cater to your every need for your wedding reception. You will have a fabulous experience!

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The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate frequently asked questions

The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • Clean Up
  • Glassware
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate includes:
  • Bartender(s)
The space offered by The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate for wedding events is known for:
  • Art Gallery
  • Banquet Hall
  • Barn
  • Farm/Ranch
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
  • Park
  • Waterfront
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Drapery
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Photo booth
  • Tables
The Barn at Silver Oaks Estate is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.
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