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From 50 to 300 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Get Ready Rooms
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Melissa
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Andrea

Recommended by 90% of couples

About this venue

The Hotel at the Lafayette located in Downtown Buffalo has a total of 4 event spaces to book weddings/ceremonies, cocktail parties, rehearsal dinners, large showers & more. Tappo Venues has acquired all banquet spaces within the Hotel @ the Lafayette including first floor ballrooms and second floor event spaces.

Facilities and Capacity

  • The first floor Marquis De Lafayette Ballrooms @ the Lafayette Hotel are uniquely featured bringing you back to a timeless and luxurious era. The Marquis Ballroom boasts a theatrical stage, large crystal chandeliers, gleaming hardwood floors and an adjectent room for cocktail hour, accomodating up to 280. Our AAA Room is adjacent to the Marquis Ballroom and can accommodate cocktail hour for larger weddings. Our Crystal Ballroom is adorned with crystal chandeliers, intricate gold beams, floor to ceiling windows, marble floors and a raised seating area around the perimeter. The elegant Crystal Room easily accomodates up to 150 sit down or an ideal space for large ceremonies.
  • Our second floor consists of two additional spaces renovated to boast an industrial glam ambience with exposed brick, contemporary chandeliers, and built in skylights. The Courtyard Room, up to 180 sit down, is also a great space for your ceremony, cocktail hour or rehearsal dinners. The Greenhouse Room, up to 225 sit down, is perfect for receptions, showers, large rehearsal dinners, and more. These second floor rooms are equipped with private access to our outdoor courtyard terrace, ideal for cocktail hour or ceremonies.

As you prepare for your wedding at the Marquis De Lafayette Ballrooms @ the Lafayette Hotel, you will receive the assistance of our experienced wedding coordinators. They will take care of your wedding details and ensure you have everything you need the day of your event. We will outfit you with complimentary chiavari chairs, linens, glassware, china, and flatware. Couples are welcome to bring in outside vendors or we will help you with our list of preferred vendors and wedding planners we love to work with. Valet parking is an option through an outside vendor. The building is wheelchair accessible.

Hotel Services

Enjoy all of the comforts of home in the Lafayette Hotel one bedroom hotel rooms and suites. While room blocks are not offered in this 34 unit boutique hotel, couples booked with us receive a discount link. For addiitonal space, nearby hotels are a great supplement. Please ask us for more information to book your stay with hotel management.

Features

Small team (2-10 members)

Experience

  • We speak English and Spanish

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$500

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$500

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Server(s)

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$35

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Historic Building
Hotel
Loft

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
November
December

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Reviews of Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette

Weddingwire
4.5/5 50 reviews
Google
4.3/5 6 reviews
Monica
Monica Sent on 06/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A vision, a ballroom, a hero, and a dream come true

Originally, I signed my reception contract with Classic Events of Buffalo for The Hotel at the Lafayette. Midway through the planning process, I was informed that they would no longer be managing the venue and was essentially told, "Sorry, we no longer manage that location. Best of luck." As you can imagine, I was completely devastated and panicked about what this meant for all of our plans.

Thankfully, Tappo Venues stepped in and completely turned the situation around. Not only did they honor the terms of my original contract, but they accommodated everything I had envisioned for our wedding. From the very beginning, they reassured me, eased my concerns, and made me feel confident that everything would work out.

The true star of the experience, however, was our coordinator, Alexa Graff. After the uncertainty and stress of the transition, Alexa became the reason I could actually enjoy planning my wedding again. She took my vision and brought it to life better than I could have imagined. She was incredibly responsive, detail-oriented, organized, and proactive throughout the entire process. Whenever I had a question, concern, or random wedding thought, she was there with an answer. If something was unclear, she made sure to confirm every detail rather than make assumptions, which gave me so much peace of mind.

What impressed me most was how genuinely invested she was in making our day special. I never felt like just another wedding on her calendar. She made me feel heard, supported, and confident every step of the way. I am a very Type A person and extremely particular when it comes to details, so trusting someone else to execute my vision was not something that came naturally to me. But Alexa earned that trust completely. By the time the wedding day arrived, I felt comfortable letting go, being present, and enjoying the day because I knew she had everything handled.

And she absolutely delivered. The entire day was flawless. Every detail was executed perfectly, everything ran smoothly, and the vision I had spent months planning came together beautifully. I truly did not have to worry about a thing because Alexa had everything under control.

Looking back, what started as one of the most stressful moments of my wedding planning journey ended up becoming one of the best experiences because of Alexa and the Tappo team. If you're considering The Hotel at the Lafayette (or any Tappo Venue location) and have the opportunity to work with Alexa Graff, consider yourself lucky. She is an absolute gem and played a huge role in making our wedding day everything we dreamed of and more.
S
Sara Sent on 04/15/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Marquis ballroom

12/10 recommend
I recently got married at hotel Lafayette on 1/24/26 with Alexa Graff our coordinator and I cannot recommend this venue enough.

First, alexa was absolutely INCREDIBLE!!! I texted her nearly every single day for a whole year with any questions that I had. She was on top of all the timelines and the venue also offered a lot of decor if I wanted to use any (I did). I had absolutely no concerns going into the wedding. I received ENDLESS amount of compliments about how she did an incredible job. She made my day so much easier, and made sure the day went smoothly (AND IT DID, best day ever)🤍
K
Kaitlyn Sent on 06/25/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding review!

I recently had Alexa as my coordinator and she did an AMAZING job! She went above and beyond, communication was a 100000/10 and made my vision come to life better than I even imagined! Would recommend her to anyone and would love to work with her again!
A
Andrew Sent on 07/16/2024
5 out of 5 rating

June 2024 Wedding

Our experience with the Hotel Lafayette. was truly amazing; every detail was meticulously handled to perfection. From the moment we contacted them, the team was incredibly responsive and accommodating, ensuring that our vision was brought to life seamlessly.

After originally planning the location and wedding the hotel was going through a change in management companies. I was quite concerned about keeping the date and rooms with a new management company. The manager Nicole however, was incredible! She managed the sale seamlessly and stayed in constant contact with me to let me know how things were progressing and that there were no issues. She helped me book several specific rooms and accommodated several special requests; she and her staff were very professional and kind, and we highly recommend this hotel.

All of our guests that stayed at the wedding commented on how great the hotel and the rooms were. There is a lot of character in this hotel, and it is a beautiful boutique hotel in a great location near downtown Buffalo, and walking distance to many great attractions and locations. When booking at a boutique hotel you sometimes are concerned about the amenities and room sizes. This is not an issue at the Lafayette, the rooms (including standard rooms for guests) were all great sizes, and were very well maintained and cleaned. The bridal suite is especially great, big enough for hair and makeup to be done, and includes a balcony overlooking Lafayette square, which is a great touch. The Marquis room where we held the ceremony and reception was great! It has amazing architecture and we had to do very little in terms of decorations. Some good lighting and centerpieces are more than enough to make this room come to life and be gorgeous. We had about 115 guests, and there was way more than enough room in the Marquis, plenty of space for dance floor, social booth, and audio booth in the room. We highly recommend this location for your ceremony and reception.

Reflecting on our wedding day, we can't help but feel grateful for the dedication and hard work of Nicole and the Hotel Lafayette staff. They played a significant role in making our dream wedding a reality, and for that, we are thankful. To future couples looking for a great location, we highly recommend considering the Marquis Ballroom at the Hotel Lafayette. for a truly enchanting experience.
Melissa
Melissa Sent on 11/22/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Wedding Weekend!

We had our daughters's wedding at the Marquis De Lafayette Ballroom. It was absolutely perfect! We worked with Marie and she was awesome! She was always very responsive with emails. Very accommodating when we wanted to meet up to go over room set up or show my daughter's new in-laws the room when they came into town. The day of staff was fantastic. They had the room set up exactly as we had wanted. It was perfect! I had many guest telling me how great the staff was. The head bartender was fantastic..making great drinks all night long. The food was delicious! The venue is absolutely beautiful and the staff made the night perfect. I really can't say enough about the whole experience. It was perfect!
Stephanie
Stephanie Sent on 08/12/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Service!

The staff of the hotel, valet, and their communications with Pearl St. Catering are amazing! I was in the Roosevelt Suite for the night prior and the night of my wedding and it exceeded every expectation I could have possibly had! Thank you soo much for being professional, helpful, courteous, and helping make my wedding beyond perfection!!
Becky
Becky Sent on 06/21/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing experience and food!

Wow!!!! We had an amazing experience at The Greenhouse Room with Pearl Street. We worked with Stephanie, and she is an absolutely saint. She answered ALL of my emails, ALL OF THEM, within 24 hours. She was so thorough and never missed a beat. The food was fantastic - best bang for your buck. Day of banquet coordinator Morgan was so helpful. The venue atmosphere was MAGICAL. We had the best day ever. I cannot say enough great things about this venue!
K
Katie Sent on 11/08/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing experience!

My wedding was held in the Crystal Ballroom (the smaller of the two ballrooms run by Marquis De Lafayatte). Ali and her team did an amazing job making my wedding a perfect experience! The food was delicious, the staff was great, and I can't think of one thing to complain about. Ali was responsive to every email I sent prior to the wedding and was always helpful. Everyone had a great time and I felt supported every step of the way.
K
Kira Sent on 05/30/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Stephanie and Charlie from the Pearl Street Catering team are a dream to work with. We had initially conversations with a few different venues in the beginning, but ultimately chose the Greenhouse Room because of their support and responsiveness. We were planning an out of town wedding and knew that not being local was going to be a challenge, but with this team of organized wedding specialists it never felt that way. They are seasoned pros and are so on top of what is needed to make every brides day a dream based on their taste and preference. Everything was better than we could have ever dreamed, and my family, who works in catering and rarely has anything nice to say, has not stopped raving about the food and service. Thank you...thank you...thank you.
Andrea
Andrea Sent on 07/20/2017
5 out of 5 rating
I couldn't be happier with our choice in venue!!! Working with the team at Hotel Lafayette (through Acqua) was great. They were extremely responsive, professional and fun to be around. I'm so glad they were part of our big day!
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Alexa Graff
Alexa Graff
Event & Sales Manager
Dan Rossiter
Dan Rossiter
Event & Sales Manager
Christa DiFiglia
Christa DiFiglia
Director of Catering
Diana Limina
Diana Limina
Administrative Lead

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Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette frequently asked questions

Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Specialty Beer
  • Specialty Wine
The space offered by Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
  • Loft
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
Tappo Venues @ Hotel Lafayette is recommended by 90% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.5 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.6 in quality of service, 4.5 in flexibility, 4.5 in professionalism, 4.5 in value and 4.4 in average response time.
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