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Interfaith Rabbi Barry Tuchman is a wedding officiant specializing in Jewish, interfaith, non-denominational, and alternative wedding ceremonies. Located in San Clemente, California, but willing to travel all over, Barry wants to work with you to create a ceremony and Ketubah as unique as the two of you.

Services Offered

Rabbi Barry will consult with you and work to create a Ketubah that is as unique as the two of you. As you provide meaningful symbols or images that the two of you share, Rabbi Barry willl blend tradition into your personal commitment to eacy other.

Rabbi Barry is willing to work with a variety of faiths to ensure your ceremony showcases what you hold sacred. He has worked with many interfaith couples including: Jewish, Christian, Buddhist, Catholic, Native American, and more. In addition to a customized ceremony, you can order custom Jewish and interfaith Ketubahs in an assortment of colors, designs, and shapes. After a complimentary consultation to understand your individual wants and needs, you have the option to enroll in pre-marital counseling with topics including conflict resolution, communication skills, religious differences, and planning for children. No matter your religious preference you’ll be in good hands.

Frequently Asked Questions

Which of the following are included in the price?

Premarital Counseling

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Jewish

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
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Bryan
Bryan C. Married on 07/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic Officiant

We had a non religious ceremony, a small elopement, and wanted to bring it to another level with a memorable ceremony for us. He did such a phenomenal job in the preparation, guiding us through the steps, and the actual ceremony was such a memorable experience. He really knows how to bring weight to the moment and make it feel very special. Highly recommended. It's not every day you get married, and this was a day we'll remember the rest of our lives, especially thanks to this man's special energy and intention behind the ceremony. thanks again, highly highly recommended.
Halle
Halle K. Married on 10/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The most heart-felt ceremony

My husband (I wrote fiancé and then corrected myself!) and I are both secular, spiritual Jews. We wanted our wedding officiated by a Rabbi, but the question was, how do we find one that resonated with our beliefs & values? I found Rabbi Barry from a Google search, and arranged a time to chat. We connected with his interpretation of Judaism and love, and noticed immediately how well-spoken he was. Rabbi Barry is a professional public speaker - his services left hardly a dry eye at the venue (of course, my & my husbands vows didn’t hurt 😉). Multiple guests told us that our ceremony was the best and/or most heart-felt ceremony they’d ever been witness to. There was laughter, tears, and just the perfect balance of spiritual connectedness to our ancestors & Jewishness. He explained traditions to our non-Jewish guests in a beautiful way that I know they appreciated and enjoyed. One of my husband’s friends even joked that he wants to convert now 😂
It was a history lesson, and a compelling sermon on love, with a pinch of comedy stand-up, all in one. Being able to work on a Ketubah with him was the cherry on top. He was responsive and understanding of how specific of a vision I had, and allowed me to take as much control of the project as I wanted. Rabbi Barry is your one-stop-shop for your Jewish or interfaith wedding.

Forever grateful,
Mr. & Mrs. Kohn-Levine 🥰
Candace
Candace B. Married on 11/12/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Perfection

Rabbi Barry Tuchman had everyone in tears at my wedding! I’m beyond happy to have had Rabbi Tuchman marry my husband and I. And the Ketubah he made us was absolutely perfect and fit our personalities to the tee! Couldn’t imagine anyone else officiate our wedding! Thank you!
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