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In-Person and Video Wedding Ceremonies Booked Last Minute! IL Wedding Officiant, Rev Pamela is an interfaith non-denominational wedding officiant who can perform your wedding ceremony live streaming on Zoom or Skype as soon as tonight! Or if you perfor in-person, you can say your vows in one of her beautiful outdoor park locations year-round.

Rev Pam specializes in personalized wedding ceremonies for couples of all genders, races, religion and sexual identities, and performs full pagan /Wiccan circle and handfastings. She also offers private spiritual Counceling and pre-marital preparation classes. As your wedding officiant, she will create the perfect blend for a meaningful, sacred wedding ceremony and has been performing legal and spiritual wedding ritual for over 30 years. From 2011 to 2020 she also managed Pine Manor Chicago, her private historic manor and garden as a wedding venue in Mount Prospect for small micro wedding ceremonies and receptions.

Elope to Cook County & McHenry County Illinois USA Reverend Pam’s goal is to help you express your unique love, traditions, and beliefs. Whether you’re a same-sex couple or part of a distinct community, pagan or whatever, Rev Pam proudly honors the love and devotion between all couples.

Book Online for $75 Dollars Down Go to BookPam.Today to view the calendar and packages.

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Awaiting the opportunity to learn more about you. Rev Pam is available 8am – 8pm CST daily by Appointment, and will happily accommodate any reasonable request. Please log on my website to contct me or text my cell phone for immediate service. Messages left here on the system may not be answered. Just text me instead - my cell phone can be found at the top of this page. I look forward to the opportunity to learn what your looking for and striving to make your day better than ever imagined. Click on the website to start planning your wedding today.

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$149

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

IL
IN
MI
MN
ND
WI

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of IL Wedding Officiant, Rev Pamela & Pine Manor Chicago

Debbi
Debbi Sent on 05/25/2020
5 out of 5 rating

COVID 19 couldn’t stop us!

Rev. Pam is very responsive, answered all our questions and helped to make our social distancing wedding a truly memorable one. From the moment we arrived, she welcomed us with a smile and made us feel at home. We held our ceremony in the garden at Rev. Pam’s home. She took some beautiful pictures and videoed the ceremony for us. It was obvious to us that Rev. Pam loves what she does! By the time we left, we felt that Rev. Pam was a friend. We highly recommend holding your wedding at Pine Manor! You will be surrounded with beauty and love and your wedding will be unforgettable. Thank you Rev. Pam for sharing this special moment in our lives.

Debbi & David Johnson
April 28, 2020
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Laura Sent on 05/06/2023
5 out of 5 rating

A perfect ceremony

We were married by Rev Pam in Central Park in Des Plaines. She is absolutely fantastic. She was fast to respond to my questions regarding availability. The process to book online is so easy and fast. She is very thorough and covers all the little details. On our wedding day she gave us exactly what we were wanting, a small intimate ceremony. She has such a passion for marrying people. She is absolutely wonderful and we are so happy with our day. Thank you so much Rev Pam, you made our day wonderful!!
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Angela Sent on 08/27/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Rev Pam is AMAZING! Our day was perfect!

Rev Pam took care of the details and customized our day to exactly what we wanted. The garden ceremony was beautiful! We could not have had a more lovely day!
Jacky
Jacky Sent on 05/27/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Large Wedding with several days of events

Reverend Pam was fantastic! She helped us plan our June 2, 2018 wedding and helped us organize some of the other events as well. She booked the hotel in Elk Grove Village which was also the wedding venue, she got the invitations, cake, photographer, videographer, violonist, and was our officiant. We really enjoyed our year long planning process with her. She was very sensitive and understanding of our cultural differences and traditions. She even sent us a nice card a year later to remind us of our lovely ceremony. Our guests absolutely loved our wedding and reception. We are so happy we chose Reverend Pam as our officiant and wedding planner.
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Chris Sent on 07/02/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Our Pine Manor All Day Elopement Wedding was Magical! My fiance' (Oops sorry... my wife) and I just wanted to share our special day together and not use up all of our savings on a big wedding. We pondered the idea of eloping on a cruise, or a destination wedding, but when we did the math they all ended up costing about as much as having a big wedding at home (not to mention the stress of planning it). We both agreed that we wanted to do more than a court house marriage... and then we found Rev Pam at Pine Manor! We absolutely love HER! She took such good care of us every step of the way. The flowers that Rev Pam put together were beautiful, the wedding cake was absolutely delicious (and adorable), the photographer (Demitri) was very professional and talented, and our violinist (Emily) was incredible. We knew it was going to be a special day for us, but we had no idea just how special it was going to be. Rev Pam's personal touch and adaptability was just remarkable. She made us as comfortable as possible, and kept the whole day as stress free as we could have possibly hoped for. We lucked out and the weather behaved for us just long enough for us to have our ceremony in her lovely yard. It was absolutely wonderful. We strongly recommend Rev Pam and Pine Manor for your wedding! We drove (60) miles to have our wedding there and it was well worth it! She has so many options for whatever it is you are looking for in your wedding. Good Luck
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Pam Sent on 11/12/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pam is absolutely excellent. My husband and I chose to do the full day elopement package with overnight stay at a local hotel. Rev. Pam took care of ALL - and I do mean ALL - of the details. She booked our room. She booked our videographer and photographer. Rev. Pam took care of the cake, my bouquet, and other flowers. The music was beautiful and we were able to bring our own playlist as well. We danced the evening away, we had a romantic dinner by the fire. We had lunch in the garden. She cooked all of the food for us! And it was all DELICIOUS. There was unlimited house wine and personalized glasses for my husband and I. Every single detail was well thought out and amazing. The best part was Rev. Pam wrote a personalized ceremony for us. We were able to make edits and ask for special things to take place during our ceremony, and she was so welcoming and warm to it all. Seriously, I know it sounds too good to be true, but just try it. Set up a meeting with her. See for yourself. Our special day was so intimate, and we did not have to worry about a single detail all day. Having our wedding at Pine Manor with Rev. Pam was the best decision we could have ever made for ourselves. Thanks Rev. Pam!! With full and grateful hearts, thank you!
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Alexis Sent on 11/08/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pam planned the most beautiful garden ceremony for my husband and I on 10.4.17. From officiating, to the cake and house wine, to the photos, to my bouquet.. and all the memories in-between! I cannot recommend her enough. Our wedding was everything we ever dreamed of. <3
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Janet Sent on 09/06/2017
5 out of 5 rating
We just had our wedding on Aug 26th and Pam was the ribbon that tied it all together! She was both our officiant and the day-of coordinator. We were so thankful that we hired her for both services! It worked out perfectly. She got in touch with all the vendors and things and people just showed up where they were supposed to be at the right time, just like magic!! It was so stress-free! Everyone wouldn't stop talking about how friendly the staff were and that included her staff! Pam is personable, approachable, flexible, unpretentious, warm-spirited and keen. What else do you need, really? If we had to do it again, we'd SO use her again!
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Sarah Sent on 09/04/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pam is amazing! My husband is Jewish and I am Catholic. We wanted to ensure that our ceremony was meaningful - that it incorporated elements of both our backgrounds, but was unique and special. Rev. Pam helped create a totally special ceremony, one that included some traditional symbolism as well as some details we added to make it our own. We received so many compliments on how lovely the ceremony was! I never imaged having such a perfect, beautiful, special ceremony! No lulls, awkward silences. Pam really knows how to put on a good show. Highly, highly recommend Pam!
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Kelly Sent on 03/17/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Rev Pam is amazing! She was so quick to respond to my email. My (now) husband and I just wanted something very small and quick with a few friends and she was able to do that and still make it very special for us. I wouldn't change anything about that day :]
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
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Absolutely love this Vendor! Looking for a one-stop shop for your wedding? This is the Vendor to use! She will handle everything from photography to cake to hotels. She also hosts intimate weddings at her old Sear catalog home with a beautiful backyard garden. Lovely place to have a wedding and a wonderful woman to work with!

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