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Bali Hai Restaurant

Up to 200 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Clean Up

Why couples loved this venue

  • Unique aesthetic style
  • Quality catering
  • Guests comfort
  • Amenities
Brianna
Meg
Kindra
Michelle
Erica

Recommended by 96% of couples

What is the story behind Bali Hai Restaurant?

Celebrate your love at Bali Hai Restaurant, one of San Diego's most iconic waterfront wedding venues. Nestled on beautiful Shelter Island with panoramic views of San Diego Bay and the downtown skyline, Bali Hai offers a one-of-a-kind setting for couples dreaming of a wedding with a view. Combining tropical island charm, award-winning Polynesian-inspired cuisine, and exceptional hospitality, our venue creates an unforgettable experience for weddings, rehearsal dinners, engagement parties, bridal showers, and other special celebrations.

Facilities & Capacity

Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a grand waterfront celebration, Bali Hai offers versatile indoor and outdoor event spaces and a separate ceremony site with bay views designed to bring your wedding vision to life.

The intimate Tiki Room blends modern elegance with tropical character, making it the perfect setting for micro weddings, rehearsal dinners, and private celebrations for up to 32 guests.

For larger celebrations, the South Pacific Room accommodates up to 200 guests and features a private bar, permanent dance floor, and a bayside patio with stunning waterfront views, ideal for both your wedding ceremony and reception.

Couples dreaming of an outdoor celebration will love the Hawaiian Village, a customizable open-air venue inspired by the South Pacific. Surrounded by palm trees and bay breezes, this unique space provides a beautiful backdrop for waterfront ceremonies, sunset cocktail hours, and unforgettable receptions. Whether you envision an elegant coastal wedding or a relaxed island-inspired celebration, the space can be tailored to reflect your personal style.

One of the many conveniences couples appreciate is Bali Hai's complimentary on-site parking, making it easy for guests to enjoy your celebration from start to finish.

Services Offered

Bali Hai specializes in all-inclusive wedding packages designed to make planning simple and stress-free. From your first tour to your final dance, our experienced wedding and events team is dedicated to creating a seamless experience tailored to your vision.

Our customizable packages include event planning support, setup and cleanup, elegant tableside service, linens, flatware, glassware, and a variety of rental options. Whether you're planning an intimate waterfront wedding or a large reception overlooking San Diego Bay, our team is committed to delivering exceptional service and unforgettable memories.

Cuisine

Known throughout Southern California for its legendary Polynesian cuisine and signature hospitality, Bali Hai offers a memorable dining experience your guests will be talking about long after your wedding day.

Executive Chef Dion combines authentic South Pacific flavors with fresh California ingredients to create fully customized wedding menus. Couples can choose from elegant plated dinners, family-style service, tropical luau buffets, brunch receptions, cocktail-style celebrations, and beautifully curated hors d'oeuvres for cocktail hour.

To make your celebration even more personal, Bali Hai offers private menu tastings, custom bar packages featuring beer, wine, and premium spirits, signature cocktails, complimentary champagne toasts, and professional cake cutting service.

From breathtaking San Diego Bay views and spectacular sunsets to exceptional cuisine and personalized service, Bali Hai Restaurant offers everything couples are looking for in a waterfront wedding venue in San Diego, creating unforgettable celebrations that are as unique as your love story.

Features

Large team (21+ members)

Experience

  • 72 years in business

  • We speak English and Spanish

Links

Visit website

What does a real wedding at Bali Hai Restaurant look like?

Juli & Paul's wedding
Juli & Paul
10 photos
Mario & Nina's wedding
Mario & Nina
50 photos
David & Bethany's wedding
David & Bethany
29 photos

What are Bali Hai Restaurant's site fees and venue policies?

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$750

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Signature Drink

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

3

Describe your venue:

Historic Building
Restaurant
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Rentals
Outside Vendors

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer

What event items are available?

Aisle Runners
Altar/Arch
Chairs
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
July
August
September
October
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
November
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Bali Hai is a beautiful full-service venue with stunning views, plentiful photo spots (even a boat exit), and good value from generous inclusions. The events team is responsive and professional, making planning stress-free and the day run smoothly. Guests praised the food and drinks and enjoyed the late-night hours.

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Bali Hai is a beautiful full-service venue with stunning views, plentiful photo spots (even a boat exit), and good value from generous inclusions. The events team is responsive and professional, making planning stress-free and the day run smoothly. Guests praised the food and drinks and enjoyed the late-night hours.

Weddingwire
4.8/5 113 reviews
Google
4.4/5 3597 reviews
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Katie Sent on 08/30/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Dream wedding venue!

Bali Hai was incredible from the first tour to the very end of our wedding reception. Lesley is very knowledgable and super responsive, and she really makes the whole planning process so easy! We had a smaller wedding with 55 guests, and while they could have accommodated double that, the ceremony space and the South Pacific reception room felt perfectly full due to their custom layout. The serving staff and bartender were amazing, and everybody had food and a drink in their hand basically as soon as the ceremony was over! Being able to party until 11:30 PM instead of 9:00 or 10:00 at many nearby venues was also a huge perk. On top of all of this, Bali Hai is absolutely beautiful, and there are so many amazing spots for photos and even a grand exit on a boat. I can't recommend Bali Hai enough, especially if you are looking to have a full-service wedding on a DIY budget.
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Sydney Sent on 10/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding venue!! ⛵️🌊🍹

We are SO happy we got married at Bali Hai and our guests absolutely loved the venue. The staff, the food, the view, the drinks, everything was perfect. We were impressed early on with the planning process and coordinators. They made the whole year leading up to our wedding stress free and so fun. But our actual wedding day was beyond our wildest dreams and the staff made sure everything was perfect. We cannot thank Bali Hai enough for giving us the best wedding experience and wish we could do it all again.
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Hazel Sent on 01/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

10/21/23 The Chows Wedding

We are absolutely thrilled with the outstanding service provided by the Bali Hai Reception Events Team for our wedding venue. From the moment we began planning, their team displayed exceptional efficiency, professionalism, and informative guidance.

Our guests, hailing from different states and countries, are still singing praises about the seamless and enchanting experience. Brittany and Ashley’s prompt and articulate communication made every step of the wedding process incredibly smooth. They were always there to respond, ensuring our confidence in the success of our special day.

The attention to detail and dedication showcased by the team were truly commendable. We appreciated the thoughtful wedding card and delightful sweet treat, adding a personal touch to our celebration.

We look forward to visiting again soon and express our deepest gratitude for the wonderful collaboration. Wishing the Bali Hai team a Happy New Year filled with continued success.

Best,
Matthew & Hazel Chow
Brianna
Brianna Sent on 11/29/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best venue in San Diego

Bali Hai was the best choice for venue for us in San Diego. The price was great for everything it included (set-up/take-down, ceremony and reception space, food, bar). We only had to set up table numbers and the welcome sign—they set up EVERYTHING else (aside from the floral vendor but that was so easy to get arranged).

Brittany and Ashley were very knowledgeable and helpful during the planning, and especially the day of. The ceremony and reception went by so smoothly.

We did the buffet and tray passed appetizers and everything was delicious. The location was perfect and we honestly could not be happier with how gorgeous and fun our wedding was.
A very big thank you to the waiters who worked our event as well. Lee was my (the bride) personal server during the event and she made sure I had everything I needed and more. No other venue provided as much as Bali Hai does and that alone makes it a fabulous choice for any event.
S
Sandy Sent on 11/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely amazing

This venue is not only gorgeous but the staff is truly amazing. They made sure our day was perfect and follow up was great with their banquet planning team. our guests now want to look into Bali Hai for other events!
Meg
Meg E. Sent on 11/15/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Value & Stress-Free Wedding Day

Bali Hai is exceptional value for pricing and the team are experts with events and weddings. The events team are knowledgable, responsive, and flexible. The food is amazing, views are spectacular, staff are very friendly and attentive. Our wedding went down without a hitch, we were able to enjoy every minute of it.
Kindra
Kindra Sent on 11/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Wedding Venue! A must see location!

Bali Hai was incredible to work. I am very particular and they were always awesome every step of the way!
The venue itself is absolutely stunning. It was everything I envisioned it would be on wedding day! They even had a drink waiting for us after the ceremony! Top notch service.
I could not ask for anything more! Enjoy a few photos from our wedding.
Michelle
Michelle Sent on 03/03/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful and affordable

We booked the Bali Hai for our wedding in 2020, then the pandemic hit and we were so grateful that the Bali Hai allowed us to reschedule for a year later.
When we first visited the Bali Hai, we were blown away by the gorgeous outdoor spaces and we knew that we wanted to celebrate our special day there immediately. We found the Bali Hai at a wedding expo, pre-COVID, and we felt that it was one of the more affordable options and it included the ceremony site, food, basic drinks, cake cutting, tables and chairs, etc. This simplified the planning process while still allowing us to have some flexibility to choose our own vendors. The event planning team at the Bali Hai was awesome and accommodating through every step of the planning process.
Our wedding at the Bali Hai was a dream and everyone had a great time. Everyone raved about the food and the cocktails are amazing as well. I couldn’t recommend the Bali Hai more.
Erica
Erica Sent on 01/18/2023
5 out of 5 rating

The San Diego Best Venue!

Bali Hai was simply the best venue to have our wedding. We got married in November 2022 and had 100 people. We were in the South Pacific Room and it was wonderful. I am so thankful for Jenny, Brittany and all of the Banquet Staff for making our wedding day the best experience ever. I cannot recommend Bali Hai enough. They made everything so easy for us. I am just so pleased with this venue. Again, it is simply the BEST!
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Lia W. Sent on 11/19/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Awesome experience!

We just had our wedding at the Bali Hai on 11/11/22! We rented out the Hawaiian village and it was the perfect space for our 70 guests. A big shout out to Jenny at the Bali Hai who stuck with us from signing the contract down to the final details before the wedding . Communication is so important to me when planning a wedding and Jenny made sure to answer any of my questions within the same day :) if she couldn’t answer , someone else would on her behalf which was nice . Jenny is super sweet and everything on my wedding day turned out amazing! The staff was awesome and so attentive to my husband and I and our guests. I look forward to celebrating our anniversary every year at the Bali Hai ☺️ thanks again for making my dream wedding so easy to plan!
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What awards has Bali Hai Restaurant won?

113
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
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Vows From The Heart - Rev. Christopher Tuttle & Chaplain Mary Cyr Vows From The Heart - Rev. Christopher Tuttle & Chaplain Mary Cyr Wedding Officiants

Where could be even begin in giving our endorsements to the Bali Hai Restaurant? A 20+ year love affair with the food and the view. A 15 year wedding vendor relationship with the Baumann Family and easily over 100+ wedding ceremonies performed at the beautiful San Diego bay side location with such an awesome support staff where in addition to all this; we booked this very location for our daughter Sarah's wedding. Over the last 10 years, Larry Baumann and his family has donated their location to our www.militrymondays.net philanthropic outreach where in November 2015, we celebrated our 500th FREE ceremony to our active military. We love the Bali Hai!

Point Loma Village Florist Point Loma Village Florist Wedding Florists

The Bali Hai staff is accommodating and professional in every way. The setting is right on the water and the ceremony site is intimate and right on the harbor. The outdoor patio is the perfect size, and is also right along the water. The venue is memorable and modern.

Where is Bali Hai Restaurant located?

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Bali Hai Restaurant frequently asked questions

Bali Hai Restaurant includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Bali Hai Restaurant includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Bali Hai Restaurant includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by Bali Hai Restaurant for wedding events is known for:
  • Historic Building
  • Restaurant
  • Waterfront
Bali Hai Restaurant offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Bali Hai Restaurant offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Bali Hai Restaurant offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Rentals
  • Outside Vendors
Bali Hai Restaurant offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Aisle Runners
  • Altar/Arch
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
Bali Hai Restaurant is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in average response time, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.8 in professionalism and 4.8 in value.
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