Call me crazy, I've seen it a lot lately though. Why are ladies planning a wedding and be planning in case of divorce at the same time? Doesn't that seem to be at ends with getting married? I get that there is a high divorce rate (although dropping due to the # of couples waiting until their 30s to get married). I get hoping for the best and planning for the worst. I just truly feel that if someone feels divorce is a possibility that they shouldn't get married. Am I alone in this?