(Here’s some context) Both me & FH young professional, we have good jobs, but we are >1yr out of grad school. Both of us put ourselves through college & have not asked of our Parents since 18(not pride, just havent). My Parents were never married to each other & live in diff states from each other and us and the wedding (FH home state). We already plan to pay for the whole thing. I am thinking my P will feel because of distance & money they aren’t apart of our plans. I dnt discuss planning w/ them is because we are having a big wedding & I know the issue of price will come up, I didn’t want them to feel like I was expecting them to pay. I am wondering when & how to ask if they will be contributing (should I ask)? Not that it would change our plans but it would make more since to discuss our budget & ideas w/ them if they planned to contributed. I am their oldest child & 1st to marry so I have no example to follow.
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