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Events by M and M

Full Planning
Partial Planning
Day-of Coordination
Destination
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Recommended by 98% of couples

About this vendor

Our planning process is tailored to our clients and their lifestyle needs. With flexible communication styles and easy meeting scheduling, we are always there when you need us. Our clients say it best, "The fairy godmother of weddings!"

We believe in transparency, see all the details here: eventsbymandm.com/services

Events by M and M is nestled in between Los Angeles & Santa Barbara, giving us great access to all your favorite vendors. What makes us stand out? Vision and Creation, plus over 15 years of flawless execution. Having trouble finding your photo inspo? We will create it for you - and you get to watch it come to life. We love a challenge and always keep a cool head no matter how high the stakes. One thing is for sure, you're going to have a blast creating your dream day with us! We're all about creating experiences with custom planning and design packages that fit your unique vision and event needs. We're here to turn your dreams into reality, from brainstorming and managing to making it all happen. Communication is key throughout the planning process. We start by getting to know your style, tailoring vendor suggestions, and helping you shape your initial vision. We'll put together inspiration boards, timelines, and guide you through the entire planning journey. Think of us as your trusty partners, there to ease the stress and make your special day truly special. Looking for something a bit more budget friendly, but need a dream coordination team? We offer that too! I can't wait to speak with you!

Love and Happy Weddings,
Meg Herzer

Features

Woman-owned

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FAQ

What is the starting price for day-of wedding coordination?

$1,000

What is the starting price for partial wedding planning?

$7,000

What is the starting price for full wedding planning?

$10,000

Do you offer an hourly rate?

Yes

What is the hourly rate?

$100

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Cultural
Destination
Double Weddings
Elopement
Eco-Friendly
Military
Non-Religious
Religious

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Reviews of Events by M and M

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Megan Sent on 01/12/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Seamless Wedding

From the first moment I spoke to Meg, I knew we were going to be in good hands. We hired M and M Events for their month of coordinating package. From the beginning, Meg was kind, communicative, honest, and knowledgeable. Her forms were so helpful in organizing the important details of the day, she really took the time to get the full vision of our wedding, and she went above and beyond helping us navigate some pre wedding drama. If the wedding day had bumps in the road, I didn't have a clue because Meg kept our day as stress free as possible, handled everything behind the scenes, and executed the day perfectly to our vision. I would absolutely recommend her to anyone!
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Dana Sent on 07/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Best Decision We Made: Hiring Meg

Meg was phenomenal. She pulled our wedding together in just a few months, helped us stay on budget while making every decor dollar count, and handled shifting plans with total calm. Everything within her control was flawlessly executed—and guests keep telling us it was the best wedding they’ve ever attended.
Haley
Haley Sent on 11/28/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Meg is the secret sauce to an SB wedding!

Meg was the best! A true industry veteran, she knew all the best vendors and 'hacks' to make our wedding weekend perfect. Whenever I had a crazy idea, she found a way to make it happen -- all with a smile on her face. Meg and her team made everything seem effortless (which I know it wasn't) and I'm so glad she was part of our special day. We did the full service package which I recommend!
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Sandra Sent on 10/26/2023
5 out of 5 rating

So Thankful For Meg & Team for Creating our Dream Wedding!!!

My husband and I got married in September at the Hilton Beachfront Resort in Santa Barbara, and we were in awe with the way our wedding day turned out, and how smooth Meg made the planning process for us. She also planned our Rehearsal dinner + Welcome Party at Margerum Wine Conpany, and that was absolutely lovely as well.

From the start of the consultation, she really puts effort into getting to know you both as individuals, and together as a couple. This is really helpful for the planning process and helps guide you in delegation of topics/tasks amongst yourselves and who she should reach out to depending on the what info she needs. ie my husband is more logistics and business, whereas I’m more interested in creative/design.

She is organized (heck yes to the spreadsheets!), detail-oriented, honest, understanding, patient (I’m the type who needs someone kindly keeping me on track for this kind of thing), and just all around fun to chat with. She has great recommendations for vendors and really is connected!

She really works on ensuring it’s YOUR special day and is flexible in going out of her way to make sure your dream wedding happens within your vision, culture, budget, (even family and guest opinions and logistics)

We would absolutely recommend her to anyone looking for wedding or event planning services in the greater Santa Barbara area.

Thank you a million, Meg!

- Sandra & Michael
Steffi
Steffi Sent on 09/01/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Best Day Ever

It's been over a year since our wedding with Meg and we only grow more and more grateful for her and her team as time goes on! We have been to several weddings since and are so happy to report that not once has something come up where we think "we should've done this better at our wedding."

We did the middle package with Meg which was perfect for us. I definitely wanted to play an active role in the planning so this worked out well for us. Meg was always there to send us off in the right direction and get us a head start. She didn't do everything for us (as expected) but having her to promptly answer and questions and bounce ideas back and forth with saved us a ton of time!

For reference, we had a substantial part in the day-to-day planning while both working full-time and attending school full-time. So it's a lot of work but totally doable if you stay organized and manage your time properly!

We highly recommend working with Meg and her middle of the road package if you are ready to put in work as well. She has so much knowledge and expertise with things that are so often overlooked, like general timeline and making sure guests have a pleasant and smooth experience at your big day.

Overall we loved our experience and would recommend that everyone read the fine print closely and discuss roles and responsibilities so it's made clear from the start what you're signing up for. If you sign up for a middle of the road package, that's what you're going to get and it's perfect if you want a substantial and active role in planning your perfect day!
Christina
Christina Sent on 10/18/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Only choose meg

So let me start by saying when you are planning YOUR wedding, you are looking for not only the best planner but someone who is capable of bringing your dream & vision to life. I found Meg after searching through many planners that I just felt weren’t right for me. I knew from our first phone call that she was the one for me lol so I booked her on the spot. So I live in New York and got married in Malibu, CA. Now planning a wedding is stressful but planning a wedding across the country is even more stressful....I thought. Little did I know I was planning a wedding across the country during COVID 19. After 3 trips and 1.5 years of planning with Meg, the entire world changed. Meg asked me if I wanted to move my wedding, I said no. She told me not to worry and we were going to make it happen anyway we can (following protocol obviously). I can truly say Meg looked into the rules and kept me updated on a daily basis. Not only did Meg follow rules and protocols to make my wedding safe for all my vendors and guests, she made my vision become a reality. Although we had a smaller guest list, we did not sacrifice anything short of what I wanted. The day was absolutely perfect thanks to Meg!
Not only did Meg make my dream come true in an unprecedented time, she was more than a vendor.... she was my friend. Meg was there for me every step of the way (Even the day of her own wedding when I was having a panic attack about my wedding, she answered the phone). Mind you I live in NY so It’s 3 hours earlier in the East Coast. Meg always answered me. This women is a wedding God. She did nothing short of an amazing job. If I had to go back to this extremely stressful time to plan a wedding, I would as long as Meg was my planner. She can make anything happen. I highly recommend choosing Meg. I can not thank her enough. Choose Meg! 😀
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Kirsten Sent on 10/04/2020
5 out of 5 rating

The Fairy Godmother of Weddings

Meg West is the fairy godmother of weddings. I highly recommend hiring Meg for all events and services you may be considering.
Planning my wedding during covid was nothing short of a nightmare. I had to deal with an unreasonable and irate vendor, my venue cancelling three weeks before the wedding, and countless other hurtles including reducing the guest list by 75% and so on. Through all the nightmare, Meg stood strong and helpful. She provided guidance and solutions to problems. She managed to find a last minute videographer, find a new venue with just three weeks to spare, and turned it into the most amazing wedding I could have ever imagined.
After my original venue canceled, I felt hopeless and stopped caring about everything. Meg managed to help me gain the excitement of the wedding back by pulling everything together in a last minute fashion. She communicated and planned with all my vendors, helped with the rentals of everything I didn't know I needed, offered solutions to SO. MANY. ISSUES.
The day of she had the schedule down and helped everything run smoothly. I had a huge wedding party she managed to control somehow and kept everyone on time. She really helped bring my vision together and transform it into the most amazing day. I mean, she literally even went as far to make sure my food (I was too busy/nervous to eat) was boxed up and placed in my room so I could eat it later. She helped me place together so many small details that brought so much joy to myself and my guests. Things like getting lemon bars delivered to the hotel room the night before the wedding to all my guests, and a light refreshing drink during the pre ceremony seating time. She really though of every last detail and helped make my wedding unique and special.

I love Meg with all my heart and will always carry a special fondness of her and her work. You will not regret hiring her. You will be so unbelievably happy and glad you did. She really is the fairy godmother of weddings.
Thank you Meg for all your work. You are amazing!
J
John Sent on 11/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Meg was the best!

Meg and her team were absolutely incredible! From the very beginning and each step of the way, Meg made our planning stress-free. She took the time to get to know us as a couple which allowed us to trust the team to put together our desired wedding experience. They handled all of the details, communication, and scheduling with each vendor. They provided us with very helpful guidance and suggestions -- especially since we live in NY and our wedding was in CA. On the day of our wedding, Meg made it so that there were zero decisions to be made, and our only focus was to enjoy our special day with our guests who all had an amazing time! Everything was seamless and fun and a day we will cherish forever. Thanks Meg for making our wedding so special!!
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Sarah Sent on 08/25/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Wedding at the Riviera Mansion, Santa Barbara

Meg was amazing to work with! From our first conversation with her, my husband and I both felt very confident that she knew exactly what she was doing. She had great advise and we loved her spreadsheets that she provided for tracking our guests, decor and budget. We brought Meg on as our "Week of" coordinator. On the week of, she was incredibly helpful in communicating and organizing with our vendors and made sure everything ran smoothly from the rehearsal and through the big day. I would highly recommend Events by M and M!
C
Catherine Sent on 08/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Adamson House Wedding!

Meg and her team were excellent! Right from the beginning she worked with us to help us envision the type of wedding we wanted, keep us on budget, and keep us on a good timeline. She was very knowledgable about the venue. Everyone has told us our wedding was one of the most beautiful they had seen, and it was all because of Meg and her team. The florist she works with in southern california was particularly amazing. We couldn't have done it without their dedication and vision, she comes highly recommended!
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Michael + Anna Costa Photography Michael + Anna Costa Photography Wedding Photographers

Meg of M and M Weddings is an impeccable designer and event planner! It is always an absolute pleasure to work with her!

Rila Stone Rila Stone Wedding Photographers

What a great company to work with. We highly recommend them for your wedding!

Jana and Co. Makeup and Hair Design Jana and Co. Makeup and Hair Design Wedding Hair & Makeup

What can I say about Meg and her staff?? WOW factor!! They are the best at what they do - and so fun to work with! Experience, professionalism and detailed oriented - everything it takes to make your wedding day perfect. Love these folks -

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