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Father Jerry Bellamy
Father Jerry Bellamy
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Father Jerry Bellamy is a retired Catholic priest, in CA. He has been planning and performing weddings for over 50 years. Ordained after 12 years of seminary training, he spent 9 happy years in parishes. In 1981, he retired from full time ministry because he wanted to be married. He and his wife have two wonderful children. Both children are professionals in California. He is still a Priest but performs weddings as a non-denominational minister. Father Jerry specializes in both religious and non-religious ceremonies. He also speaks Spanish.

This is NOT his “side job”. This is what he does.

Services Offered

Father Jerry is bilingual and will work with you to plan and celebrate your wedding, in English or Spanish traditions. So many of his couples are not religious, as adults, but were as children. Many couples are agnostics, atheists or are just upset with the church of their parents. Father Jerry very often helps bridge the gap between what the couple wants and what their parents want. Father Jerry’s couples usually want to be married outside of traditional churches or temples or synagogues. He also celebrates weddings, side by side, with Rabbis, Imams, Ministers, and Elders of other religions. He will take the time to sit down with you to plan your ceremony. His approach is to help you find the ceremony that is hiding within your relationship. Your wedding could end up being rather traditional, or not very traditional at all. The average duration of a ceremony is about 28 minutes.

“What makes a person holy, is determined by how loving one is, not by how religious one might be. We celebrate how great or holy it is that you love each other. Dios es Amor.”

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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling
Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English
Spanish

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Reviews of Father Jerry Bellamy

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Father Jerry has received glowing reviews from multiple couples for his exceptional officiating at weddings. Reviewers praise his ability to cater ceremonies to the couple's preferences, incorporate elements of different faiths, and create a warm, heartfelt atmosphere. Father Jerry's professionalism, personalization, and engaging speaking style have made him a standout officiant, with guests often moved by his ceremonies. Couples appreciate his attention to detail, guidance throughout the planning process, and ability to make their special day memorable and unique. Highly recommended for those seeking a caring and skilled officiant for their wedding ceremony.

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Father Jerry has received glowing reviews from multiple couples for his exceptional officiating at weddings. Reviewers praise his ability to cater ceremonies to the couple's preferences, incorporate elements of different faiths, and create a warm, heartfelt atmosphere. Father Jerry's professionalism, personalization, and engaging speaking style have made him a standout officiant, with guests often moved by his ceremonies. Couples appreciate his attention to detail, guidance throughout the planning process, and ability to make their special day memorable and unique. Highly recommended for those seeking a caring and skilled officiant for their wedding ceremony.

Emily
Emily Sent on 10/02/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best decision for our ceremony!!

We cannot recommend Father Jerry enough. He really felt like a guiding friend helping us throughout this entire process. He has a gift for making a union so incredibly special, and we will always remember our ceremony as one of the most special moments of our lives - his role playing a significant part of why. He really does tailor it to accommodate whatever style you choose as a couple whether you want laughter, tradition, emotional, or a little bit of it all…he will take the time to make it right for each couple. Father Jerry blew our guests away. Of course, we all go to plenty of weddings, but they all said how different this one felt. It’s an incredible thing to find someone who cares so much and loves what he does. Thank you, Father Jerry!
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G Garcia Sent on 10/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Everything we hoped for

Wow - Father Jerry was perfect, I come from a bilingual catholic background, and I really needed somebody to help bring tradition into our multi faith audience. He elaborated on the meaning of being holy in a way that spoke to everybody, and drew lots of emotion and laughs, and even spoke a bit of Spanish to nod to my side of the family. His speech was moving, and his presence graceful - even made a friend want to convert! He was a pleasure to plan with, he is very thorough and friendly, I can’t imagine having a ceremony without his services and we recommend him 100%
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Jason Sent on 09/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Life of the Ceremony

Father Bellamy, did an amazing job with the ceremony. He was very witty, charming, and kept the audience engaged. My wife and I, as well as all the wedding guests; were very impressed with Father Bellamy.
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Frankie Sent on 08/14/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Father Jerry

Father Jerry was so wonderful! He made sure to get to know us well, ask all the right questions beforehand to prepare, and he was so knowledgeable about the whole marriage license process. Unfortunately, we intend to only get married once (ha!), but if we were to again, we’d absolutely would ask Father Jerry. I’d recommend him 100x over.
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Sofia Sent on 08/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The highlight of our ceremony!

Father Jerry was the single most complimented part of our entire wedding! All the guests were so moved (and also entertained!) by the ceremony.

The planning session: my husband and I really had no idea how to structure our ceremony or what to incorporate before meeting with Father Jerry. He presented some great and personalized ideas and helped map out the entire ceremony so neither of us would feel stressed or nervous on the day of to remember all the steps.

The ceremony: It was truly so magical and we loved that we could incorporate as much of the catholic faith as we wanted but to also keep some flexibility in the length and lightness of the ceremony. Father Jerry is really a great public speaker and knows how to connect with the crowd
Veronique
Veronique Sent on 06/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Dream wedding

Someone very wise said that "the celebration of the wedding gets forgotten but that the ceremony is always remembered" (Father Jerry) and those words ring so true. From the moment I spoke with him on the phone, his professionalism, passion for others, and desire to get to personally know us was so obvious, I knew immediately he was going to be the officiant at our wedding. We're an older couple who found love again after both being windowed for a few years. We wanted someone who knew our story, and celebrated our new love with us. Father Jerry was literally the highlight of our wedding. Fun, good spirited, yet deeply caring. We are so fortunate and truly honored that he officiated our wedding, and we highly recommend couples to do the same. Such an amazing man.
Carter
Carter Sent on 06/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Father Bellamy Is The BEST!

Father Bellamy was the perfect officiant for our wedding at El Presidio Chapel in Santa Barbara. From our very first phone call, we knew he was the right person to lead our ceremony. He is a kind and genuine soul who was thoughtful, supportive, and easy to work with every step of the way.

One of the things we appreciated most was how he kept reminding us not to worry. On the big day, that advice really paid off. He guided us through the entire ceremony with calm confidence, even giving us subtle cues during the service that kept everything running smoothly without drawing attention. His presence helped us stay grounded and present in the moment.

While our ceremony leaned more religious, Father Bellamy made it feel welcoming for everyone. Our guests came from different faith backgrounds, and some had no religious affiliation at all, yet everyone felt included. The ceremony was full of love, laughter, and heartfelt moments. People were crying with joy and laughing out loud, completely engaged from beginning to end. At the reception, so many guests came up to tell us how wonderful he was.

If you are looking for an officiant who is compassionate, witty, warm, and truly exceptional, we cannot recommend Father Bellamy highly enough. He helped make our wedding day unforgettable. He is also incredibly flexible and will tailor the ceremony to reflect your values, traditions, and vision, no matter what type of ceremony you are hoping to have.
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Briana Sent on 06/16/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Bacara Wedding

Father Jerry was great. Our whole wedding party (including us) loved him. We highly recommend him to those in the area. He listened to us and provided feedback and guidance so that we knew what to expect.
Kate
Kate Sent on 06/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Truly Unforgettable Ceremony

We couldn’t be more grateful for Father Jerry and the incredible role he played in our wedding. From the very beginning, he was kind, supportive, and extremely helpful in guiding us through the process and creating our ceremony. Leading up to the big day, he was always available to answer questions and made sure we felt completely prepared and at ease.

On the day of the ceremony, Father Jeremy went above and beyond. His calm and reassuring presence helped take away all our nerves, and his words during the ceremony were heartfelt, funny, and truly meaningful. He created such a beautiful and welcoming atmosphere that we and our guests will always remember.

We feel so lucky to have had Father Jerry as part of our wedding. Thank you for making our day so special!
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Joe Sent on 05/29/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Wedding Officiant

We found Father Jerry as we were planning our wedding on relatively short notice. He was quick to respond and very flexible as we finalized all of our plans. When we spoke with Father Jerry leading up to our wedding, he was incredibly thoughtful in helping us design a ceremony that told our story, incorporated our families and respected both of our faiths. We were so happy to have Father Jerry officiate our wedding and help make our day so special.
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It is very challenging for couples to not only choose the right person to marry them but also to find the right person! In this small pocket of California there are limited choices. I am so relieved when my clients mention Father Jerry because I know not only will they have a memorable and exquisitely penned ceremony but they will also go into their day organized, calm and excited. Father Jerry has many years of experience and knows how to set my clients' mind at ease. I highly recommend him for the job!

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Father Jerry Bellamy will make your wedding ceremony relaxed, personal and beautiful. I love how he gets to know the couples so that the ceremony rings authentic to who the couple is. I always know my couples are in good hands when working with him.

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