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Our planning process is tailored to our clients and their lifestyle needs. With flexible communication styles and easy meeting scheduling, we are always there when you need us. Our clients say it best, "The fairy godmother of weddings!"

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Events by M and M is nestled in between Los Angeles & Santa Barbara, giving us great access to all your favorite vendors. What makes us stand out? Vision and Creation, plus over 15 years of flawless execution. Having trouble finding your photo inspo? We will create it for you - and you get to watch it come to life. We love a challenge and always keep a cool head no matter how high the stakes. One thing is for sure, you're going to have a blast creating your dream day with us! We're all about creating experiences with custom planning and design packages that fit your unique vision and event needs. We're here to turn your dreams into reality, from brainstorming and managing to making it all happen. Communication is key throughout the planning process. We start by getting to know your style, tailoring vendor suggestions, and helping you shape your initial vision. We'll put together inspiration boards, timelines, and guide you through the entire planning journey. Think of us as your trusty partners, there to ease the stress and make your special day truly special. Looking for something a bit more budget friendly, but need a dream coordination team? We offer that too! I can't wait to speak with you!

Love and Happy Weddings,
Meg Herzer

  • Woman-owned

Frequently asked questions

Do you offer an hourly rate?

Yes

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Cultural
Destination
Double Weddings
Elopement
Eco-Friendly
Military
Non-Religious
Religious
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Reviews of Events by M and M

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Haley
Haley C. Sent on 11/28/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Meg is the secret sauce to an SB wedding!

Meg was the best! A true industry veteran, she knew all the best vendors and 'hacks' to make our wedding weekend perfect. Whenever I had a crazy idea, she found a way to make it happen -- all with a smile on her face. Meg and her team made everything seem effortless (which I know it wasn't) and I'm so glad she was part of our special day. We did the full service package which I recommend!
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Sandra M. Sent on 10/26/2023
5 out of 5 rating

So Thankful For Meg & Team for Creating our Dream Wedding!!!

My husband and I got married in September at the Hilton Beachfront Resort in Santa Barbara, and we were in awe with the way our wedding day turned out, and how smooth Meg made the planning process for us. She also planned our Rehearsal dinner + Welcome Party at Margerum Wine Conpany, and that was absolutely lovely as well.

From the start of the consultation, she really puts effort into getting to know you both as individuals, and together as a couple. This is really helpful for the planning process and helps guide you in delegation of topics/tasks amongst yourselves and who she should reach out to depending on the what info she needs. ie my husband is more logistics and business, whereas I’m more interested in creative/design.

She is organized (heck yes to the spreadsheets!), detail-oriented, honest, understanding, patient (I’m the type who needs someone kindly keeping me on track for this kind of thing), and just all around fun to chat with. She has great recommendations for vendors and really is connected!

She really works on ensuring it’s YOUR special day and is flexible in going out of her way to make sure your dream wedding happens within your vision, culture, budget, (even family and guest opinions and logistics)

We would absolutely recommend her to anyone looking for wedding or event planning services in the greater Santa Barbara area.

Thank you a million, Meg!

- Sandra & Michael
Steffi
Steffi H. Sent on 09/01/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Best Day Ever

It's been over a year since our wedding with Meg and we only grow more and more grateful for her and her team as time goes on! We have been to several weddings since and are so happy to report that not once has something come up where we think "we should've done this better at our wedding."

We did the middle package with Meg which was perfect for us. I definitely wanted to play an active role in the planning so this worked out well for us. Meg was always there to send us off in the right direction and get us a head start. She didn't do everything for us (as expected) but having her to promptly answer and questions and bounce ideas back and forth with saved us a ton of time!

For reference, we had a substantial part in the day-to-day planning while both working full-time and attending school full-time. So it's a lot of work but totally doable if you stay organized and manage your time properly!

We highly recommend working with Meg and her middle of the road package if you are ready to put in work as well. She has so much knowledge and expertise with things that are so often overlooked, like general timeline and making sure guests have a pleasant and smooth experience at your big day.

Overall we loved our experience and would recommend that everyone read the fine print closely and discuss roles and responsibilities so it's made clear from the start what you're signing up for. If you sign up for a middle of the road package, that's what you're going to get and it's perfect if you want a substantial and active role in planning your perfect day!
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner

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Team

Meg Herzer
Meg Herzer
Owner

Professional Network & Endorsements

11 Endorsements
Michael + Anna Costa Photography Michael + Anna Costa Photography Wedding Photographers

Meg of M and M Weddings is an impeccable designer and event planner! It is always an absolute pleasure to work with her!

Rila Stone Rila Stone Wedding Photographers

What a great company to work with. We highly recommend them for your wedding!

Jana and Co. Makeup and Hair Design Jana and Co. Makeup and Hair Design Wedding Hair & Makeup

What can I say about Meg and her staff?? WOW factor!! They are the best at what they do - and so fun to work with! Experience, professionalism and detailed oriented - everything it takes to make your wedding day perfect. Love these folks -

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