First, I want to say that I am new to WW. I have been married for 19 years and am planning my 20th Anniversary Vow Renewal.
I am a military spouse and have always followed etiquette rules due to the lifestyle I live and the need for it. However, when my husband and I married 19 years ago there was a lot of turmoil surrounding family. With this, we decided to be married at the justice of the peace. We've had our wedding blessed by a priest, as we are both Catholic.
My husband has been deployed several times and is now in a position where he'll be home. Perfect time to renew our vows! The dilemma comes down to my mom, whom I love dearly. She suggested we renew our vows in the church and continue with our reception plans. I'm fine with this, but then she suggested I have my two sisters stand up for me and my dad walk me down the aisle.
Everything I'm reading says no when it comes to this, but I don't want to break my mom's heart either. Is this a line that is ok to cross?